tomz posted 10/13/2011 19:28 PM

WOW, I just realized that we never R'd with the first PAs 12 years ago. Why should I believe that we'll R with this one?

npain posted 10/13/2011 21:24 PM

Im 2 1/2 months past DDay and my WH is not remorseful at all.His fog is keeping him solidly in the right hand column. No transparency, angry all the time, and it's starting to affect the kids now too. I'm trying to pray and wait things out till the end of the year...

Fighting2Survive posted 10/18/2011 19:20 PM

bumped for the newly hurting.

Fighting2Survive posted 10/22/2011 17:43 PM

confusedbeyond posted 10/25/2011 15:04 PM

I am only a month out from D day but WS seems to be doing all these things. Am I too optimistic to think that maybe getting caught was the kick in the ass he needed tobring him back into reality. BTW- He ended the relationship and OW would not move on which is how I found out.

Fighting2Survive posted 10/28/2011 20:01 PM

UndecidedinMA posted 10/29/2011 07:03 AM

THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU!!

I just printed this and, boy, I love it.

This says it all so succinctly, perfect for being 6 weeks out from D Day.

GK109 posted 10/29/2011 08:31 AM

*bump*
I get the 180, but what/where is the tactical primer?

Fighting2Survive posted 10/29/2011 09:50 AM

Here's a list of all threads that are usually recommended for the newly hurting, including the Tactical Primer:

Tactical Primer:
http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=235051

Boundaries and Consequences 101:
http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=385631

Setting Healthy Boundaries:
http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=231851

Understanding the 180:
http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=232785

20/20 Hindsight: What I Wish I'd Done:
http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=161389

Great Posts for Newbies to Read:
http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=361740

Take2 posted 10/31/2011 07:07 AM

bump!

bufffalo posted 11/1/2011 02:10 AM

annb posted 11/3/2011 09:42 AM

bump

SabinatheOwl posted 11/6/2011 09:46 AM

Bump

bufffalo posted 11/11/2011 09:45 AM

marzipan posted 11/17/2011 10:17 AM

Fighting2Survive posted 11/24/2011 21:10 PM

annb posted 11/29/2011 16:25 PM

bump

Lost and Betraye posted 11/30/2011 15:52 PM

Bump

lostsuol posted 11/30/2011 16:49 PM

And again!

bufffalo posted 12/6/2011 01:04 AM