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RavenLocks
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Default  Posted: 12:31 PM, September 26th (Thursday)

I sent WH a text to see how his day is going. He is on a new schedule and is off Thurs, Fri & Sat. It makes me crazy that he is off and I'm at work. He doesn't usually call or text me when I am at work...he always claims he's busy running errands. His "errands" used to be going to see the AP...so i am naturally uncomfortable when he says he's running errands. Brings back memories... Anyways..i sent him a text and instead of replying he calls me. I answer...and ask how he is. His tone is harsh...he sounded annoyed. I instantly knew that he felt like I was checking in on him and not trying to be genuinely concerned about his well being..
I feel like our relationship is doomed...we can't even communicate! HE gets defensive...and makes me feel like crap! We have a MC appointment tonight...I'm not looking forward to going.

I don't even look forward to going home anymore to be with him. How freakin' sad is that? Anyone else feel this way?


BS:34
H:34
MARRIED:7 YEARS
SON: 11 MONTHS
DDAY1: 03/2006
DDAY2: 05/2013

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Default  Posted: 12:42 PM, September 26th (Thursday)

I'm sorry he hurt your feelings. But he's the one that called you so his anger is definitely misplaced.

Is it possible that you can talk to him when you're both home together? Let him know how this makes you feel and as long as he continues like this, you're never going to feel secure and start your healing.

He really needs to understand how this affects you.


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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