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AnotherTry
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Default  Posted: 2:46 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

I was really impressed with this video/article. I'm glad it was advertised so this wonderful site can help others!!


BS 41
FWH 40 (4reasonsunknown)
M 15 yrs, together 18
D-day 05/08/08
Finished almost a year of MC and WE are healed!! WE survived infidelity only through God's love and grace!!
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Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 2:48 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

And over 400 comments about what a slut I am


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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deeplysad
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Default  Posted: 2:49 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

What is the link?


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Him: FWH - Midlife crisis with a pathetic porn wannabe
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Posts: 3231 | Registered: Oct 2007 | From: So Calif
wanttogoforward
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Default  Posted: 2:56 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

It's in the divorce section.... anyway those on there bashing your H for staying have never walked a day in any of our shoes! It's so easy before these events happen to us to sit in judgement of what our morals and values tell us to do ... and then it happens to us and we have to face it head on... there are no easy choices in life and I commend anyone who makes the changes necessary in their life to become a better person and spouse... and to go forward and help so many of us is definitely appreciated by all of us here... I guess the moral of the story here is who are we to judge unless we have walked in those shoes?....

Posts: 1178 | Registered: Oct 2010 | From: still lost
Threnody
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Default  Posted: 2:59 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

The comments are coming from those who haven't seen a wayward or OW who've shown remorse. It's as simple as that. I think anyone who has seen a wayward make healthy changes would not be wasting time bashing.


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Default  Posted: 3:00 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

Oh I could give a shit what they think about me...I'm just thrilled SI is getting so much exposure


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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StillGoing
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Default  Posted: 3:09 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

YOu mean this idiot is still married to and living with her! Do what I did. Kick her out the door with all her belongs and good riddance of bad rubbish and don't think twice about it.

YEAH BRO YEAH, DUDE, BRO, YEA U TELL THAT INTERNET MAN YOU TELL IT HOW TO BE STRONG AND SHIT


ETA:

Sorry, my capslock isn't stuck, I was typing in snarkasm mode.

[This message edited by StillGoing at 3:13 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)]


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Holly-Isis
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Default  Posted: 3:14 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

I could only make it through two pages of comments. Most of these people are either ignorant about infidelity (and should be praying such pain never happens to them) or WSs trying to cover their tracks by being blustering fools.

I had to laugh at the comment that this wasn't an article...it was an ad for SI. Because MH and DS earn so much from the FREE they provide.

There were a few more that had me SMH over their ridiculousness.

I wish I never needed SI, but I'm glad it existed. Otherwise, I would've been alone in this since '06 and accepted much worse treatment than I have...my experience in '99 is testament to that.


"Being in love" first moved them to promise fidelity: this quieter love enables them to keep the promise. *CS Lewis*

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Default  Posted: 3:17 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

@SG


“You have a choice. Live or die.Every breath is a choice. Every minute is a choice. Every time you don't throw yourself down the stairs, that's a choice. Every time you don't crash your car, you re-enlist.”
― Chuck Palahniuk, Survivor

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Default  Posted: 3:18 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

Please don't make me read ALL of the articles trying to find it!! Where is it??

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naivewife
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Default  Posted: 3:19 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

link?


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false R, then...
D-day #2 - 3/26/13
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20WrongsVs1
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Default  Posted: 3:24 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

I reckon if DS wanted a link here she woulda posted it, so I won't. Just go to HP and type "survivinginfidelity" in the search box at the top.

What I love are the comments about "killing trees," because of MH printing out all the emails.


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Default  Posted: 3:27 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

I love you DS and they don't know you and most likely scared to check us out. It might make them think they will be struck by the infidelity plage.

You are wonderful and they don't know your whole story. And for the people who called you names and your BS. Well, they are no saints.


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Moved back home Oct 31 2013
False R. Still Lying.
Will be divorcing soon!
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StillGoing
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Default  Posted: 3:28 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

What I love are the comments about "killing trees," because of MH printing out all the emails.

I didn't even see those. WTF do they think powers their computers that they're using to gossip and judge other people, the distilled essence of tormented gelflings? Dumbasses.


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Default  Posted: 3:29 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

DS - I'm glad you don't care, but it bothers me!


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Default  Posted: 3:30 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

Sometimes I forget that the internetz are full of trolls and a-holes. Then I read a comments section of almost any article, and am reminded why I only post on SI.


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Default  Posted: 3:31 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

This is why SI is the best infidelity forum on the internet...because of all of you


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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Default  Posted: 3:32 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

the distilled essence of tormented gelflings?
OMG, SG - you just made my year.


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naivewife
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Default  Posted: 3:32 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

Wow, the comments are crazy, but I get it. It's amazing what you'll think/say before it happens to you. I guess it's the same way with everything. Childless people are always the experts on child raising too!


D-day #1 - 1/23/13
false R, then...
D-day #2 - 3/26/13
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Default  Posted: 3:39 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

I wish I had time to troll around the internets all day making ridiculous comments about things I know nothing.....

oh, wait, that was me in my 20s.

WTF - I was thinking the same thing after a cnn article today - the comments...Who are these people?

How about DO something with your time.

I'd much rather be creating something or supporting something or helping someone than spending time on a bb for SI but at least my time here is productive and helpful to my sanity.

WHAT purpose do troll commenters have?

Of course I'm not spending any $$ on how my ho-ha looks either - I wonder how many starving people a labiaplasty could feed? It took 40 years of living for me to understand that *I* am weird and no one thinks like I do or if they come close they are weird too but I don't think another 40 years would help me understand wtf some people are thinking/choosing to commit their time/$/energy to.


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Aubrie
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Default  Posted: 3:44 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

Dang. MH and DS are taking a beating in the comments. Sad how cruel people can be.

It's awesome when uneducated, uninformed people who have absolutely no experience with something have soooo much to say about the issue.

I hope all those commenters find the help they need. Life's not fair. It deals us cruel hands. This world is full of hurting people. But the help is there, if you are brave enough to seek it out.

ETA: Thank you MH and DS for putting your story out there, facing the haters, and having a place like SI for those of us who need it. It's been a blessing.

[This message edited by Aubrie84 at 3:47 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)]


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atsenaotie
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Default  Posted: 3:53 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

Very brave of you to make this video as an outreach, thank you.

As for the comments... When I was younger there was a theory about randomness and coincidence that if you gave a billion monkeys typewriters they would eventually create the works of Shakespeare. Now, thanks to the Internet, we know that this is not true.


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Holly-Isis
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Default  Posted: 3:53 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

Those types of commenters are exactly why we need a safe place like SI.


"Being in love" first moved them to promise fidelity: this quieter love enables them to keep the promise. *CS Lewis*

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Default  Posted: 4:05 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

I agree that it was brave, one more brave action born of compassion by you both!

I also think if reading the comments section of ANY article was a snapshot of society... Well, I would lose all hope for our planet!

I wonder what a "share your occupation" thread on HP would generate? I have a very high opinion of the readers and posters HERE vs. anywhere else.

