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honey, they always affair down...

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heartbroken_kk posted 9/13/2018 17:01 PM

Hi Edie, if you can edit your first post on this thread to change the icon to a target it will be easier to find and bump. Your PM folder is full so I can't message you.

sisoon posted 9/24/2018 09:59 AM


Pinkypeach posted 9/24/2018 16:27 PM

Isn't this the hardest thing to believe initially! I am actually coming round to the belief that she really is a big step down and deserves pity

TidalWaves posted 9/25/2018 05:52 AM

I really needed this today! Thank you, thank you!

minusone posted 11/1/2018 12:48 PM


Heartbroken9 posted 11/1/2018 22:03 PM

I so needed to hear this! It is so incredibly true. I looked his AP up on FB and all I could say was why her??? She's not even a pretty girl. I'm no supermodel, but if he would cheat on me with her, he must really have lost interest in me or I have let myself go. I've come to realize I'm not the problem, he has issues. The AP was young, 18 yrs his junior, only 4 years older than his oldest daughter. That part really made me sick! I'm starting to see why she was a prime candidate for his lies. After talking to her, she is a broken person, and probably even more after he just tossed her aside. Thank you for reposting this!

AnnWithAnE posted 11/1/2018 23:42 PM

Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.

1Wvgirl posted 11/2/2018 04:54 AM

Thank you for this!I'm just recently betrayed. My husband cheated with an uneducated, trashy, most-likely-to-appear-on-Jerry-Springer type of woman. I couldn't fathom it. But this makes it make sense.

Edie posted 12/21/2018 16:04 PM

Hi Edie, if you can edit your first post on this thread to change the icon to a target it will be easier to find and bump. Your PM folder is full so I can't message you.

Ah thanks Heartbroken, does anybody know how I change it to a target?

Oh... and ...Bump 😊😊😊

[This message edited by Edie at 4:08 PM, December 21st (Friday)]

TwiceWounded posted 12/21/2018 16:13 PM

This is an amazing post... I just wish there was a version for us BHs. It just doesn't feel quite the same for us.

Ellie5 posted 12/21/2018 20:01 PM

First time I have come across this and, wow.. it means so much to me. Thank you so much for posting this.

Wenda posted 12/21/2018 20:41 PM

In my case the affair partner was cross eyed, had a massive face that required Botox to make it look like she had a chin and had black moles on both eyelids. Despite this she constantly took selfies of herself and posted them all over social media. She was also a narcissist with a low paying job and no education. He didnít leave me for her...he dumped her. She stalked him desperately for months and then met another man and got pregnant immediately to him so he would have to marry her. Not very flattering at all to my husband...she didnít want him, she wanted a sperm donor, lol. They get desperate when their biological clock is ticking away! They can only affair down because no one with any self respect would have them

Istayed posted 12/22/2018 17:32 PM

Thanks for posting this- itís great. My STBXWH abandoned me for the OW and filled for D almost immediately so he can marry said OW. Iím almost 2 months out from D day and itís been hell but I can honestly say that Iíve never felt that the OW is better than me. Iím not perfect but sheís a lying, selfish person who now is in a relationship with another lying, cheating person. They are both broken and this canít end well. I can look in the mirror everyday and know that Iím a class act whoís stronger than either of them. Iíll be great in time. I doubt they ever will be.

Want2BHappyAgain posted 12/24/2018 09:03 AM

BUMP for all of you who need to see this !!!

AbandonedGuy posted 12/24/2018 23:34 PM

Mine left for a guy 10 years older than me and certainly not better looking, probably with way less success potential (but she didnt realize that as I was pathetically unemployed and depressed at the time), and, in all likelihood, not nearly as interesting. Im torn between feeling sorry for her, being disgusted, and playing with indifference.

Skan posted 1/5/2019 11:33 AM


Edie posted 1/29/2019 08:02 AM

Bumpety bump

Shehawk posted 1/29/2019 08:23 AM

Crazynot you do give hope for a better future!

Thanks for taking the time to post this encouragement!

PurpleHat posted 1/30/2019 15:38 PM

This should seriously be a required reading for all new BS members.

Rustylife posted 1/30/2019 16:09 PM

Interesting. Not sure I agree with the always part. My XWW left me for a guy 6 years older than both of us. While he wasn't better looking than me, he earned a lot more at the time. I've since corrected that. His parents are absolutely loaded and he's the only child. So I'd call it affairing horizontally. Point is, we don't need these crutches to console us.There will always be people better looking than me, richer than me, more successful than me etc etc. Even if she had left me for Jason Momoa or Aaron Rodgers, my life is much better without that amoral piece of shit dragging me down.

[This message edited by Rustylife at 1:36 AM, February 28th (Thursday)]

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