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Just wanted to let you guys know

sorrowfulmate posted 10/14/2019 17:08 PM

a few days ago was the fifth anniversary of my finally telling the whole truth the ugly details of my affairs to my wife.

October 10th is the fifth anniversary of my polygraph this is the point where I came clean and started working on myself.

I have a lot of people on this site to thank for that. Some of them no longer post here, others still post. Thanks for kicking my ass and helping me realize what I needed to do to be able to make it this far.

WalkinOnEggshelz posted 10/14/2019 17:15 PM

5 years feels like a lifetime in those early days. I hope you two are doing well.

EvolvingSoul posted 10/14/2019 17:22 PM

Hi there sorrowfulmate,

It's really something, isn't it, when you look back and see where you were and when you like where you've gotten to now. BS and I once hiked up Yosemite Falls together and so much of that hike was just trudge trudge trudging up what at times felt like a hellishly steep and rocky path (with BS behind me literally pushing me along at times!) Every so often, though, we'd stop and admire the view and looking down on the parts of the trail we'd been on earlier I was amazed at how much higher we'd climbed.

The healing journey in the post-infidelity landscape has felt a lot like that to me, including the times when he had to push for me to make progress. You're someone I've watched through the years and from here it looks like you have made a whole lot of progress.

Stay the course, brother.

Best to you from a fellow EvolvingSoul.

hikingout posted 10/14/2019 18:08 PM

Congratulations! I love seeing posts like this!

BraveSirRobin posted 10/14/2019 23:46 PM

Thank you for sharing, sorrowfulmate. It's great to see posts that inspire hope.

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