As for one of the most narrow minded comments that proves NO CONCEPT of what this community is or does, the idea that a better name would be promotingfidelity. pffft! I would never have found this site with those search parameters. It happened. I was devastated and hurt and lost. I was dying and I wanted to survive. I needed survivors and the very real reality that this had already happened. There was nothing left to promote any more!

It has been said thousands of times by thousands of people and I never shy away from repeating it: DS, MH, thank you. Your time and kindness are a gift. I hope you can always find a positive balance in the appreciation. I am glad you say it doesn't bother you, but like a previous poster said, it bothers me and I am projecting that onto you!

Thanks to you both.


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Default  Posted: 4:06 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

Wow, I am so incredibly sorry for the sadly negative responses.

I want to personally thank both of you (MH & DS) for your bravery and sacrifice in taking something so negative (in 2000) and turning it into something so supportive and positive for others.

I only hope SI has helped y'all continue to heal as much as it has helped the rest of us!

I can't help but wonder what percentage of those who posted such negative remarks are either the betrayer or the betrayed by infidelity.

You did a very, very good thing.


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Default  Posted: 4:10 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

I can't find it. Would someone PM me the link?


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D-day July 09/he gave me his slut's STD
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Default  Posted: 4:10 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

(((Caregiver and the rest of you)))

You're so sweet

I think it doesn't bother me because MH and I have had our dirty laundry out on the internet for 13 years now, so for us...well, it's just part of our history together.

It would be much different if any of you here were to say something negative/lie/attack me because I care about you, I care about what you think of me and it would hurt my feelings if any of you here thought less of me. Mostly because I have so much invested in you all with watching you heal

But those out there>>>....no, it really doesn't bother me what they say

I only wish you would pay us in gold bars

[This message edited by SI Staff at 4:11 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)]


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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Default  Posted: 4:11 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

People are idiots. And you know what they say about opinions?

And most of those comments are from people who have NOT had infidelity touch their lives. How many of us reacted completely different than we thought we would when we discovered our own "infidelity"?


It is what it is, not what we hope it can be.

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sometimes the best thing you can do for
yourself is to LET HER HAVE the worthless
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JanetS
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Default  Posted: 4:12 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

I can't find it either. There are many recent articles on Huff.Post on survivinginfidelity....I peeked into many of them, but it's not the one talked about here.

PM please :) OR type in the name of the article so I could do a more precise search.


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7yrsflushed
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Default  Posted: 4:15 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

Hopefully people that actually are looking for a way to survive infidelity, like I was over 2 years ago, will see the article and make there way to the website. This place helped me get through what was the worst time of my life. The people in the comments section are clueless. I am sure more than a few people that really need help will come to SI seeking help after reading it but if even just 1 person comes to the site and makes it through the shitstorm then it has done it's job.

[This message edited by 7yrsflushed at 4:16 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)]


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Default  Posted: 4:17 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

It was great watching the video! I think that it was not only brave of DS, but you spoke to the hearts of many. Not only to people on this sight, but those who don't know about it (and now they do) and those who may shy away, think about it and then come around.

It is great to know that you are willing to put your past mistakes and experiences out there for others to learn from. It shows that you are sorry for what happened, not only will it not happen again, but you want to equip others with the tools to keep it from happening to them and how to deal with it when it does.

This website has helped me to put myself, my M, my H and my life in perspective and to see it for what it is. I had so many emotions that I wasn't sure were normal and here it was, thousands of people who understood my process on many levels. It has been therapeutic in many ways to know of this sight.

Tons of hugs, likes and applauds for this sight and your interview.


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numb&dumb
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Default  Posted: 4:22 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

Yeah I read the article, but the comments . . .yikes.

I thought I was the one with the anger problem


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Dday 8/31/11. ONS that occurred 3 years earlier. Lied to for 3 years.

Every truth comes to light in a long enough timeline.


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Default  Posted: 4:26 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

the distilled essence of tormented gelflings?

OMG I nearly peed myself...!!!

I watched that movie not long ago...

If not for SI and all the wonderful people here I know I wouldn't be around. This place is truly a blessing. I don't how I could ever express my gratitude. Anyone who speaks badly of DS, MH or the site hasn't experienced what we all have. I envy them and pity them at the same time.


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MissesJai
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Default  Posted: 4:44 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

screw em DS. Not like you needed me to say that but I just wanted to In all seriousness though, I haven't read the comments but I know all too well the dynamic of those that comment on HuffPo - very judgmental, snarky, and sometimes downright ugly.


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Unagie
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Default  Posted: 4:52 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

I finally found it. Thank you for this site and all you've done. Thank you for everyone on here who has helped me survive. As for the comments, it's to be expected. The majority of the people are folks who never had infidelity touch them and are speaking in certainties. I am certain once a cheater always a cheater. I am certain it would be a dealbreaker. I am certain I know exactly what I am talking about. A few people who have actually had infidelity spoke up and said respect to those who had a remorseful spouse and had the strength to R.


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Stop allowing people to hurt you, because you don't love you enough to walk away.


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Default  Posted: 4:54 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

Unagie, can you PM me the link?


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cletuswv
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Default  Posted: 5:03 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

Could someone pm me the link.?


Me: BH 40
Her: WW 35
DDay #1: 9/28/2012
TT until:
DDay #2: 1/03/2013
2.5 yr LTA EA/PA
Dday #3 6/19/2013 OM #2
DD 4
DS 7
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A Woman Scorned
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Default  Posted: 5:21 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

DS!!! I haz a sads! the peoples on the interwebz says you're made up and you haz some big money scheme?!!

if you can please share said money and stop being made up, that'd be great...


screw 'em, hopefully they never have to find out how wrong they are, although some of them... well, they know where to find this site now at least...

nice job on the interview


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SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 5:23 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

Dang, I can't get the video to work.

People are ignorant. F*ck 'em, we love DS and MH and are forever grateful to the both of you.


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Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

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Default  Posted: 5:25 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

I made it thro8gh a few pages of comments and on almost every one I was thinking "Ya'll have NO f**king clue, do you?" However there were a couple that made me think the commenter was either a member here or at least read here.


I'd like to add my thanks to both of you and to all the members here. if it wasn't for SI I'd still be the broken individual I was when I registered, looking for my next AP probably.


Just want to add that I do NOT think DS is a liar nor do I think MH is a wimp. We all know how strong a BS has to be to even consider R and a WS has to be strong to face and fix themselves. My hat's off to every member here for having that strength.


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All affairs are variations on a theme. No one has 'Beethoven's 5th' to everyone else's 'Chopsticks'.


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Default  Posted: 5:27 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

I can't find it. Can't find anything even remotely to suggest it. Is there another clue you could give? OR someone PM me a URL?


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Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
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Default  Posted: 5:31 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

Sent NG.


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solus sto
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Default  Posted: 5:33 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

I have come to the conclusion that the comment section after ANY article--regardless of controversy--is populated by ignorant messages left by the dregs of society.

Seriously. Read any article online. Read the comments. You'll see. It's amazing how almost any topic can devolve, given a comments section.


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Clarrissa
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Default  Posted: 5:35 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

NG, it's in the divorce section and titled something like How my husband caught me cheating. A bit of a head's up though. Even though there's a video, they have DS' face blurred and the comments are overwheomingly negative. One said DS is probably still a liar and another said MH is a wimp.


