Notdaniel posted 12/1/2013 15:24 PM

This was a good read. I will say that betrayed spouses could react differently to some of it. I do have to communicate more and tell her why I want her and will work on doing that today. Spending time together is kinda mood dependent. I appreciate the insight into her mind.

kmom2662 posted 12/2/2013 08:20 AM

That was incredibly helpful to read. My BS is having trouble sleeping, panic attacks, lots of emotions all the time. I feel terrible for what I've done to him. I'm going to print this and keep it handy. I think it will help both of us sort through things

Unagie posted 12/7/2013 13:39 PM

Bump for Elasticman.

SisterMilkshake posted 12/9/2013 20:55 PM

*bump* for cricketinturmoil.

SisterMilkshake posted 1/10/2014 11:19 AM

*bump* for dolphin1111

lostandhopless posted 1/11/2014 18:21 PM

Bump

OnTilt posted 1/17/2014 06:10 AM

Bump

cantseestraight3 posted 1/20/2014 17:49 PM

OK, I think I found a way out of this one. I found the article (with some minor changes it seems) on another website. I will send her THAT link instead.

Somehow I feel safer supplying that little bit of misdirection.

Aubrie posted 1/23/2014 17:24 PM

Bump for EMO

foolishlycluless posted 1/23/2014 18:04 PM

This is a great thread. I want to provide it to my WS, but I'm not sure how he will react.

MessedUpAndDown posted 1/25/2014 17:06 PM

Mod please

Wayflost posted 1/28/2014 20:37 PM

bump

SisterMilkshake posted 2/6/2014 10:55 AM

*bump* for Ladybug.

somethingremorse posted 2/10/2014 13:03 PM

Bump -- should be on page 1. I look for it all of the time.

TennisTC posted 2/21/2014 13:07 PM

Bump

DTERMINED2SURVIV posted 2/21/2014 20:38 PM

BS here....LOVED IT. Definitely touches on the back and forth we feel. Even those, silent blank stares....Yes, we are thinking about it...HELP!!

LosferWords posted 3/6/2014 15:35 PM

Bump.

BtraydWife posted 3/20/2014 16:02 PM

Thanks! I bookmarked it too. Every WS should read this.

SisterMilkshake posted 3/31/2014 09:22 AM

*bump*

LosferWords posted 4/12/2014 16:53 PM

Bumping this to the top of the thread again. Great post for anyone who hasn't read it yet.