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Sad in AZ
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Wink  Posted: 3:54 PM, July 13th (Saturday)

I don't even know if it qualifies as a NB--I've had many in the past few years.

I'm moving back home--sort of. I've accepted a position in upstate NY--where I basically grew up. I spent every summer-and a lot of the winter skiing-here from age 5 to 18.

I start my new job on August 12th, so it's another quick move. I'll be managing a custom car dealership specializing in Corvettes; some very high-end classic cars (including Trans Ams, my favorite) plus late models-Corvettes, BMWs, etc.

It's exciting, scary, and so me

Oh, and there may be another part of the NB--it's much too early to say at this point, though...


I solemnly swear that I am up to no good.

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cayc
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Default  Posted: 3:56 PM, July 13th (Saturday)

Wow, that sounds awesome. Congratulations!


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Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 4:00 PM, July 13th (Saturday)

Woohoo!! Welcome to the east coast! If you happen to be driving to the new abode, you'll be coming very near to my area. The gang and I would love to meet you.


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 4:00 PM, July 13th (Saturday)

Wow! I was just getting used to you being in TX.

Congratulations!


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Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 4:07 PM, July 13th (Saturday)

I threw it out to the universe--I've been applying in NY, AZ, NM, CA-whatever struck my fancy. The only interest I received was from NY. I guess it was meant to be.


I solemnly swear that I am up to no good.

Posts: 20292 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
phmh
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Default  Posted: 4:21 PM, July 13th (Saturday)

Congratulations. Opportunity for new birds for the life list!


Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!

Married: 11 years, no kids

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FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 4:22 PM, July 13th (Saturday)

Wow, you move around almost as much as I do... Congratulations!


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
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Posts: 17558 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
cmego
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Default  Posted: 4:33 PM, July 13th (Saturday)

Cool!!


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WS, 41, multiple gay affairs
M 15 years, together 17
Divorced

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Posts: 4186 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: South
Chrysalis123
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Default  Posted: 4:34 PM, July 13th (Saturday)

Congrats!!!!!!!


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Kajem
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Default  Posted: 4:37 PM, July 13th (Saturday)

Congratulations...

Where do you find these places to apply to?

Hugs,

K


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kernel
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Default  Posted: 4:37 PM, July 13th (Saturday)

Congrats! How exciting! It always sounded like your Texas job was very unfulfilling. Good for you for trying something new. Takes guts!

[This message edited by kernel at 4:38 PM, July 13th (Saturday)]


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Posts: 5297 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 4:52 PM, July 13th (Saturday)

Cool!!! You were looking at NY even when you applied for the TX job, weren't you?


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gahurts
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Default  Posted: 6:39 PM, July 13th (Saturday)

Congrats!!!!

And you already know the language so it'll be easy to blend in.


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Posts: 3432 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Georgia
nutmegkitty
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Default  Posted: 6:50 PM, July 13th (Saturday)

Good luck with your move!


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OW
OC

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Posts: 2601 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: MA
hill
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Default  Posted: 7:05 PM, July 13th (Saturday)

Wow, Sad!! Awesome job!! I'm very jealous... although I'll admit I'm partial to German cars. Keep me updated on the Bimmers

...and I LOVE Saratoga, if that's close. Maybe an upstate GTG is in order...


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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 7:23 PM, July 13th (Saturday)

Congrats!!!

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Crescita
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Default  Posted: 8:38 PM, July 13th (Saturday)

That sounds amazing, congratulations!


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Posts: 3459 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: The Valley of the Sun
persevere
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Default  Posted: 8:44 PM, July 13th (Saturday)

How exciting! Especially the opportunity to see people you grew up with!

After my move just to a smaller home a year ago, I don't think I could survive that again...lol!

But you are amazing SAZ - I'm so happy for you!


