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WW's New SO to move in..

LilBlackCat posted 4/23/2019 18:33 PM

So, today I found out through my younger DD that WW is looking to have her new SO (not AP) move in with her in the near future.

I honestly have nothing against him.. except this past weekend, I guess he decided to surprise her and just make the treck unplanned and unannounced till he was 5 hours into his drive? I dunno from where exactly. From what I know, he travels for work.

I would of had to assume she would of told him that her two elder kids and me were there celebrating the last day of my birthday weekend and Easter..

or not, cause it started in the morning where she started hinting at me to leave early.. then it became more up from that maybe we should leave earlier cause has "had plans". To the point I felt uncomfortable and said f this.. I have enough self respect that when really started to indirectly push me out.. then I said I am gone.. So I and my two eldest left pretty much after the egg hunt. It sucked cause we left at the peak of traffic time.. which turned a 4.5 hour drive to 7.5.. and WW knew this would be the case.

I already know that his kids are not very nice to mine (the younger ones) as his are older.

I know it's not my circus or monkeys per sey, but I get a bad vibe from this guy and my kids will have to live in it.

BobPar posted 4/24/2019 12:42 PM

I'm sorry LilBlackCat. The worry about kids and wanting to keep them safe is always stressful. Trying to coordinate co-parenting with someone acting the way your ex is, is really tough.

LilBlackCat posted 4/25/2019 11:52 AM

I am hoping to get my younger daughter to come live with me after summer break as she doesn't want to live with mom anymore.

stubbornft posted 4/25/2019 13:07 PM

Stop doing Easter/your birthday together....

LilBlackCat posted 4/29/2019 23:39 PM

WW is just all over the place.. today she contacted me to let me know that she is going to have AP move in with her.. She hinted about new SO, and related issues and what not.. I was like whatever.. thanks for letting me know..

Craziness, if you ask me..

Phoenix1 posted 4/30/2019 00:39 AM

And you're discussing this with her because....???

Kid issues only, LBC. Don't let her drag you into her crazy.

LilBlackCat posted 4/30/2019 12:59 PM

It was mainly discussed as now her place wont be a place the kids can hang out with me there.. For obvious reasons.

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