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Before you say reconcile...Recover!

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minusone posted 5/26/2016 05:37 AM

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minusone posted 5/26/2016 05:37 AM

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minusone posted 6/3/2016 17:00 PM

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Lyonesse posted 6/7/2016 19:42 PM

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minusone posted 6/15/2016 12:38 PM

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minusone posted 9/8/2016 06:38 AM

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sisoon posted 10/5/2016 10:51 AM

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minusone posted 10/25/2016 20:01 PM

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OneInTheSame posted 10/26/2016 02:10 AM

We are a little past the one year mark out from D-Day, and this is good to review to see if we have made progress. I have been re-reading my diary from a year ago, and plan to continue to see if there are any issues that are being swept.

Today I can see that there is a lot of work still to be done, and that there are some issues being swept, or tabled, or minimized.

One thing I might suggest be added to this advice is to be wary of shopping for happiness. We tend to have lots of fun shopping, but we really don't need anything after being together for nearly two decades! I think we have replaced real intimacy with the high we get from picking out a new wine, or adding to our collection of "bee" tablewares. We have gotten some false feelings of recovery, only to be unable to handle the next trigger and be almost back to square one!

20yrsagoBS posted 11/6/2016 20:07 PM

Just bumping for anyone who might need it

WhoIsHe posted 11/7/2016 12:50 PM

Great information. I'm going to print this and bring it to my WS.

Inminnesota posted 11/8/2016 19:12 PM

As I've been struggling to compose a contract of sorts for what I need for R, this is invaluable.

MultiplePain posted 11/23/2016 11:22 AM

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VERY GOOD READ!

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