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User Topic: When you're damned if you do and damned if you don't
1DumbHusband
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Stop  Posted: 9:30 PM, August 23rd (Friday)

How do you deal with the times where EVERYTHING you say or do is the wrong thing? There have been times when my loving BS has gotten so angry and furious that every question feels like entrapment and no matter what I say...it's gonna be wrong. I try to tell her I am making changes in my actions and ways of thinking, but it sometimes feels like she doesn't care. "That's great you're making changes and TRYING to be better, but what does that do for me and how does that help MY pain?!?!" How do you help your BS come down from the top of "Anger mountain" in these circumstances and what do you do to reassure them?


Me: FWH 34
Her: 31 and deserving much better than I've given her (CCW82)
Married 4 years, together 6 years.
D-Day: June 17th, 2013
"Don't give up. You're married until you're not. You never know what tomorrow will bring."

Posts: 121 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Dallas
1DumbHusband
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Member # 40239
Default  Posted: 9:33 PM, August 23rd (Friday)

Sorry I want responses from both sides and started the same thread twice. Mods please delete this one.


Me: FWH 34
Her: 31 and deserving much better than I've given her (CCW82)
Married 4 years, together 6 years.
D-Day: June 17th, 2013
"Don't give up. You're married until you're not. You never know what tomorrow will bring."

Posts: 121 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Dallas
Topic Posts: 2