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Trying to Move Forward

BentandBroken posted 1/9/2020 08:34 AM

5 weeks since D Day. Long term relationship of 20 years, blended family with 3 adult children. WH cheated with a ďfriendĒ of mine and also with a co-worker. As far as I know both relationships are still ongoing. He moved out, at my request, on D Day. No contact with WH since then.

I am working hard to heal: weekly IC with an infidelity specialist, yoga, visits with trusted friends, maintaining outdoor activities, journaling. And Iím still absolutely broken. My story isnít new Ė the tears, sleepless nights, sick stomach, weight loss, trouble thinking, trouble breathing...constant despair with occasional doses of anger. I have spent hours reading this forum and my heart goes out to each and every one of you enduring the same pain.

I have been trying to maintain most of the behaviors and attitudes in the 180. I am not sure if his AP from work is married or not.

[This message edited by BentandBroken at 9:16 PM, March 10th (Tuesday)]

LLXC posted 1/9/2020 09:08 AM

Without knowing her maiden name I canít look up marriage records

She might not have taken her husband's last name. So you can look at marriage records.

Also. Look her up on facebook. If her account isnt public, you van ask ypur mutusl.acquaintance to friend her.

Or why not ask the mutual acquaintance to ask her if she is married. In a roundabout way, so as not to arouse suspicion.

Good luck

The1stWife posted 1/9/2020 11:56 AM

Try LinkedIn also. If she works she may have an account there.

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