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WW (me) - 49


All affairs are variations on a theme. No one has 'Beethoven's 5th' to everyone else's 'Chopsticks'.


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still2suspicious
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Default  Posted: 5:35 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

Can someone PLEASE PM me the link? (I hate being left out )

No matter what, DS and MH THANK YOU for all you have done for all of us in this shitstorm. You have allowed a great group of people to come together, and truly help one another. Not many people can say that!


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Him: WH
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Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 5:36 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

Yeah...but at least we're making millions of dollars off of SI!


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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Clarrissa
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Default  Posted: 5:45 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

I didn't read through all the comments (couldn't stomach all the negativity) but did someone actually SAY this was a "for-profit" site? If so, I guess they can't be bothered to actually *look* at the site.


BH Cee64D - 48
WW (me) - 49


All affairs are variations on a theme. No one has 'Beethoven's 5th' to everyone else's 'Chopsticks'.


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MissesJai
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Default  Posted: 5:48 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

I needz link PWEEEZ!!!!


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MissesJai
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Default  Posted: 5:59 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

saw the video - love you DS and read the comments. Hey Jrazz!!

That said, some people are just stupid. and again, for emphasis - to those people, fuck 'em!


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Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 6:09 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

Hey MJ


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Default  Posted: 6:18 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

Ya'll have NO f**king clue, do you?

And that about sums up the majority of the comments. DS has got nothing to prove to anyone but MH and she does, and she has and they took that and built this place for US. And we're healing aren't we everyone? We have one another and a deeper understanding of something we shouldn't have gone through but we are climbing out of stronger.

I was telling DS the other day about the "lady" around the corner that likes to whisper to the other moms that my husband cheated on me . This "lady" also likes to water her garden in short shorts and stilettos and flirted so heavily with another dad at the fun fair they were practically making out.
Clean your own house biotch.. mine is better than you'll ever know.
You can't let ignorance take you down. We"ll be the first ones to make a spot for those commenters when they need us.. people who haven't lived it just don't know it.

[This message edited by SI Staff at 6:18 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)]



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Default  Posted: 6:18 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

DS, you rock!


Say what you wanna say and let the words fall out...honestly
I wanna see you be brave

Pretty pretty please, don't you ever ever feel
Like you're less than, less than perfect


Posts: 12146 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: TX
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Default  Posted: 6:24 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

Lol I saw the hey JRazz comment and had to go back and look.


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No longer together

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Stop allowing people to hurt you, because you don't love you enough to walk away.


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Default  Posted: 6:30 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

And over 400 comments about what a slut I am

Only 400? Slow day huh?


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Default  Posted: 6:39 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

Huffpost is owned by AOL. All the people commenting are probably still using an internet connection from a disk they received in a magazine.


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Default  Posted: 6:43 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)


My Friends call me Wonderboy--That's Mr. SuperduperWonderboy to you Tred.


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Default  Posted: 6:46 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

You know, the RED flags are kindof a sultry color... very brazen when you're telling people that they need to treat each other more kindly.

Maybe a more modest, beige colored flag would calm the hoardes?


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Default  Posted: 6:53 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

maybe for a time this site should be where you have to sign in to read our posts..

Just until this brew ha goes away...


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him - 46
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children - ds15 ds12
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Default  Posted: 6:54 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

Why? This storm is over there...not here


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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Default  Posted: 6:58 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

DS and MH, thank you for sharing your journey with not just us, but the world. I have appreciated your insight and support over the last few years. I am sorry you had to face the negativity on the site and I am glad to know that you are not letting that crap stop you from supporting others.

To Jrazz and the others who posted on the site, your wisdom and support of DS, MH and SI came through loud and clear. WTG!

You guys ROCK!!


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M May 07 Adult kids
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Jan08 DDay #2 "Just Friends" admits EA DDay #3 July 2010 - he insisted on platonic contact ..False R - until Dec 2010 admits PA in April 07
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Default  Posted: 7:00 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

Maybe MH needs to create a thread at the very top of the Forums that has a very provocative title, and no matter what they click on it the link goes to SPF


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Default  Posted: 7:05 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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Default  Posted: 7:15 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

All the negative comments in response to this article are sadly and honestly the way I felt over two years ago. I, too, thought infidelity was a deal breaker. You truly never know unless you've been through it.
The comment about having conversations with your spouse promising to divorce first before crossing the line- WE HAD THOSE SAME CONVERSATIONS. It's no guarantee.
I'm so very thankful for this site. It has been a tremendous support to me and my husband as we go through this excruciatingly difficult journey we never thought we would be on.


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WH-49
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Default  Posted: 7:21 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

wow.

it's okay dh, I know you're disappointed... hundreds of comments and not one "nazi" was uttered. you'll get em next time .

sad that people are so blind they can't see what is, what can be and the fact that si would welcome the lot of them with open arms...

[This message edited by unfound at 7:22 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)]


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Cool  Posted: 7:23 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

Here's my comment ..... Glad I copied it, I went back to look for it and it was gone or not posted yet .... I saw Jrazz and said hi to her .... On this article there are several on this website, holy jeez ...

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/07/23/infidelity-marriage_n_3639916.html?ir=Divorce

Those of you passing judgement on Jill in the video have no idea. Until you do, until you have walked in the shoes of infidelity either being the one cheating or the one who was cheated on, you have no room to pass any judgement. You don't even have room to pass a fart, so shut it.
I am a member of survivinginfidelity.com and I can say without a second of hesitation that the site, the people who run it, and the members saved my life and sanity. Jill, her husband and the other VOLUNTEERS keep the site safe for ALL. It is a soft place to land in the worst possible moment of your life, you will get honest advice and make more friends than you know. People you never met or talked to will understand things about what your feeling, what your going to feel and they will have your back every step of the way, no questions asked and they expect nothing in return. So until you can say you have walked in our shoes, in either way, shut it and back off. I love that site and the people there and they have helped thousands more than the few feathers that have been ruffled.


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Default  Posted: 7:25 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

Funny- they won't publish my comment pointing out that SI isn't a for profit website.


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Default  Posted: 7:29 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

Maybe that's why they post mine, I said volunteer ...


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Default  Posted: 7:37 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

Wow! What a day for SI! Deeply Scarred on the video and we have reached 40K members!

WOW!

Thanks for all of your service to SI, DS and MH!!!

And Kudos on the article.

PS, what is that red and black thing behind you in the video...?


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Default  Posted: 7:40 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

I'd bet every one of those who posted a negative c0mment will thank whatever gods they believe in for this site if they find themselves in our shoes. As has been said, you don't know if it's a dealbreaker until you're faced with it.


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Default  Posted: 7:43 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

PS, what is that red and black thing behind you in the video...?

That is Bucee the Beaver...lol!! Texas famous in all the Bucee truck stop in Texas...I just HAD to get my picture taken with him on a road trip last year

I do want to thank everyone for their PM's and posts...you all are just the greatest!! But you don't have to fight any battle for me, MH or SI...one day all those people that are vilifying us will most likely find themselves here.


