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Unagie
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Default  Posted: 12:07 PM, August 29th (Thursday)

I'm throwing this out there before I lose my nerve. I want to see how many people would be interested in NYC G2G so I could get a ballpark number. It would be for some time at the end of September-mid October. Let me know guys!

Dates TBA NYC G2G

Possibles:
Broevil
Chicho
Cryingdaily
Amazonia +1
Sad in AZ
Sadflower
Cantaccept
Therealdeal

For sures:
Unagie
Justdone
Fireflies

I had to list myself because knowing me when I go to make reservations I'll forget to put me down.

[This message edited by Unagie at 6:02 PM, September 28th (Saturday)]


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Default  Posted: 12:42 PM, August 29th (Thursday)

I would be interested depending on how the job situation shapes up.


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Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 9:09 PM, August 29th (Thursday)

Maybe? Sat night would be most realistic for me to take the train up and be home in time for work Monday.


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Unagie
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Default  Posted: 8:14 AM, August 30th (Friday)

I could do a saturday night, sunday morning/afternoon thing.


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Default  Posted: 9:23 AM, August 30th (Friday)

I could do a week & a half long thing...


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Unagie
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Default  Posted: 10:01 AM, August 30th (Friday)


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Default  Posted: 12:27 PM, August 30th (Friday)

I'll be watching for dates


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Unagie
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Default  Posted: 1:49 PM, August 30th (Friday)

So 4 people so far. 4 is more then enough to start making plans. I'll look up dates and see what places look good for food. Carmines is great Sicilian food and its family style. Heartland Brewery is pretty delish too. I'll be posting dates soon.


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Default  Posted: 3:25 PM, August 30th (Friday)

Oh, yeah, Carmine's - theater district. They make the best penne alla vodka ever.

And don't get me started on their breadbasket...


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Unagie
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Default  Posted: 6:51 PM, August 30th (Friday)

Their breadbasket is amazing in all ways.

ETA: THEIR RED WINE SANGRIA OMG!!!

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SadFlower
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Default  Posted: 4:01 PM, September 6th (Friday)

I might be able to make a NYC G2G later this month or in October. Put me down tentatively.


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 4:10 PM, September 6th (Friday)

I'm going to be in the NJ/NYC area on business the first week of October. I'll keep an eye on these plans, just in case.


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Unagie
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Default  Posted: 4:58 PM, September 6th (Friday)

Gotcha guys I was thinking maybe the 12th and the 13th. I need to know who is able to come because I'd be asking for these days off and need some time to request the days off and swap them for my regular days off.


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Default  Posted: 7:05 PM, September 6th (Friday)

We're a possibility! Our weekends are pretty busy thru November, but We'll check in here and see if we can make it.

ETA: FYI that is Comic con weekend, don't know if that matters, just sayin'

[This message edited by broevil at 7:06 PM, September 6th (Friday)]


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cantaccept
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Default  Posted: 5:22 AM, September 7th (Saturday)

it might be a possibility for me also. I would love to meet some of you irl.

My birthday is the 14th. It sure would be different than last year!!!

Are h's welcome?


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Default  Posted: 6:43 AM, September 7th (Saturday)

Please put me down as interested if its October 12/13 or after.


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Unagie
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Default  Posted: 7:39 AM, September 7th (Saturday)

Yes anyone is welcome. I will put a list of for sures and possibles together as I get responses.


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Default  Posted: 8:35 AM, September 7th (Saturday)

I'm a strong possibility. Stronger if someone can recommend a really affordable hotel.


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Default  Posted: 8:45 AM, September 7th (Saturday)

I'd be able to make it in October.


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Default  Posted: 8:51 AM, September 7th (Saturday)

I would probably go down and back the same day-Saturday. Let me know as soon as you have an idea of your plans, as I want to travel by Amtrak.


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Default  Posted: 2:29 PM, September 7th (Saturday)

The 14th is a federal holiday, so that helps make it easier on us out-of-towners who want to come

I might have a +1 tagging along.


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Unagie
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Default  Posted: 9:30 PM, September 7th (Saturday)

Okay I started listing the possibles and for sures. I'll continue to update the list as I hear. I am thinking Carmines (Sicilian) or Republic (thai food), El Cantinero (mexican), or Momofuku (ramen). Let me know opinions for food. I'm looking up stuff to do Sunday.

Also I'm super nervous about this. I never put myself out here like this and I hope when we meet I'm not super introverted but I can get really shy.

[This message edited by Unagie at 6:19 AM, September 8th (Sunday)]


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Default  Posted: 6:01 AM, September 8th (Sunday)

Also Ama what's affordable to you? I can see if I can find some deals.


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Default  Posted: 7:22 AM, September 8th (Sunday)

150


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Default  Posted: 9:33 AM, September 8th (Sunday)

Mk let me do some digging.


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Default  Posted: 9:37 AM, September 8th (Sunday)

t/j We ate at Republic when I went to visit DS and it was really good!!! end t/j


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Default  Posted: 9:40 AM, September 8th (Sunday)

Unagie - Unfortunately, I'll be back in flyover land by the weekend and won't be able to attend. Have a great time!


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Unagie
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Default  Posted: 12:38 PM, September 8th (Sunday)

NIK you make me have a sad panda face. I really was looking forward to meeting you but I'll catch you next time.


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Default  Posted: 10:47 AM, September 9th (Monday)

Bump


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Default  Posted: 3:43 AM, September 10th (Tuesday)

Tio Pepe is great for a large group. Matter of fact the West Village is always a great place to eat and meet up. You can get almost any type of cusine within walking distance of West 4th Street. And its super accessible from anywhere in the city.


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Default  Posted: 8:55 AM, September 10th (Tuesday)

For $150/night in NYC ...


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Default  Posted: 7:33 PM, September 10th (Tuesday)

TR no scaring people away!!


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Unagie
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Default  Posted: 8:30 PM, September 23rd (Monday)

Hey guys I'm sorry I cant get the time off so changing the dates to a later time. I'll keep you all updated.


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Default  Posted: 4:52 AM, September 28th (Saturday)

Please let me know when.

This was going to be a first act of "anti-isolation".

Just delayed, but if I can get the time when you reschedule. I am definitely in, alone.


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Default  Posted: 6:08 AM, September 30th (Monday)

I am definitely interested! Please keep me posted!


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