fareast posted 10/6/2020 20:25 PM

Remind yourself often:

What exactly did she win? Looks like she lost all around. She lost the opportunity to build a life with a partner who loved her and was committed to her. She lost any pretense to having integrity or honor.
She lost your affection, your willingness to sacrifice for her, your compassion. She lost a good friend. Looks like a loser to me. You lost a cheater but gained a life. Keep on keepin on.