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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Default  Posted: 7:57 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

And over 400 comments about what a slut I am
Don't you just hate how these ignorant people can't even be consistent with their epithets? I thought the accepted internet term for DS was the other one.

When I was younger there was a theory about randomness and coincidence that if you gave a billion monkeys typewriters they would eventually create the works of Shakespeare. Now, thanks to the Internet, we know that this is not true.
Not entirely disproven yet, we have to give it more time. However, based on the size of the work to be replicated, statistically speaking by the time we get the full works of Shakespeare we will already have a dozen copies of Mein Kampf.

Huffpost is owned by AOL. All the people commenting are probably still using an internet connection from a disk they received in a magazine.
I dunno, I swear most of those were used up by this guy I used to know that shingled his shed with them.

Interesting to finally hear what DS sounds like.


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Do not back up. Severe tire damage.


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Default  Posted: 8:00 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

Anyone who expects intelligent comments on internet articles or news stories clearly hasn't ever spent any time on ESPN.


Machiavellian idiot savant

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Default  Posted: 8:20 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)


Wow, this post got me out of lurkdom. DS, that is so courageous of you. You must have known that by doing this type of interview, those type of comments would be made but you still did it.

The people making comments remind me of some of my colleagues. They have no idea what it is so they prefer to utter those empty sentences: It would never happen to me....I would be gone if it happened....She is crazy to stay.

I just look at them and don't say anything because it is worthless to try.


Me : BS - 40
Have a son (Romeo) - 14 years


Well this April's Fools Day joke sucked big time.


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Default  Posted: 9:56 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

DS, thank you for helping me maintain the core belief that marriage and love is worth it. Even though I had to D in the end, I love to hear about couples who truly make it beyond reconciliation and THRIVE! Thank you for your in depth honesty and guidance for us following behind. I have lurked since 2006, and I believe my sanity and ability to move forward is largely due to SI. I think tens of thousands of people on here will back me up in saying "Thank you" to both of you, for giving us all a safe place to heal.
❤❤❤
Charlie


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Default  Posted: 10:05 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

Someone jacked my name in the comments section. Just so you all know it's not me...


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BW - gerrygirl

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Default  Posted: 10:11 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

Out of curiousity, how many hits has the site taken today as a result of the article? Out of that, how many new member requests have we received?

I would rather believe the message was delivered SI is a safe place for those that have experienced and are struggling whether BS or WS.

As far as the negative comments go, they can all kiss our big fat hairy (_._).


You can't change the wind, but you can adjust your sails.

Me Tarzan
Her Jane

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Default  Posted: 10:31 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

Way to go girl! I'm impressed...

No need to read the comments...

I know what this place is about and that's why I'm here... Simple...

Here's a toast...

WB


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James Taylor


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Default  Posted: 11:15 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

Well, we know that there are probably a LOT of people who read this site, some probably regularly, but do not post. BUT they likely still get a lot of insight, even just by reading.

Well, a lot of people will read the HuffPost article, and visit here. They may not post on either site. But again, they may receive the information that they need to move forward.

DS and MH have nothing to explain. The interview was good and honest. The comments, like ANY public forum, are often overrun with trolls who are there frankly because they love the drama. The crazier their posts, the more responses they get...and they like that.

And, there are some who honestly feel that they would NEVER stay after infidelity. And, if faced with infidelity that might be the case...or as many of us found out we could work through it.

No matter the comments, the article in such a major website has raised the profile of SI....more people who may find comfort in their time of crisis.

So DS, it's a good thing.


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Default  Posted: 11:22 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)

Well if you would have asked me before I was married I would have been like those folks and dumped the cheater... Problem is that one never knows until it happens to them. Maybe if I was younger and attractive and we didn't have a child I would be gone.. But alas that isn't the case.. And to make it worse I still love that bastard.. How I don't know.. Cheating was a deal breaker for me..
Do any of you feel like they got away with it and that you (I) am a sucker for staying. All the time but let some whore have my man... I made him what he is today.. Nope it til death do us Part!!!


Me (50)BW
Him (46) FWH
DD 17 and seriously hurt by this all..
Married for 18 years..together 20yrs
EA 2009- 23 yr old that has a childhood crush on my husband. named her child after my husband...sick girl on & off +2years stopped when he started

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Default  Posted: 12:29 AM, July 25th (Thursday)

I was very reassured with the comments. I have great "uncertainty" with my lose relationship with spelling and grammar. After reading only the first page I feel I could teach it at Yale. Sweet tap dancing Jesus.

I now understand why 60% of the population (according to an article I read a couple years ago) have no clue what our Constitution is. Yep, that is no longer in doubt or a mystery with the amount of ignorance just on the first page.

Very brave thing to do, DS. I'm sure more than a few were searching SI out for reasons that has nothing to do with curiousity but a need for support. And that's exactly, thanks to you, MH, and the mods/guides member, what they'll find here.


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Default  Posted: 8:01 AM, July 25th (Thursday)

Completely off topic, I just wanted to say that I have always loved the name "Jill".

Every Jill I have ever known has been incredibly awesome!


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Default  Posted: 8:08 AM, July 25th (Thursday)

(DS) Have you come to terms with the fact that you are married to a
Tree Killer?

[This message edited by 2oldforthis at 8:09 AM, July 25th (Thursday)]


He did not see what he had in me, what I saw in him I did not have!

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Default  Posted: 8:22 AM, July 25th (Thursday)

Yup. Partial to the name Jill too.

There's one in my house and I think she's pretty terrific.


"Being in love" first moved them to promise fidelity: this quieter love enables them to keep the promise. *CS Lewis*

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Default  Posted: 8:26 AM, July 25th (Thursday)

I just want to know what you're doing with all the money rolling in now that you got all this "free publicity" for your "business."
Sheesh, DS, share the wealth already.


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Him, 40 (JMSSC)
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Posts: 2725 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: South Carolina
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Default  Posted: 8:52 AM, July 25th (Thursday)

They spend it on all the purple colors. That shit gets expensive, you have to ship the 9900FF all the way from E-Phoenicia, where ancient Assemblers have to breakdown the color codes bit by bit. That's no regular shade of purple there, that's hand crafted royal html there.


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Default  Posted: 10:50 AM, July 25th (Thursday)

I just wanted to thank everyone for all their support...you guys are the best.

I was thinking a lot about this while cleaning up the breakfast dishes and I still feel really good about it all.

I think if I had done something wrong in the interview or if any of you here thought less of me, then it would be a different story/feeling for me.

The comments over there have zero affect on me...truly And all the exposure for SI and the community here I know will bring many people comfort in knowing they have a soft spot to land without criticism.

Now I'm off to go roll around in all the money we make off of SI

Thanks again everyone!!!


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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Default  Posted: 11:01 AM, July 25th (Thursday)

Ugg...the idiots out there that are projecting their issues onto a person and situation that they have no idea about.


Also,

I have been here a little bit, but until today i always read your name as

Deeply Sacred...

Not Deeply Scared

Thanks for the site - its been an blessing.


