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jimbo25319
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Default  Posted: 6:33 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

My WW is out right now with her OM having dinner at a local restaurant.

My son and I are out of town, purposely I might say.

Tracking her vehicle via GPS. My PI is due to be surveiling her tonight. Hopefully he's on her right now snapping a mess of photos.

I feel sad but hopeful. I set her up and she's hanging herself. So predictable.


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SuperDuperWonderboy
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Default  Posted: 6:46 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

Sorry man. That sucks.


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 6:50 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

((((jimbo)))) Even if it was expected, I'm sure it hurts.


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jimbo25319
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Default  Posted: 11:24 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

PI got some good documentation of them out at dinner.

Weird though. She drove back k toward my home and she parked one street over. They then went to my home in his car, was there about 30minutes then apparently left. PI lost them. My neighbors dimed her out last time he was at my home. Can't figure out she parked one street over, but wouldn't just park at home to go out with OM. Wonder if she made the PI.


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JanetS
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Default  Posted: 11:49 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

Ouch! This sounds like a very painful process.

The car being parked a block away makes no sense unless she saw a car following her, and didn't want that car to see where she lived (maybe thinking it was a stalker or criminal, rather than a PI...or maybe she sensed it was a PI...but then why park away from the home).

1/2 hour inside your home doesn't sound like good news. Sorry.

Just had a thought (a few moments after typing this). If she sensed (or found) the gps, then maybe she did not want the gps know where she went AFTER she left the house??? (still not sure about why she parked a block away though). Is there one inside garage space that she could use to hide from neighbors?

[This message edited by JanetS at 11:52 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)]


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jimbo25319
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Default  Posted: 12:19 AM, July 25th (Thursday)

Kind of weird. I can track her vehicle through my phone and it shows it's parked at my home, and has been for sometime. The GPS did show it parked two streets over from mine earlier.

I spoke with PI's boss who's bud of mine. Not the actual PI. May have been a communication breakdown, don't know. It' s very dark on my street and the PI wasn't aware OM'S car left until I told him. I knew this because my neighbor had to get something from his car, and noticed OM 's car was gone.

I hope they didn't make the PI. If they did, once again I'm in the hole.


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jimbo25319
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Default  Posted: 5:16 PM, July 25th (Thursday)

OM is at.my home right now. My neighbor just sent me a photo.

Again, anyone have any ideas on how I can legally get her out of my home.


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whattheh
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Default  Posted: 6:11 PM, July 25th (Thursday)

Do you have any cause for a restraining order against OM for any reason? That might be an indirect approach?

I've been told that in my (no fault) state that judges look very unfavorably (smacks at their conscience) upon the cheating spouse when it comes to settlement and custody if they cheat in the marital home/bed? Equitable settlement does not mean equal. So it's good you're getting hard evidence in case you're planning on D and if your state may be the same?

[This message edited by whattheh at 6:14 PM, July 25th (Thursday)]


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Posts: 563 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: USA
jjsr
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Default  Posted: 6:42 PM, July 25th (Thursday)

Well that all just sucks. I am sorry


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Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 7:16 PM, July 25th (Thursday)

((Jimbo))

I'm sorry. Just file for D. Get the process started.


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