Topic: What's your personality?
Member # 35624
| Posted: 5:35 PM, November 21st (Thursday)|
Introverted, artistic, loyal, kind hearted, silly goof of a girl. (woman!)
me: BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
OW: EA- friend of 4 months
Posts: 903 | Registered: May 2012 | From: California
Member # 37550
| Posted: 9:34 PM, November 21st (Thursday)|
Aloof, analytical, artistic, spacey, gullible, quick, intellectual, searching, contradicting
Him (31): Taurus517 (17 mon EA/PA); others
Me (27): 3mo EA/PA (kissed once)
One too many D-days
(Full story: see profile)
Posts: 229 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Atlanta, GA
Member # 41064
| Posted: 9:43 PM, November 21st (Thursday)|
Loyal, hard working, caring, sometimes quiet, family oriented
Me - BW - 59
Him - WH - 59
35 yrs - 2 daughters 17, 21
DDay - 10-15-13
ONS - 9-20-13 and probably YEARS of gaslighting - signs were there.
Posts: 81 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: Pennsylvania
Member # 39902
| Posted: 10:46 PM, November 21st (Thursday)|
Giving, loving, analytical ,love to laugh & have fun,
Loyal , take promises & commitment seriously .
Posts: 79 | Registered: Jul 2013
Member # 38162
| Posted: 11:23 PM, November 21st (Thursday)|
Logical and compassionate.
Adventurous but not an adrenaline junkie.
Active but love to read.
Optimistic, whimsical, insightful, deep.
Married 14 years, three amazing kids
H had 17 month EA/PA
Posts: 787 | Registered: Jan 2013
Member # 37455
| Posted: 11:35 PM, November 21st (Thursday)|
above and beyond all else, faithful. I honor my commitments.
gregarious, humorous, fun loving.
and I can cook a meal for 20 and do the dishes!
BH 50, WW 41
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 19(Hers),DS 8 Ours, DGS 2 1/2
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
“I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.”
― Sophocles, Antigone
Posts: 2063 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
Member # 10506
| Posted: 11:54 PM, November 21st (Thursday)|
And it's hard to dance with a devil on your back
So shake him off
-- Shake It Out, Florence And The Machine
Posts: 17271 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: A better place :)
Member # 21259
| Posted: 11:59 PM, November 21st (Thursday)|
Trusting. I trust everyone until they give me a reason not to. Which is what is making R so difficult. I don't deal with sarcasm very well, because I take what other people say for granted. Sometimes I feel abused and taken advantage of because of these properties, but I don't stray off the " high road".
Me: BS 55
Her: fWW 50
D-Day #1: 12 Aug. 2008. WW's 2nd affair w/college teacher.
D-Day #2: 18 June 2009. Affair #1 with neighbor was fall of 2002 - while I was coping with the fallout from 9/11.
Still trying to R.
22 years married
Posts: 426 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: Ohio
Member # 33867
| Posted: 12:13 AM, November 22nd (Friday)|
Direct and to the point
ME: 53 BS
HIM: 60 WH
Married: 28 years
in R 3.5 years and it's working but he is putting 200% into it (as he should) to make it right again.
The truth hurts, but I have never seen it cause the pain that lies do.
Posts: 1967 | Registered: Nov 2011
Member # 30079
| Posted: 12:22 AM, November 22nd (Friday)|
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10)
Posts: 1796 | Registered: Nov 2010
Member # 33523
| Posted: 1:21 AM, November 22nd (Friday)|
smart, introverted, logical, smart-ass smart mouth, hi-fucking-larious (IRL), loyal, honest, artsy, internally a gay man (I've been told by many gay men)
Me: MH 40s; Him: MH 40s (I had RA)
OW: 30s, moron; one of many
M: 8 yrs
3/13: D'd; free of the overgrown baby
Everything is as it should be.
Posts: 625 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Vulcania
Member # 38044
| Posted: 1:29 AM, November 22nd (Friday)|
Loyal, strong work ethic, stubborn, passionate, prideful.
Extrovert, easily distracted, like to be around people, enjoy attention, think out loud.
[This message edited by blakesteele at 1:30 AM, November 22nd (Friday)]
ME: 42 BH
SHE: 38 EA
Married: 15 years
Together: 17 years
NC: Broken early November 2012 by 1 email to OM...OM did NOT respond.
2 girls; 7 and 10
Fear is payments on debts you have not yet incurred...may never incur.
Posts: 2669 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Central Missouri
Member # 40654
| Posted: 1:42 AM, November 22nd (Friday)|
t/j ... I'm curious: is your answer post-DDay different from what it was pre-DDay? How so? Part of my process has been figuring out who I am (or want to be); I spent too much time trying to be who I thought other people expected me to be (I failed, big time!). I am not even sure how to answer this question today.
The consequences of telling the truth are that one becomes trustworthy... not all that other shit I worried about.
Me: luckiest FWW ever
Him: strong and loving BS
A: 58 days
Married 19 yrs, shooting for 40+
Posts: 103 | Registered: Sep 2013
Member # 34827
| Posted: 3:08 AM, November 22nd (Friday)|
Loyal, quiet around strangers but bubbly with those.I love, when I make a promise I keep.it...no matter what, kind, I like to.be alone at least an hour a day, I'm up for any one that needs me, I.don't like to hurt peoples feelings, I get extremely uncomfortable when people get.confronted and even more when.I need to confront, I.don't like to be embarrassed and I hate to see others suffer embarrassment, I don't like my family to.know when I'm.upset. I smile when I'm nervous., I prefer the company of animals over people sometimes and all of the time with people who irritate me, I'm impatient
[This message edited by Ostrich80 at 3:10 AM, November 22nd (Friday)]
Been with him over half my life
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..divorced slut who prefers committed men, specializing in befriending and bopping the fathers of her kids team mates
Posts: 3946 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: midwest
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