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tesla
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Default  Posted: 10:04 AM, June 23rd (Sunday)

Somebody recently told me that ex-shat said he had to get out of our marriage because...ready for this?...I was driving him to commit suicide!

Holy shit! To think that I have so much power over another person that I can make them want to commit suicide!! Watch out world, I am one evil bitch!


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4634 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
IrishLass518
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Default  Posted: 10:12 AM, June 23rd (Sunday)

Hey, you can't have that super power.....that one is mine
I have heard this one before too. Sad ain't it? They can't even accept responsibility for their own thoughts.


Me: 46 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 23, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"

Posts: 1755 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: WA
thebighurt
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Default  Posted: 10:28 AM, June 23rd (Sunday)

I'm probably a really bad person for saying this (especially on Sunday), but it's almost too bad when someone like him realizes something like that in time.

<slap> oh, really can't believe that actually came out on the page....

You are one powerful, evil bitch!!


Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

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roughroadahead
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Default  Posted: 10:59 AM, June 23rd (Sunday)

I wonder if they ever realize how utterly ridiculous that sounds when said out loud to a normal person?

Probably not...


BS-Me 30s
WS-Him 30s
D-Day 4/2012 (Insisted EA only)
D-Day 5/2012 (Did I say EA? Ummm..)
Numerous other TT/broken NC d-days until S 1/2013. D settled 11/2013
MOW-coworker, 40s.
2 DS and DD all w/autism

Posts: 737 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: USA
Helen of Troy
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Default  Posted: 11:05 AM, June 23rd (Sunday)

Yeah ok if a spouse is so horrible that it causes a "drive to commit suicide", then by all means don't try marital counseling and don't ask for a divorce. Have an affair instead! because that solves everything.

Who cares about integrity or causing pain to others?

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Loyalty2Liberty
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Default  Posted: 11:09 AM, June 23rd (Sunday)

I wonder if they ever realize how utterly ridiculous that sounds when said out loud to a normal person?

Nope. Immunity to reality is their superpower.

[This message edited by Loyalty2Liberty at 11:10 AM, June 23rd (Sunday)]


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him:stbxWh


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FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 11:54 AM, June 23rd (Sunday)

:face:palm:


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

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peridot
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Default  Posted: 12:01 PM, June 23rd (Sunday)

Welcome to the super power club!


I think...therefore, I'm single.

It is what it is.


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scotslass
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Default  Posted: 12:07 PM, June 23rd (Sunday)

Can I join the "SPC" ?


3 wonderful children (sometimes!!)
18 ds
16 dd
14 ds
Me. - moving on and upward !!!

Posts: 102 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Texas
SBB
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Default  Posted: 12:16 PM, June 23rd (Sunday)

Oh I do love it when they show everyone else what fuckwits they are.

I mean besides infidelity - just in general.

The Irish call it "showing his arse".

Its really not that hard to keep it in your pants dude.


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 5559 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
thebighurt
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Default  Posted: 1:45 PM, June 23rd (Sunday)

Its really not that hard to keep it in your pants dude.

If they could all keep their own parts in their own pants, there wouldn't be a SI site...

Tesla, I might want to introduce you to someone.


Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

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ButterflyGirl
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Default  Posted: 1:52 PM, June 23rd (Sunday)

Tesla, I might want to introduce you to someone.

I was thinking the same thing.. I'm wondering how far your powers work


xBW~ 35
Two of the most darling sons ~ 10 and 7

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ButterflyGirl
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Default  Posted: 1:52 PM, June 23rd (Sunday)

Apparently my super power is the double post.. Sigh..

[This message edited by ButterflyGirl at 1:54 PM, June 23rd (Sunday)]


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Two of the most darling sons ~ 10 and 7

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tryingagain74
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Default  Posted: 2:08 PM, June 23rd (Sunday)

Well, if that's how he feels around you, then I'm glad to hear that you've been using your powers for good.


BS (Me) 39
Happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

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Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 2:30 PM, June 23rd (Sunday)

The power dynamic between you and your ex reminds me so much of me and my ex. In both cases it was a weak, victim-minded man with a strong, intelligent, capable woman who for some reason closed her eyes and lowered herself to his level... For reasons none of us understand.

It's good to be rid of them, isn't it?


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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tesla
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Default  Posted: 3:33 PM, June 23rd (Sunday)

In both cases it was a weak, victim-minded man with a strong, intelligent, capable woman who for some reason closed her eyes and lowered herself to his level... For reasons none of us understand.

Sadly, so incredibly true!

And yes, feels great to be freed of such a dead weight.


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4634 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 3:48 PM, June 23rd (Sunday)

I can cause heart attacks. In fact, I have caused heart attacks. Without even trying. I'm a Super Bitch. Feel the powah!


