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Things that every WS needs to know

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HFSSC posted 9/1/2018 20:39 PM

Bumping for someone I care about.

Kitt posted 9/6/2018 01:59 AM

Wow....that made me cry reading that. I would love to hear that from my WW... Every part.

Take note WS out there.

EvolvingSoul posted 9/27/2018 19:45 PM

Bumping for the general good of the world.

EvolvingSoul posted 10/10/2018 17:50 PM

Bumped for Storm03

ThisIsNotMe2018 posted 10/11/2018 18:02 PM

I want nothing more than to do these things. I'm 3 weeks out from dday, WW, and my BH doesn't want to hear anything from me, or allow me to touch him. I'm just holding on for the day that he lets me hold him again, holding on to the hope that someday he'll be interested in my remorse and in having conversations about how he feels and what I can do to help him get through it. Right now I'm the only person he won't discuss it with.

EvolvingSoul posted 10/11/2018 19:35 PM

Oh great you've already read this!

There is still plenty you can do. Get a timeline together, with the entire truth of the affair. Everything you can remember, leave nothing out.

Start getting your toolkit together for dealing with difficult feelings in a way that is wholesome instead of destructive.

Keep working on educating yourself about the nature of infidelity and how it impacts the people involved.

Make sure you are completely transparent. Let him know when and where you're going to be and back it up with evidence. Give him all your passwords and access to your devices. Be an open book.

He might not acknowledge anything but he is very likely paying attention to what you do. What you say, that's not worth much right now. What you do is everything.

Proceed with conviction and valor.

EvolvingSoul posted 10/25/2018 20:17 PM

Bumped for damagedwife.

EvolvingSoul posted 10/31/2018 17:00 PM

Bumped for Paradox.

EvolvingSoul posted 11/5/2018 20:03 PM

Bumped for HTD2015.

EvolvingSoul posted 11/19/2018 16:57 PM

Bump.

EvolvingSoul posted 11/23/2018 17:12 PM

Bumped for Icandothis14.

EvolvingSoul posted 11/26/2018 22:10 PM

Bumped for Hat18

EvolvingSoul posted 11/27/2018 19:28 PM

Bumped for Lessonlearned713.

EvolvingSoul posted 12/18/2018 20:25 PM

Bumped for Layla1234hubby.

EvolvingSoul posted 12/27/2018 18:47 PM

Bumped for LittleLostGirl77.

EvolvingSoul posted 1/23/2019 20:54 PM

Bumped for Saxifrage.

Pippin posted 2/11/2019 09:55 AM

bump

EvolvingSoul posted 2/19/2019 17:56 PM

Bump!

PurpleHaze posted 2/28/2019 19:33 PM

Bump

EvolvingSoul posted 3/25/2019 20:08 PM

Another bump.

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