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Him: 37 MH
New online find 6/19/14 - shit

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Default  Posted: 11:21 AM, July 25th (Thursday)

I think it was (and is) brave of you and MH to start this website, share your story and help the rest of us through this. And I applaud you for doing the interview. Getting the word out to people about the website may help someone who wouldn't have found us any other way. So, kudos to you.

There is one issue that bothered me though. The first line of the article almost made me stop reading altogether.

As a society, we consider infidelity the kiss of death for a relationship, but sometimes it can actually help.

I find the idea that infidelity can HELP a relationship to be offensive. The hard work, IC, MC, talks, boundaries, etc. can all be done without the trauma of infidelity.


Me - happily single
Him - no longer matters
Married 28 yrs
Filed for D 1/10
DIVORCED 12/12

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Default  Posted: 11:35 AM, July 25th (Thursday)

The first line of the article almost made me stop reading altogether.

To clarify...that was the HP that said that...not me. I countered and said that an affair most certainly isn't the route to obtain a stronger marriage. Its the hard work, dedication and deeper bond that makes a marriage stronger (not better...stronger)


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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Default  Posted: 11:36 AM, July 25th (Thursday)

I don't know about the rest of you, but I can totally "see" some banned members via the Snark-a-tude of their comments.

What 'evs.

Let the haters hate.

Thanks, DS and MH for this site and for your devoted friendship to all of us losers, idiots and dorks.

This is the best cult I've ever joined!

AJ's MOM


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
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DS - 31 - Yikes!


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Default  Posted: 11:37 AM, July 25th (Thursday)

Oh, no worries. I know it wasn't you who said that DS. It just made me all the same.


Me - happily single
Him - no longer matters
Married 28 yrs
Filed for D 1/10
DIVORCED 12/12

Tact is for people who aren't witty enough to be sarcastic.


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Default  Posted: 11:40 AM, July 25th (Thursday)

Oh good...I'm glad you knew it wasn't me!!!

I always hated that saying too


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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Default  Posted: 11:41 AM, July 25th (Thursday)

DS,you are an amazing woman. We "know" you. They don't. Im glad what they're saying isn't hurting your feelings.

(((((DS)))))


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FWH 45
4 kids..21,20,11,10
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10
Status: Reconciling.

..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.


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Default  Posted: 11:42 AM, July 25th (Thursday)

Anyone who expects intelligent comments on internet articles or news stories clearly hasn't ever spent any time on ESPN.
QFT!!! good one wal!

ETA: DS, since you're rollin in dough, can I borrow $5???

[This message edited by MissesJai at 11:42 AM, July 25th (Thursday)]


FWW - 41
Fawk you.....pay me!

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1Faith
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Wink  Posted: 12:18 PM, July 25th (Thursday)

Misinformed judgmental people who truly believe it could never happen to them....

Hhhhmmm..

I bet 99% of us thought the same regardless of what side of infidelity you are on.

Many of those judging will probably become members one day. Karma is a bitch like that.

LOVE SI and all of you here.

Thanks DS for all that you do and have done for all of us.

(((hugs)))


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Default  Posted: 12:22 PM, July 25th (Thursday)

Apparently, NYJerry has a number of troll pseudonyms


"In a time of deceit, telling the Truth is a revolutionary act."

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Default  Posted: 2:26 PM, July 25th (Thursday)

"Is your husband involved in it?"

MH...nah, he's not involved in the site at all

Also, to whomever posted this, it made me literally Lol:

"Yeah, we are a cult and we worship "Jill" and her dear husband. We sacrifice a goat every fortnight, too. We dance naked at night during the full moon."

[This message edited by Mama_of_3_Kids at 2:27 PM, July 25th (Thursday)]


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Default  Posted: 2:32 PM, July 25th (Thursday)


My Friends call me Wonderboy--That's Mr. SuperduperWonderboy to you Tred.


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Tred
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Default  Posted: 2:34 PM, July 25th (Thursday)

We sacrifice a goat every fortnight

Wait, it's not forty goats a night? Sumbitch...


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D-Day: 11/09/11
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Default  Posted: 2:34 PM, July 25th (Thursday)

BTW, in case any of you forget, here's the steps to donning the S.I. uniform.

(Dayem, I wish this graphic was in purple!)


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
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DS - 31 - Yikes!


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Default  Posted: 2:37 PM, July 25th (Thursday)

"Yeah, we are a cult and we worship "Jill" and her dear husband. We sacrifice a goat every fortnight, too. We dance naked at night during the full moon."
Who spilled the beans?!?!?! Heads will roll, people.


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"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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Default  Posted: 3:35 PM, July 25th (Thursday)

One said DS is probably still a liar and another said MH is a wimp.

What a bunch of fucking assholes!!!! First of all, surviving infidelity is NOT for 'wimps' (I hate that term). And as for DS lying, I guess it's just about the big $$$$$$ you make advertising this site all over the interwebz

I cannot thank you both enough for everything you have done for all of us here. You are brave and a blessing. Oh yeah, and ROCK STARS!!!!


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Default  Posted: 4:06 PM, July 25th (Thursday)

Now I'm off to go roll around in all the money we make off of SI
Just be careful, wouldn't want you to get heavy metal poisoning from all that nickel.

BTW, in case any of you forget, here's the steps to donning the S.I. uniform.
(Dayem, I wish this graphic was in purple!)
The gardening skin is quite popular.

We dance naked at night during the full moon
That actually seems pretty close to how I got here.


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What a bunch of fucking assholes!!!!

Oh. My. God...you have no idea how hard I just laughed when I read that


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Default  Posted: 4:31 PM, July 25th (Thursday)

Hey DS, I bet you're glad that MH was wimpy enough to stick around and give you another chance, aren't you?


I was going to leave a comment on the article but I figured it would fall on (mostly) deaf ears. They don't know what they'd do if actually faced with the situatuon.


ETA: did anyone else find it the height of irony that the sociologist went to *a cheater site* to get "honest" answers as to why people cheat? I guess it never dawned on him that cheaters lie whether or not they know someone is taking notes.

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you have no idea how hard I just laughed when I read that

Glad to be of service!!


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Damn it, I've been doing it wrong.. I've been dancing around goats and sacrificing moonpies. Heh, explains a lot.


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unfound, I've been following you around all day just to giggle. You're killing me today



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Oh yes, Clarrissa!!

When he's not being a wimp, he's ruining Mother Earth because he printed out evidence...shame on him!!


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So are you guys going to change your SI names to 'TreeKiller' and 'LiarLiarPantsOnFire'??


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When he's not being a wimp, he's ruining Mother Earth because he printed out evidence...shame on him!!
I think I saw that post. Some eco freak freaking out about the freaking trees or something required to print that much fraking email.

[This message edited by aesir at 4:43 PM, July 25th (Thursday)]


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We must be a cult...our uniform magically goes from ankle to knee length as we don it...

You guys do have me curious about banned posters with sour grapes though. They don't seem to make very good whine though...


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Who spilled the beans?!?!?! Heads will roll, people.


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Wait, it's not forty goats a night? Sumbitch...
I snorted.... sumbitch - hehehehehehehehehehe


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Hey, lookie!

I found this in the archives.

