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Spelljean
Member
Member # 35624
Default  Posted: 5:35 PM, November 21st (Thursday)

Introverted, artistic, loyal, kind hearted, silly goof of a girl. (woman!)


WH: 41
me: BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY 8/2/12
OW: EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated

Posts: 903 | Registered: May 2012 | From: California
ShockedErica11
Member
Member # 37550
Default  Posted: 9:34 PM, November 21st (Thursday)

Aloof, analytical, artistic, spacey, gullible, quick, intellectual, searching, contradicting


Him (31): Taurus517 (17 mon EA/PA); others
Me (27): 3mo EA/PA (kissed once)
One too many D-days
(Full story: see profile)

Posts: 230 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Atlanta, GA
LMomof2
Member
Member # 41064
Default  Posted: 9:43 PM, November 21st (Thursday)

Loyal, hard working, caring, sometimes quiet, family oriented


LMomof2
Me - BW - 59
Him - WH - 59
35 yrs - 2 daughters 17, 21
DDay - 10-15-13
ONS - 9-20-13 and probably YEARS of gaslighting - signs were there.

Posts: 81 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: Pennsylvania
Emotionalhell
Member
Member # 39902
Default  Posted: 10:46 PM, November 21st (Thursday)

Giving, loving, analytical ,love to laugh & have fun,
Loyal , take promises & commitment seriously .

Posts: 84 | Registered: Jul 2013
sailorgirl
Member
Member # 38162
Default  Posted: 11:23 PM, November 21st (Thursday)

Logical and compassionate.
Adventurous but not an adrenaline junkie.
Active but love to read.
Optimistic, whimsical, insightful, deep.


Married 14 years, three amazing kids
H had 17 month EA/PA
D-day 1/5/13
Reconcilling

Posts: 787 | Registered: Jan 2013
5454real
Member
Member # 37455
Default  Posted: 11:35 PM, November 21st (Thursday)

above and beyond all else, faithful. I honor my commitments.

gregarious, humorous, fun loving.

and I can cook a meal for 20 and do the dishes!


BH 51, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 20(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 2665 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
Dreamboat
Member
Member # 10506
Default  Posted: 11:54 PM, November 21st (Thursday)

Stubborn


And it's hard to dance with a devil on your back
So shake him off
-- Shake It Out, Florence And The Machine

Posts: 17605 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: A better place :)
flup
Member
Member # 21259
Default  Posted: 11:59 PM, November 21st (Thursday)

Trusting. I trust everyone until they give me a reason not to. Which is what is making R so difficult. I don't deal with sarcasm very well, because I take what other people say for granted. Sometimes I feel abused and taken advantage of because of these properties, but I don't stray off the " high road".

Semper Fidelis.


Me: BS 55
Her: fWW 50

D-Day #1: 12 Aug. 2008. WW's 2nd affair w/college teacher.
D-Day #2: 18 June 2009. Affair #1 with neighbor was fall of 2002 - while I was coping with the fallout from 9/11.
Still trying to R.
22 years married


Posts: 428 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: Ohio
RidingHealingRd
Member
Member # 33867
Default  Posted: 12:13 AM, November 22nd (Friday)

Honest
Loyal
Generous
Helpful
Reliable
Creative
Perfectionist
Determined
Self assured
Demanding
Direct and to the point



ME: 54 BS
HIM: 61 WH
Married: 28 years
D'Day: 10/29/10
in R 3.5 years and it's working but he is putting 200% into it (as he should) to make it right again.

The truth hurts, but I have never seen it cause the pain that lies do.


Posts: 2109 | Registered: Nov 2011
lordhasaplan?
Member
Member # 30079
Default  Posted: 12:22 AM, November 22nd (Friday)

Ace Ventura.


D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
No life should be passively relinquished due to the toxicity of others and taking steps to protect yourself may very well be the most important steps you will ever take.

Posts: 1880 | Registered: Nov 2010
Vulcanized
Member
Member # 33523
Default  Posted: 1:21 AM, November 22nd (Friday)

smart, introverted, logical, smart-ass smart mouth, hi-fucking-larious (IRL), loyal, honest, artsy, internally a gay man (I've been told by many gay men)


Me: MH 40s; Him: MH 40s (I had RA)
OW: 30s, moron; one of many
M: 8 yrs
3/13: D'd
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Everything is as it should be.

Posts: 738 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Vulcania
blakesteele
Member
Member # 38044
Default  Posted: 1:29 AM, November 22nd (Friday)

Loyal, strong work ethic, stubborn, passionate, prideful.

Extrovert, easily distracted, like to be around people, enjoy attention, think out loud.

[This message edited by blakesteele at 1:30 AM, November 22nd (Friday)]


ME: 42 BH, I don't PM female members
SHE: 38 EA
Married: 15 years
Together: 17 years
D/Day 9-10-12
NC: 10-25-12
NC: Broken early November 2012, OM not respond
2 girls; 7 and 10
Fear is payments on debts you have not

Posts: 3577 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Central Missouri
Neznayou
Member
Member # 40654
Default  Posted: 1:42 AM, November 22nd (Friday)

t/j ... I'm curious: is your answer post-DDay different from what it was pre-DDay? How so? Part of my process has been figuring out who I am (or want to be); I spent too much time trying to be who I thought other people expected me to be (I failed, big time!). I am not even sure how to answer this question today.


Me: WW
Caught at AP's house: 10 Aug 2012
Admitted PA: 12 Aug 2012
TT ended: Jan 2014

"Power, Lincoln, real power comes not from hate, but from truth."


Posts: 210 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: America to Europe
Ostrich80
Member
Member # 34827
Default  Posted: 3:08 AM, November 22nd (Friday)

Loyal, quiet around strangers but bubbly with those.I love, when I make a promise I keep.it...no matter what, kind, I like to.be alone at least an hour a day, I'm up for any one that needs me, I.don't like to hurt peoples feelings, I get extremely uncomfortable when people get.confronted and even more when.I need to confront, I.don't like to be embarrassed and I hate to see others suffer embarrassment, I don't like my family to.know when I'm.upset. I smile when I'm nervous., I prefer the company of animals over people sometimes and all of the time with people who irritate me, I'm impatient

[This message edited by Ostrich80 at 3:10 AM, November 22nd (Friday)]


BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????

Posts: 4865 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: midwest
Topic Posts: 14