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

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TattoodChinaDoll
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Default  Posted: 3:56 PM, June 23rd (Sunday)

I have that power, too! Except mine only effects him after the infidelity and he has to deal with the aftermath...ya know...a heartbroken wife who can't rug sweep everything to make HIM feel better. So if Tesla can't get him...I will.


Me (BW): 32
WH: 33 TimeToManUp
Married: 11 years, together 16 years
3 daughters: 9, 5, 3, and and 2 angel babies (2013 and 2014)
D-Day: 12/21/2011
Confronted him: 12/22/2011


Posts: 1720 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: New Jersey
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 4:09 PM, June 23rd (Sunday)

I wonder if they ever realize how utterly ridiculous that sounds when said out loud to a normal person?

Nope. Immunity to reality is their superpower.


^^^^ THIS.

My little super power is to cause hurricanes to hit our state. All 5 of the hurricanes in 2005 and most of them since then all hit on his weekends with the kids. It was all my fault. He even told the judge, his lawyer...

Sigh...I also caused his High Blood Pressure...I think I caused her lupus also.

Just ask him.


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5101 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
SBB
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Default  Posted: 4:11 PM, June 23rd (Sunday)

He even told the judge, his lawyer...

Oh no he didn't!!

My only superpower is the one that caused him to cheat. I think we all have that.


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

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dmari
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Default  Posted: 4:26 PM, June 23rd (Sunday)

Oh boy ... that was my super power too!!

In the beginning, I would feel guilty but now I'm like ... eh, whatevs!


Me (BS): 42 Children: DD 19, DS 15
Settled at mediation
Officially divorced ... SOON!

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Vulcanized
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Default  Posted: 4:53 PM, June 23rd (Sunday)

Yeah, I magically made him fuck OW in my bed while I was at work.

As for the suicide, I got "I'm going to and it will be ALL YOUR FAULT!!!"
And he stomped off like a 5 year old, too.


Me: MH 40s; Him: MH 40s (I had RA)
OW: 30s, moron; one of many
M: 8 yrs
3/13: D'd
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Everything is as it should be.

Posts: 752 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Vulcania
Take2
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Default  Posted: 5:21 PM, June 23rd (Sunday)

Well, I for one, have know that you have a super power, for quite a while now!!

Though I would have bet money your super power was in the realm of restraint from committing murder. Guess the fact that he is still breathing proves us both right! You could have made him commit suicide but you didn't!

He's really a moron!


"We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us." Joseph Campbell...So, If fear was not a factor - what would you do?

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npain
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Default  Posted: 8:40 PM, June 23rd (Sunday)

Take 2, I think you are so correct on that one...the fact that we haven't committed murder yet speaks to some serious super powers.

Yet to hear what we are capable of from the X's we should be able to get fire to rain down from the sky and turn water into blood by now, ya think!


S,beginning D

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Holly-Isis
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Default  Posted: 8:55 PM, June 23rd (Sunday)

Are you sure he didn't say stupidcide?

You know, the scenario where someone previously assumed to be sane crawls into the germy lap of a stripperwhore, steals a dog and knocks her up...the stripper, not the dog. He could tell them apart by smell because one bathed more often.

Apparently the result of stupidcide is having to work two jobs to support strippermama in the lifestyle she is accustomed to (tube tops and velour children's pantsuits don't come cheap), live in a zoo and continue stupidcide by opening your mouth about your XBW.


"Being in love" first moved them to promise fidelity: this quieter love enables them to keep the promise. *CS Lewis*

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numbandnauseous
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Default  Posted: 12:22 AM, June 24th (Monday)

Just have to give you props, Holly!!!

That is some funny shit!!!!


BS (me) - 41
WH - 48, EA with HS GF x 2
M: 10 years, T: 20
2 small children
DDay#1 - Christmas 2011 (OW#1)
Confronted - 4/6/12
DDay#2 - July 9, 2012 (OW#2)
He is an SA (Oct 2012)
Divorcing

Posts: 827 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: the other side
debbysbaby
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Default  Posted: 1:01 AM, June 24th (Monday)

I nee to borrow your super power.


-betrayed almost my whole almost 15 yr marriage
-divorced since 2004

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Ashland13
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Default  Posted: 8:31 PM, June 25th (Tuesday)

I can cause panic and worry that I will cause panic.

The antidote? Don't tell the wife the problem, let her find out herself and then BAM! make a small problem bigger.

Perverted Happy Pants told me it was my emotions. He can't stand to see people cry.

Well, he also said OW throws fits at him. This is going to be different why?


Ashland 13

A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess

Perserverance and spirit have done wonders in all ages.

-George Washington


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