Me: BW-44
Him: XWH-44
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

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Posts: 4614 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Texas
Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 9:08 PM, July 13th (Saturday)

Yes, Ama. I was actually approached by one of those companies back in April; that started my me on the hunt again. Nothing came of it, but it gave me the impetus.

Kajem--I set up alerts on Indeed.com and SimplyHired.com; that seemed to cover all the bases.

And hill,I'm up for a g2g anytime! I'll be very close to Saratoga.


I solemnly swear that I am up to no good.

Posts: 20292 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
5454real
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Default  Posted: 9:12 PM, July 13th (Saturday)

Awesome!

Can't hardly image two much different climates though.

Bet your thermostat settings change!

Good luck!


BH 51, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 20(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
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Posts: 2995 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 10:45 PM, July 13th (Saturday)

That's great, Sad! So happy for you!


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Posts: 15415 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Now an AZ girl
aesir
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Default  Posted: 11:27 PM, July 13th (Saturday)

Guess your SI name is still appropriate, just needs a hyphen added now.

Sad in A-Z


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exhausted lady
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Default  Posted: 2:34 AM, July 14th (Sunday)

I threw it out to the universe

Sad....that's a very healthy thing to do. I wish you well, and hope it all turns up roses. You deserve it.

Although, the SW is gonna miss you girl!!! Go set the world on fire. I know you have it in you!!!


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authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 5:37 AM, July 14th (Sunday)

Sad!!! I never post in here but...you're moving to NY???

Is it near where you were when you came this way and we were supposed to meet but I had that crisis with DS and couldn't meet you?

PM me where you'll be living .


Take up your space (and do it well).

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torn2bits
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Default  Posted: 9:00 AM, July 14th (Sunday)

I am so excited for you Sad! What an amazing journey you are on. We can all take notes.

Yes, I hope your ready for that snow again!


Me: 44/WH (SA): 49
M: 24 years 3 kids over 10 yrs old
EA/ PA Dec. 2009 -Divorce pending

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OnceInALifetime
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Default  Posted: 9:09 AM, July 14th (Sunday)

@aesir

Welcome to the northeast, Sad!! Out of the frying pan and into the icebox. I might be in the market for a new car before toooo long...

[This message edited by OnceInALifetime at 9:58 AM, July 14th (Sunday)]


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fraeuken
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Default  Posted: 9:38 AM, July 14th (Sunday)

Good luck with your move! Sounds like a fun job.


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GabyBaby
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Default  Posted: 9:48 AM, July 14th (Sunday)

Congrats!!


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Status - Stick a fork in me...

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Posts: 6540 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: California
tesla
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Default  Posted: 11:00 AM, July 14th (Sunday)

Congrats! And how exciting!!


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gma56
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Default  Posted: 12:53 PM, July 14th (Sunday)

NBs are complete surprises !Many times in the nicest ways !
Congrats !!!
Hugs, Gma


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Posts: 20383 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Closer to where I want to be..
silverhopes
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Default  Posted: 6:24 PM, July 14th (Sunday)

Congratulations, Sad!!! On to some new adventures!!! And just in time for beautiful East Coast autumn.


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Posts: 3905 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: California
ajsmom
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Default  Posted: 10:45 AM, July 15th (Monday)

That's great news!

Good for you!

AJ's MOM


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TrulyReconciled
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Default  Posted: 12:06 PM, July 15th (Monday)

Congratulations!!!

So ... what kind of discount can you get for us ... hmmmm?


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Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 1:18 PM, July 15th (Monday)

Things are moving along; I met the rest of the staff today and found an apartment. I'm so excited!!

Now, I just have to move


I solemnly swear that I am up to no good.

Posts: 20292 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 1:20 PM, July 15th (Monday)

what kind of discount can you get for us

I still have to figure out where I can hide my embarrassing car when I go to work.


I solemnly swear that I am up to no good.

Posts: 20292 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
gahurts
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Default  Posted: 2:29 PM, July 15th (Monday)

Maybe your first sale should be to yourself!


"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie


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