A photo of the first ever S.I. GTG!!!


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OMG wb!!!!
I'm on the damn floor!!!!


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ROTFLMAO!!!!!!!!!!


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BOOOM!
Well played MJ, well played.


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dude, you set the bar so damn high!


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OMG - This thread is pure freaking gold.


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meanwhile... I planted a tree in honor of the hp haters. am I doing it right NOW???


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Do we have a best use of meme award?

Those two need to go into the quote thread.


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[This message edited by ajsmom at 5:20 PM, July 25th (Thursday)]


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nvm you beat me to it ajsmom.

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Default  Posted: 5:26 PM, July 25th (Thursday)

Wouldn't all of the people calling MH a tree killer be appalled to know that he also probably had made 2 sets of copies of all those emails to be stored where you couldn't get to them?

Heck, I had almost 1,000 pgs of phone records. Sultan *found* ( ) them and shredded them. (what a waste of all the hours I spent multi-color highlighting them!)


Joke ended up being on him, though.

I just re-printed them again.
Twice.


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You guys are killing me over here!!!!!


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Default  Posted: 5:28 PM, July 25th (Thursday)

What makes the "tree killing"comment even more idiotic is they seem convinced that 1 email = 1 page. I guess none of them ever shot off a 1 or 2 line email in their life. I guess they have to wax poetic or are compulsively long winded when they write email...


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I am in giggling fits ever since the baby....


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Wouldn't all of the people calling MH a tree killer be appalled to know that he also probably had made 2 sets of copies of all those emails to be stored where you couldn't get to them?

GonnaBe...HE DID!!! LOL!! And not only that, but he put them in an old briefcase that he couldn't remember the combination to

So get this...we drank a beer and went out and burned it in our fire pit...oh the HORROR of it all!!!!


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Default  Posted: 5:38 PM, July 25th (Thursday)

Now he burns perfectly innocent briefcases too???!!??

Monster.



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Can you imagine the toxic fumes that must have been released? Do you two care NOTHING about our environment???


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can't breathe........pleassssseeee....*gasp* .......stop......


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So get this...we drank a beer and went out and burned it in our fire pit...oh the HORROR of it all!!!!

....and this thread just keeps getting better and better....


edit: and WB? YOU just made.my.day with the appearance of Grumpy Cat!!!

[This message edited by gonnabe2016 at 5:52 PM, July 25th (Thursday)]


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You guys slay me.


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well played, wb, well played indeed!


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I'm having a hard time keeping up. Love the Batman. The flash drive meme was epic.

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OMG Antoine is my HERO!!

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You know, if this thread continues as it has been, it'll be bundled aboard ModAir and flown off to F&G...


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you are seriously making me step up my game!


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This thread is making epic SI history


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Default  Posted: 5:58 PM, July 25th (Thursday)

Apparently we are all sad sad people who accept multiple abuses, we are a cult, we ban people for not following the dogma, we don't know what we are talking about, we say the OP is a predator no matter what, none of the waywards are remorseful, all the betrayed are stupid for staying or bitter if they left, and after all that one of them hit on DS!!! Seriously!? Fucking asshat trolls.


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Wait wait wait...
So you mean to tell us that on top of all your other sins, you have a firepit? You should only be using clean burning


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LOL!! I know Aesir...all my evil doings have rubbed off onto MH...poor guy, has no idea either

One of them over there wanted to know if I was free today


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aesir


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One of them over there wanted to know if I was free today

Figured it was his best shot, cuz you know...


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great one aesir!


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MJ wins with office space

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Not as original as WB and MJ here...but....

DS have something for you take over to HP for the next interview....

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That was the old days, we have moved on. If you are wondering why we haven't solved the universes problems yet it is because we now sacrifice Moon Pies.


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On a stick in DS's and MH's fire pit, of course.


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Default  Posted: 6:19 PM, July 25th (Thursday)

Damn good thing I have waterproof mascara while reading this thread.

[This message edited by SI Staff at 7:18 PM, July 25th (Thursday)]


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Tred
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Default  Posted: 6:24 PM, July 25th (Thursday)

Sorry, but this shit is hilarious. I left work three hours ago and just logged back in and started on page 5. Holy shit you guys amped the game! I didn't quite pee myself (because I'm a man, dammit!) but nearly


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aesir
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Default  Posted: 6:28 PM, July 25th (Thursday)

Okay, on a serious note, I think maybe the interview was too articulate for the average huffipost reader. Next time let them talk to Teddy and Kyle.


Your mileage may vary... in accordance with the prophecy.

Do not back up. Severe tire damage.


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stilllovingher
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Default  Posted: 6:30 PM, July 25th (Thursday)


The only difference between a butt kisser and a brown noser is depth perception.
I'm sure WAL would agree.

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Tred
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Default  Posted: 6:32 PM, July 25th (Thursday)

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

You know, as funny as these pictures are, I just about shit my laughing thinking about all those lurkers reading our tag lines They are going to be so WTF?

[This message edited by Tred at 6:33 PM, July 25th (Thursday)]


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Default  Posted: 6:32 PM, July 25th (Thursday)


M:14yrs
Dday 1 EA 7/8/2010
Dday 2 PA 3/1/2013 same OMM for 4yrs

Mister rabbit says, "A moment of realization is worth a thousand prayers."


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Holly-Isis
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Default  Posted: 6:33 PM, July 25th (Thursday)

Ok, someone needs to make a meme poster for the briefcase...

"I thought somebody was having a BBQ...sweet Jesus it's a farh!"


"Being in love" first moved them to promise fidelity: this quieter love enables them to keep the promise. *CS Lewis*

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Default  Posted: 6:33 PM, July 25th (Thursday)

[This message edited by MissesJai at 6:34 PM, July 25th (Thursday)]


FWW - 41
Fawk you.....pay me!

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aesir
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Default  Posted: 6:33 PM, July 25th (Thursday)

I thought SI was based in Texas, but apparently there is a Georgia connection.


Your mileage may vary... in accordance with the prophecy.

Do not back up. Severe tire damage.


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Default  Posted: 6:35 PM, July 25th (Thursday)

Here you go Holly


FWW - 41
Fawk you.....pay me!

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Default  Posted: 6:37 PM, July 25th (Thursday)


My Friends call me Wonderboy--That's Mr. SuperduperWonderboy to you Tred.


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gahurts
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Default  Posted: 6:39 PM, July 25th (Thursday)

What's a ...Nevermind. I forgot how to talk Texan.

When I left work it was on p7. This is great!!

[This message edited by gahurts at 6:40 PM, July 25th (Thursday)]


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"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie


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MissesJai
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Default  Posted: 6:40 PM, July 25th (Thursday)

a really country way of saying FIRE!


FWW - 41
Fawk you.....pay me!

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Default  Posted: 6:41 PM, July 25th (Thursday)

Defiled Rage...those are some sweet photoshop skillz! Love it.


My Friends call me Wonderboy--That's Mr. SuperduperWonderboy to you Tred.


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DefiledRage
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Default  Posted: 6:42 PM, July 25th (Thursday)

making me up my game a little


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Dday 1 EA 7/8/2010
Dday 2 PA 3/1/2013 same OMM for 4yrs

Mister rabbit says, "A moment of realization is worth a thousand prayers."


