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whiteflower99
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Angry  Posted: 8:07 PM, November 17th (Sunday)

Anyone else dealing with CRAZY ass unsupportive family members? I swear I feel like I am fighting a war on two fronts. My husband and my mother. Both textdbook narcissists, both manipulative as hell.

Latest gem from STBX- I am looking for a strong independent woman, not someone who runs home to mommy every time there is an issue.
My response? Really? You HAD a strong independent woman. You killed her in 2007 when you fucked your coworker. Your affairs rocked my world and destroyed me. I'm sorry it took me 7 years to rebuild, but I did it alone. You realize what you've just said is the equivalent of a man beating the crap out of his wife and then bitching her out because she doesn't look her best?? And you continue to refer to your affairs as issues like they were minor misunderstandings... kiss my ass.

And mother, I am sorry my teenage kids feel comfortable enough around you to act out. I will ensure they know your love is conditional based upon their obedience from now on.

[This message edited by whiteflower99 at 8:09 PM, November 17th (Sunday)]


What are you pretending not to know?

me FBS
him idiotic sex addicted, hormone addled, porn watching, post pubescent male with a walking hard on for anything without a penis
4 kids 15 13 12 8
Earned my *F* the hard way; no longer defining mysel


Posts: 1754 | Registered: Mar 2007 | From: Greensboro, NC
hardtimesinlife
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Member # 10468
Default  Posted: 8:15 PM, November 17th (Sunday)

(((whiteflower99)))


Ddays 2004 & 2007
I cut my losses mid 2013
Feeling happier every day :)

Posts: 6146 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Florida
SummerStorm21
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Member # 41320
Default  Posted: 8:25 PM, November 17th (Sunday)

Ugh! The two people who should have your back! I'm so sorry.


BW

Posts: 112 | Registered: Nov 2013
cantgetup
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Member # 36146
Default  Posted: 8:34 PM, November 17th (Sunday)

No patience for this kind if smack talk. I just can't believe
What comes out of their mouths. The more I read crap like this the more I see they are all different...but all the same. And each one thinks they're the special different one. You could throw them all in a heap and not be able to find your own WS.

Posts: 319 | Registered: Jul 2012
whiteflower99
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Member # 13937
Default  Posted: 6:02 AM, November 18th (Monday)

I just wish my mother would back off. None of this is easy.


What are you pretending not to know?

me FBS
him idiotic sex addicted, hormone addled, porn watching, post pubescent male with a walking hard on for anything without a penis
4 kids 15 13 12 8
Earned my *F* the hard way; no longer defining mysel


Posts: 1754 | Registered: Mar 2007 | From: Greensboro, NC
Topic Posts: 5