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prissy4lyfe posted 6/29/2019 10:00 AM

I have heard this from a WS I work with. He didn't like my response...

That he needed to get the fuck over himself. Maybe his wife wasn't into sex....because he wasn't good at. The time he thought he was "hiding" his affair his wife knew on a visceral level what was going on.

He looked so shocked I almost shot lemonade out of my nose.

Yeah think sex is crappy with your wife...and she is probably laying there wondering if your ever gonna get get it right.

Your wondering if you will ever be attracted to her again....and she can barely stomach the site of you

AP was "better"...LOL. I told him of course she dont know how long your wife faked it do you? Your wife probably has been taking lackluster sex with you for years because she loved you.

This guy was REALLY floored That his wife could possibly have not been satisfied with their sex life. LOL. This asshat was focused on how HE was going to get the attraction "back" to his wife and never considered that HE was the problem. Never crosses his mind that he got bad sex with his wife because HE GAVE BAD SEX.

It was like I told him Santa wasn't real.

SisterMilkshake posted 6/29/2019 10:02 AM

Adlham posted 6/29/2019 11:05 AM

Wait, what?

Santa isn't real?!?

Seriously, though, A+ marks for you, Prissy!

Justsomeguy posted 6/29/2019 11:09 AM


HeHadADoubleLife posted 6/29/2019 11:56 AM

This is why we need a like button!!

Jorge posted 6/29/2019 12:03 PM

fareast posted 6/29/2019 12:12 PM


I would suggest that perhaps upon reflection into your insightful comments, this asshat might have second thoughts about his behavior.

Nah! Itís really hard to reflect on things with your head stuck so far into the hindmost orifice of the posterior! 🙄

prissy4lyfe posted 6/29/2019 12:23 PM

I mean....some of the shit that goes with this shitstorm I can wrap my mind around....

But this level of thinking... I couldn't contain myself.

I wasn't going to sit there and listen to him bitch about his lackluster sex life while his poor wife is reeling from the bullshit he put her thru.

I mean really..."I'm tired of lackluster sex" Buddy....I'm sure she has been tired for YEARS. GTFOH with that nonsense

[This message edited by prissy4lyfe at 12:24 PM, June 29th (Saturday)]

ChamomileTea posted 6/29/2019 12:27 PM

Damn, I wish there was an applause emoji!

BetterTimesAhead posted 6/29/2019 13:44 PM

This is awesome!!!!! Wanna talk to my WH? lol

cocoplus5nuts posted 6/29/2019 16:23 PM


cptprkchp posted 6/29/2019 17:16 PM

Iím a fWW and all I have to say is GOOD FOR YOU!! He sounds like a special kind of asshat - heís an assberet. It never ceases to amaze me how wayward waywardís thinking can get. Hopefully you planted a seed because what you said was very powerful.

That must have been very triggering for you and you handled it with dignity and grace!

Odonna posted 6/29/2019 17:48 PM

And why is this WS talking to you, a woman, about his sex life? That right there is crossing huge boundaries.

But I just love your response.....!!!!

imagoodwitch posted 6/29/2019 17:58 PM

Amen sister!

The further I get from the shit show that was my marriage, the more I see that my EXH didnít know what he was doing in the bedroom. He truly was awful.

eta: and clueless 😄

[This message edited by imagoodwitch at 5:59 PM, June 29th (Saturday)]

survrus posted 6/29/2019 18:20 PM


Love it.

It's amusing to see cheaters squirm when their audience doesn't agree with their excuses.

Remind him that his OW is someones Mother call her little Tommys Mother.

Remind him that his OW is someones Wife call her Bobs Wife.

Don't allow him to pretend he was helping the OW's family by some twisted logic.

They like to employ that excuse like they are philanthropists or something.

Remind him that even if the other family was having problems he made them worse like a predator who preys on injured animals.

Ask him why he didn't recommend marriage counseling for the OW.

Tallgirl posted 6/29/2019 18:53 PM

Prissy you totally rock!!!

prissy4lyfe posted 6/29/2019 19:33 PM

He is over sharer. I usually excuse myself or shut or shut it down. But I was a mood...and decided to call him on his bullshit.

deephurt posted 6/29/2019 20:01 PM

Good job prissy. I knew there was a reason Iíve always liked you.

Thislife posted 6/30/2019 07:36 AM

Bravo, Prissy... Bravo!
The look on a Waywards face when they realize ... shit - this might all have been me!
And boy, did my AP fake it and did my BS just stop faking iti.... Ego down- at least for a sec! So many things with so few words.
I hope that what you said plays over and over in his mind like a broken record .... maybe heíll start to ďget itĒ or at least look at it from his BSís perspective!
Good for you! Youíre a rockstar!

Emotionalhell posted 6/30/2019 07:51 AM

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