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MissesJai
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Default  Posted: 6:43 PM, July 25th (Thursday)


FWW - 41
Fawk you.....pay me!

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unfound
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Default  Posted: 6:44 PM, July 25th (Thursday)


ka-mai
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gahurts
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Default  Posted: 6:49 PM, July 25th (Thursday)

Aren't moon pies over a fire just S'mores?


"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie


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unfound
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Default  Posted: 6:57 PM, July 25th (Thursday)

Aren't moon pies over a fire just S'mores?

GASP!

this is how many a banned members thought. redeem gahurts, redeem! you're not going along with the dogma of si!!!

uh oh, too late....


ka-mai
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Unagie
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Default  Posted: 7:00 PM, July 25th (Thursday)

^^^^^


Heartbroken madhatter trying to rebuild

No longer together

Do not let others be your reference for who you see in the mirror.

Stop allowing people to hurt you, because you don't love you enough to walk away.


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Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 7:01 PM, July 25th (Thursday)

Late to the party--and no, I don't want a moon pie--but reading most of those comments (those, not these) made me feel dirty. Ewwww.

I'm so sorry DS; what a mishigas


I solemnly swear that I am up to no good.

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DefiledRage
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Default  Posted: 7:02 PM, July 25th (Thursday)


M:14yrs
Dday 1 EA 7/8/2010
Dday 2 PA 3/1/2013 same OMM for 4yrs

Mister rabbit says, "A moment of realization is worth a thousand prayers."


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ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 7:07 PM, July 25th (Thursday)

Y'all are too much!!

a really country way of saying FIRE!
Ahhhhhh... thank you for clarifying that! I'm a Carolina Girl currently living around more cows than people, but I still didn't get it. Not sure what that says about me!

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gahurts
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Default  Posted: 7:09 PM, July 25th (Thursday)

Oh NO! I didn;t mean to cross the line.

I'm sorry!
So sorry!

How many goats to I need to sacrifice to make amends?

(PSST - BBQ in Georgia after this dies down)


"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie


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dadof4
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Default  Posted: 7:11 PM, July 25th (Thursday)

I could only get about 5 pages in. The comments in my view reflect what society thinks infidelity. Lately I have been spending most of my time in the Betrayed Men's thread section because its pretty safe. It struck home when DS commented about the difference between betrayed men and betrayed women. The comments bear that out. Society makes us out to be doormats and pathetic. The Menz thread is the only place where we have a true brotherhood that isn't lying to our face. The whole thing adds insult to injury which is why I only got 5 pages in.


Me 52(BH)
Her 46 (FWW)
Kids-24,22,18,15
Married 25 years.
D-Day Sept 12 2009
LTA=4 years

Reconciling.


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gahurts
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Default  Posted: 7:14 PM, July 25th (Thursday)

I had to stop reading the comments, too. Direct personal attacks that were mean spirited and baseless. They were making me sick.

I felt proud of those of us strong enough to fight back against some of the meanness and ignorance on behalf of SI.


"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie


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Default  Posted: 7:16 PM, July 25th (Thursday)

I read all the comments. Just internet trolls or people who have no clue what they are talking about. It reminds me of why I don't read comments on articles. But, in retrospect, those people have made my afternoon quite entertaining.


My Friends call me Wonderboy--That's Mr. SuperduperWonderboy to you Tred.


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Default  Posted: 7:17 PM, July 25th (Thursday)


My Friends call me Wonderboy--That's Mr. SuperduperWonderboy to you Tred.


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jjct
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Default  Posted: 7:18 PM, July 25th (Thursday)

Was brave of you to go there DS.
Holding yourself out to public scrutiny - knowing in advance I bet - that it would generate such a reaction.
Very brave.

Who among us, who among the o-so-informed hp readers and popular posters could do this?

Not many. That's why you guys are rare. Why don't people do this?
Because it's hard.

Maybe at some future date, this is so sad to imagine but I bet it's true....some anonymous someone will come crawling in here needing mojo, you know?
Just like me.


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Clarrissa
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Default  Posted: 7:33 PM, July 25th (Thursday)

I had the thought while reading most of the comments that few, if any, would have the strength to reconcile if they were betrayed. After all, they think it's weak to fight for the M, to give that second chance. Well I, for one, will be eternally grateful my H was "weak".


They seem to think that if the WS is immediately kicked to the curb the BS will be just fine. Which just goes to prove how utterly clueless they are. If they *are* just fine afterward then they weren't that invested in the relationship, right?


BH Cee64D - 48
WW (me) - 49


All affairs are variations on a theme. No one has 'Beethoven's 5th' to everyone else's 'Chopsticks'.


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Tred
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Default  Posted: 7:35 PM, July 25th (Thursday)

Maybe at some future date, this is so sad to imagine but I bet it's true....some anonymous someone will come crawling in here needing mojo, you know?
Just like me.

Damn JJ...you fill my heart brother.


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D-Day: 11/09/11
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DefiledRage
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Default  Posted: 7:35 PM, July 25th (Thursday)

If they *are* just fine afterward then they weren't that invested in the relationship

^^^^^ Ding,Ding,Ding!


M:14yrs
Dday 1 EA 7/8/2010
Dday 2 PA 3/1/2013 same OMM for 4yrs

Mister rabbit says, "A moment of realization is worth a thousand prayers."


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cmego
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Default  Posted: 7:35 PM, July 25th (Thursday)

I refuse to read the comments, it will just piss me off. Walk a mile in my shoes...

I am very thankful for this website. I have "met" amazing people, I have support and the occasional 2x4 when I need it, and I have survived hell on earth.

Thank you for everything you guys do!!


me...BS, 43 years old, 2 small kids
WS, 41, multiple gay affairs
M 15 years, together 17
Divorced

"For whatever we lose, like a you or a me, it's always ourselves we find in the sea" ee cummings


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StillGoing
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Default  Posted: 7:40 PM, July 25th (Thursday)

SI can market its own printer, the INKSLAYER 9000


Honestly the gas on that thing is probably cheaper than the fucking ink cartridges.


“Fate is a fickle bitch who dotes on irony.”

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aesir
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Default  Posted: 7:48 PM, July 25th (Thursday)


Your mileage may vary... in accordance with the prophecy.

Do not back up. Severe tire damage.


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aesir
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Default  Posted: 7:54 PM, July 25th (Thursday)


Your mileage may vary... in accordance with the prophecy.

Do not back up. Severe tire damage.


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DefiledRage
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Default  Posted: 7:59 PM, July 25th (Thursday)

INKSLAYER 9000

Found it, even prints in duplicate, so that one copy can be placed in said briefcase.


M:14yrs
Dday 1 EA 7/8/2010
Dday 2 PA 3/1/2013 same OMM for 4yrs

Mister rabbit says, "A moment of realization is worth a thousand prayers."


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SuperDuperWonderboy
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Default  Posted: 7:59 PM, July 25th (Thursday)

Solid Aesir. very solid.


