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BeyondBreaking
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Default  Posted: 4:00 PM, August 5th (Monday)

So last night, I was supposed to pick up DD from my ex's house. I asked if he could drop her off instead, and I offered to give him gas money.

Ex was supposed to drop DD over at 7. STBH (5 days!!!) was supposed to be home at 6:30. Perfect...I hopped in the shower at 6:20.

All of a sudden, door to the bathroom opens, and DD comes into the bathroom. I quickly finished up, and asked her 4 year old little self if STBH was home (I figured that would be how she got in the house). She said yeah, and went off to her bedroom. So I finished rinsing shampoo out of my hair, and walked out of the bathroom without my towel on. Walked out into the living room, and was surprised to find STBH NOT home, and my ex standing in the doorway. I guess the door had been unlocked, and he came early with DD, so she just opened the door and came into the house. He didn't want to just leave her there with me in the shower and no other adults in the house, so he stood at the door waiting for me to come out. And I did, completely naked!!!

SO EMBARRASSING!

Of course ex made it so awkward, eyes bugging out of his head and not even attempting to look away, and went, "Oh hey, I like the new piercings. Those are hot." (I have my tits pierced and a christina piercing as well- which is above the clit- they are hardly new, but new to him since he hasn't seen anything in 4 years)

Unbelievable!

So, for anyone who is annoyed or having a bad day...it could be worse. Your idiot ex could have just seen you naked. :(


I have been cheated on by 3 different men, and I have more DDays than anyone ever should. I am here, just trying to pickup the pieces.

At least the current man "only" cyber-cheated.

"Love means never having to say you're sorry."


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gma56
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Default  Posted: 4:13 PM, August 5th (Monday)

What can you do but
Well at least he liked piercings..
What can ya say other than, Ooooops.


[This message edited by gma56 at 4:14 PM, August 5th (Monday)]


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Ashland13
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Default  Posted: 4:24 PM, August 5th (Monday)

It's been strange for me to feel self conscious in front of nearly ExH, I agree with you there...and that's with clothes on!

Good for you, it sounds like you "held your own".

A friend of mine, fellow BS, would have said, "my new BF likes them, too!"


Ashland 13

The only thing that stays the same, is change. -M. Etheridge


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BeyondBreaking
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Default  Posted: 5:03 PM, August 5th (Monday)

Of course I told STBH...he laughed about it and was totally cool with it (I mean it was an accident).

His response? "At least he was complimentary. My ex would have told me I got fat, or pointed and laughed or something." Hahaha, true that.


I have been cheated on by 3 different men, and I have more DDays than anyone ever should. I am here, just trying to pickup the pieces.

At least the current man "only" cyber-cheated.

"Love means never having to say you're sorry."


Posts: 811 | Registered: Jan 2013
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 5:37 PM, August 5th (Monday)

OMG, why did I just Goog Christina piercing???


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 elementary school-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
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Skan
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Default  Posted: 10:16 PM, August 5th (Monday)

Me too, NG, me too!


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kernel
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Default  Posted: 9:03 PM, August 6th (Tuesday)

Now he knows what he's missing!


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% - and that's pretty good."

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