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Which Cliche was Your Relationship's Infidelity?

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emergent8 posted 4/30/2019 16:57 PM

Couldn't resist slutty co-worker's wiles after she told him she fantasized about him. Total cake-eater, said he was never unhappy but felt like he "deserved it".

He dropped her the second I found out.

waitedwaytoolong posted 4/30/2019 17:29 PM

Midlife crisis/empty nest/ choose the younger guy with the tool belt

HalfTime2017 posted 4/30/2019 17:45 PM

I think its midlife crisis, but she insisted it was "tru Wuv".

Her AP has ED, is a sex addict, his wife was pregnant at the time, and this is his 3rd affair that his wife caught him in.

But still, it must be tru wuv.

happyfromnowon posted 4/30/2019 17:54 PM

High school “sweetheart”

deephurt posted 4/30/2019 18:01 PM

the typical soccer/hockey mom scenario with the coach being a kisa and soccer/hockey mom needing advise and help from the big awesome coach that tells her that she doesn't deserve to be treated the way her horrible husband is treating her, while she tells my WH how awesome he is, great father, great friend.

Combined with mid life crisis and incorrect medication that made his anxiety off the charts worse and figuring why not since he is too smart to get caught.

Mizzbak posted 4/30/2019 18:14 PM

The OW was his running partner (looking for an out from her unhappy marriage). She's thoroughly divorced now - so, mission accomplished.
My fWH proposed for himself a ban on all opposite sex exercise partners now ... because endorphins.

BraveSirRobin posted 4/30/2019 18:22 PM

Innocent victim of circumstance. "I never meant for this to happen! Things just got out of hand!"

Hickoryapple posted 4/30/2019 18:26 PM

Innocent victim of circumstance. "I never meant for this to happen! Things just got out of hand!"

Forgot that bit ^. His variation was "I let it go too far. "

survrus posted 4/30/2019 19:20 PM

OM1, Coworker, Younger, lots of time alone, good looking, sad story

OM2, Doctor, met when I had an appointment

OM3, Doctor, Old old man, had the same condition as my Mother in law met at medical facility.

Goldie78 posted 4/30/2019 19:22 PM

COW who appealed to him because she was such a hard worker.

And 10 years younger....mid life crisis.

psychmom posted 4/30/2019 19:34 PM

Alex, I'll take "Midlife Crisis" for $400.

Add the "toxic state of our marriage" (which I agree is true)and his need for attention, validation, love, affection. But rather than address these issues directly with me (his wife) he chose to take the cheater path and rationalized his shitty cheating choices by blaming the marriage, me, everything except himself.


Tallgirl posted 4/30/2019 21:01 PM

Pretty Woman syndrome. Feel in love with a prostitute.

Anyone got a mail man?

staystrong101 posted 4/30/2019 21:22 PM

“But all men cheat! It’s just a guy thing n doesn’t mean anything. I love you!”

amethyst0323 posted 4/30/2019 21:51 PM

Mine was move to a country in South East Asia fall for a poor local girl (co-worker but they are paid an awful lot less than the expats) who wanted a white man.

Of course she is madly in love with him, not his money/life

I read about the country we lived in before we moved with people saying local girls will hound your husband and many cheat. I remember thinking no way will my husband cheat. Turns out I was completely wrong.

hopefull77 posted 5/1/2019 00:07 AM

Empty nest/ his father died / trip down memory lane and find the one you could have chosen instead...

littleAvocet posted 5/1/2019 02:06 AM

Wife’s best friend, his running partner, it felt like destiny, he never thought I’d find out. Yawn.

steadychevy posted 5/1/2019 07:09 AM

MLC/empty nest/same age as daddy when he abandoned her for his AP and her kids...more I can't remember on short notice.

LoveTKO posted 5/1/2019 08:34 AM

Mine was - met MOW at church music group. They would sing about Jesus and then go screw in the back of her truck

forthelifeofme posted 5/1/2019 09:00 AM

CH first A: He was her boss and they had SO much in common…for example, 12 years before they met they were in the same town for a year going to different colleges and had the same major. He hooked up with her again ten years later. I guess that common thread ran deep.
second A: top rooster in this particular circle of friends. OW was the second wife out of four he F***. I wonder who knows his true colors?

Hopeful4now posted 5/1/2019 15:25 PM

midlife crisis, the girl (literally) next door, they had a connection that he had never had with anyone else

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