My Friends call me Wonderboy--That's Mr. SuperduperWonderboy to you Tred.


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StillGoing
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Default  Posted: 8:03 PM, July 25th (Thursday)

Niiiiiice DR. I bet we could find a Companion Cube casemod for that, too.

Then we just need to finish the GladOS installation at the secret underground SI laboratories...


“Fate is a fickle bitch who dotes on irony.”

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DefiledRage
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Default  Posted: 8:17 PM, July 25th (Thursday)

SG good call, maybe we could even hook it up to a raspberry pi with a wireless cell module. Have it run a script to access the sms messages and print them out automatically as soon as they come within range. Might have to program in a the target IMEI id of the phone otherwise might end up with the neighbors txts...wait never mind, that could be interesting too!

[This message edited by DefiledRage at 8:24 PM, July 25th (Thursday)]


M:14yrs
Dday 1 EA 7/8/2010
Dday 2 PA 3/1/2013 same OMM for 4yrs

Mister rabbit says, "A moment of realization is worth a thousand prayers."


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kernel
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Default  Posted: 8:22 PM, July 25th (Thursday)

DR, you're starting to scare me. Like you work for the NSA.


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

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DefiledRage
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Default  Posted: 8:23 PM, July 25th (Thursday)

And since DS and MH are apparently (according to HP trolls in the know) rolling in cash, they might be willing to finance the whole thing. We promise to put a big shiny purple SI sticker on the front of it!
All proceeds to SI of course.


M:14yrs
Dday 1 EA 7/8/2010
Dday 2 PA 3/1/2013 same OMM for 4yrs

Mister rabbit says, "A moment of realization is worth a thousand prayers."


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Default  Posted: 10:25 PM, July 25th (Thursday)

I had no idea there was so much internet on SI. It makes me feel more welcome.

At least we don't have any ponies (yet).


Seriously though, this site changed my life for the better. I am very grateful that y'all take the time and effort to reach out to people who otherwise feel lost and alone.


Me: BH - Happily Remarried, but dealing with old stuff

“I'm losing my mind in a bedroom with a ghost
and I'm losing my mind in a bottle while I choke
I stayed years with you, no one knows (but I want them to).”
– Thought Industry


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noescape
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Default  Posted: 10:32 PM, July 25th (Thursday)

late to this party... dang!!! that was one epic thread....

wb & MJ, you're killing me!!!! LOL


moon pies, goats and briefcases are all fine but how come no one invited me for this:

We dance naked at night during the full moon."

shiiiat, you guys been having fun without me!!!!!


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StillGoing
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Default  Posted: 5:59 AM, July 26th (Friday)


“Fate is a fickle bitch who dotes on irony.”

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gahurts
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Default  Posted: 7:44 AM, July 26th (Friday)

^^^^^ This looks like something my dentist usedon me last month.

Or were they aliens?


"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie


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Default  Posted: 8:09 AM, July 26th (Friday)

The memes....oh God the memes...


Cannot.Stop.Laughing.


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Default  Posted: 9:51 AM, July 26th (Friday)

I loved it but I hate the comments and some from our very own members.

A cult? I've never been in a cult!


Old Timer, Just here to help
My screen name is: Am I The Ow? - Not Ami the OW.

Because in my situation I didn't know if I was the OW at first or if I was being cheated on. Found I was being cheated on.


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aesir
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Default  Posted: 10:19 AM, July 26th (Friday)


Your mileage may vary... in accordance with the prophecy.

Do not back up. Severe tire damage.


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Default  Posted: 12:34 PM, July 26th (Friday)

Love it Aesir!!! Huge Airplane fan here.


xBW~ 35
Two of the most darling sons ~ 10 and 7

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KBeguile
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Default  Posted: 7:03 PM, July 31st (Wednesday)

I'm sad that this all happened while my compy was being repaired! I had so many memes to contribute.

God, those people are idiots.


Me: fWS 32
Her: BS 35 (HeartInADustpan)
DS: 4yo
M: 7 years
DDays: 2012/11/14, 2013/02/05, 2013/03/09
-
"Everything that happens now is happening 'now.'"
"What happened to 'then'?"
"We passed 'then.'"

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Default  Posted: 11:58 AM, August 1st (Thursday)

I for one, am very thankful for the article on Huffington Post. Without it I would not have found SI. How I wish I had SI when I went through seemingly endless betrayal at the hands of my then husband and later, (too MUCH later) my divorce. I am finally getting the help and understanding I've desperately needed for so long. I've already referred a few friends to the site, being sure to explain no matter which side of the situation you are on, there is help to be found here.

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Default  Posted: 12:43 PM, August 1st (Thursday)

Welcome, Debaser! We are so very glad you found SI, too.


You can call me NIK

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-Hayley Williams


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metamorphisis
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Default  Posted: 12:51 PM, August 1st (Thursday)

Hi Debaser and Welcome to S.I.!



“We don't see things as they are; we see them as we are.”... Anais Nin

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aesir
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Default  Posted: 12:52 PM, August 1st (Thursday)

I'm sad that this all happened while my compy was being repaired! I had so many memes to contribute.
I think a statement like that needs to be backed up.


Your mileage may vary... in accordance with the prophecy.

Do not back up. Severe tire damage.


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metamorphisis
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Default  Posted: 12:54 PM, August 1st (Thursday)



“We don't see things as they are; we see them as we are.”... Anais Nin

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Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 12:58 PM, August 1st (Thursday)


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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Clarrissa
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Default  Posted: 4:33 PM, August 1st (Thursday)

But Meta, epic threads *shouldn't* die, don't you agree?


BH Cee64D - 48
WW (me) - 49


All affairs are variations on a theme. No one has 'Beethoven's 5th' to everyone else's 'Chopsticks'.


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KBeguile
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Default  Posted: 8:30 PM, August 1st (Thursday)


Me: fWS 32
Her: BS 35 (HeartInADustpan)
DS: 4yo
M: 7 years
DDays: 2012/11/14, 2013/02/05, 2013/03/09
-
"Everything that happens now is happening 'now.'"
"What happened to 'then'?"
"We passed 'then.'"

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KBeguile
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Default  Posted: 8:30 PM, August 1st (Thursday)


Me: fWS 32
Her: BS 35 (HeartInADustpan)
DS: 4yo
M: 7 years
DDays: 2012/11/14, 2013/02/05, 2013/03/09
-
"Everything that happens now is happening 'now.'"
"What happened to 'then'?"
"We passed 'then.'"

Posts: 797 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: St. Louis
KBeguile
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Default  Posted: 8:30 PM, August 1st (Thursday)


Me: fWS 32
Her: BS 35 (HeartInADustpan)
DS: 4yo
M: 7 years
DDays: 2012/11/14, 2013/02/05, 2013/03/09
-
"Everything that happens now is happening 'now.'"
"What happened to 'then'?"
"We passed 'then.'"

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StillGoing
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Default  Posted: 9:27 PM, August 1st (Thursday)

I'm sad that this all happened while my compy was being repaired! I had so many memes to contribute.

I think a statement like that needs to be backed up.

I lol'd for several minutes.


“Fate is a fickle bitch who dotes on irony.”

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