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Undefinabl3
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Helpless  Posted: 8:33 AM, September 5th (Thursday)

Until our dairy farm will have to shut down.

Its been a crazy few weeks though that's for sure. My cousin finally called the local news crew that looks into things, and lets just say it turns out there's some political connections here.

It probably won't save the farm, but it could put a pretty black eye on the State Environmental Coordinator at USDA Rural Development person here. Apparently his family farm, that his father still runs got some of the stolen milk.

The dad went to school and was in the FFA with my great uncle (who actually physically owns the farm and land, just doesnt run the daily operations anymore). And they HATED each other. Never once got along.

Anyway...the news reporter had some good dirt and will be shinning a light onto all this maybe in the next couple of weeks.

Meanwhile, we are having to find farms willing to take our milking heifers, our pregnant dry heifers, and our calves.

The ones that don't get homes....well, lets just say that they will be no long for this earth. We would have no other option, they would have to be sold to slaughter.

My cousin is pretty much beside himself, farming is all he knows how to do.


Me: 31 MH
Him: 37 MH
New online find 6/19/14 - shit

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Default  Posted: 8:45 AM, September 5th (Thursday)

Sending mojo to you


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 10:15 AM, September 5th (Thursday)

I'm so sorry.

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purplejacket4
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Default  Posted: 11:03 AM, September 5th (Thursday)

THAT SUCKS! I'll be praying for your family.


Me: BS 45
Her: fWS 48 (same sex partner)
Together: 18 years now (both MDs)
OW: meh so what 40s PhD
DD1: 10/30/11EA; DD2: 11/10/11 Had ONS; TT until 12/26/11; broke NC 6/12; NC again 7/12; R-ish

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Undefinabl3
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Default  Posted: 8:26 AM, September 6th (Friday)

The worst part is my Cousin is playing the denial game....As if not looking at a calendar will make the day not come.

He's made no real plans for anything.

I asked him what his next step is, and he said sort of jokingly that killing himself is always an option.

Knowing him - most of me doubts that this would not happen.....but I told DH, i told my great uncle, and asked my great uncle to mention something to my cousins father just in case.

I realize that we will no lose the land, we will not lose the 'farm' just his current way of life.

I explained that there WERE options. Apply for some grants, change the type of animal he farms, change the whole operation....but he's circling the drain and all he can see is the bottom rather then looking up to see if anyone is throwing him a rope.


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New online find 6/19/14 - shit

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Default  Posted: 8:28 AM, September 6th (Friday)

I hope he looks up and finds that rope quickly


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


Posts: 52599 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
Kalleigh
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Default  Posted: 9:26 AM, September 6th (Friday)

Why are they shutting it down


I love my husband and kids, but there is something missing, LIKE MAYBE A LIFE!!!!!!!

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Undefinabl3
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Default  Posted: 10:07 AM, September 6th (Friday)

Why are they shutting it down

If there is no one to pick up our milk, then there's no reason to have dairy cows.


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New online find 6/19/14 - shit

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Undefinabl3
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Default  Posted: 2:32 PM, September 12th (Thursday)

Well, I posted our story on various different social media sites and while its gotten hits and such, nothing really changed.

So, next week we will start contacting local sources for the herd.

Makes me want to egg and TP every Dean's place i can get to.


Me: 31 MH
Him: 37 MH
New online find 6/19/14 - shit

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