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MovingUpward
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Member # 14866
Default  Posted: 7:09 AM, June 15th (Saturday)

Happy Father's Day to the many wonderful dads here on SI.!

I know at times on this journey things can be tough. Having to deal with the raw emotions of infidelity one minute and having to set them aside to show your kids the love that they need the next. Stay strong in your love for them for they might be hurting too for even if they don't say it, your love for them is important and appreciated.

Enjoy the weekend, enjoy your kids.

Happy Father's Day


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


Posts: 52534 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
somanyyears
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Member # 26970
Default  Posted: 7:42 AM, June 15th (Saturday)


..thanks Moo..

..we're heading up to the cottage in a few minutes..

..kids(adult) are already there to celebrate this weekend.

,,I'll be going for my first waterski of the season..hope the water isn't too cold!!

..steaks on the BBQ tonight and ....oh ya.. a few brown pops!

Happy Fathers Day to all.

smy


trust no other human- love only your pets
She isn't and never was who I thought..I can't believe who I married and what she did to us.
Me 67
Her 63
Married 42 yrs (together 47)
18 yr LTA with bf


Posts: 4129 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: the sad state of affairs
wifehad5
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Member # 15162
Default  Posted: 2:25 PM, June 15th (Saturday)


FBH - 42
FWW - 43 (BrokenRoad)
2 kids 7&12

The people you do your life with shape the life you live


Posts: 37352 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Michigan
toomanyregrets
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Member # 37740
Default  Posted: 4:42 PM, June 15th (Saturday)

Thanks !!!


BH - 64
fWW - 60

"Affairs are not mistakes, they are a series of deliberate choices." - CrappyLife


Posts: 481 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: Upstate NY
authenticnow
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Member # 16024
Default  Posted: 4:44 PM, June 15th (Saturday)

Happy Father's Day to all the fabulous dads here!!!


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


Posts: 37970 | Registered: Sep 2007
stilllovinghim
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Member # 29971
Default  Posted: 5:31 PM, June 15th (Saturday)

Happy Father's Day to some of the best men around, the BEST tho is my H.

Ladies, when you ask where all the *good men* have gone, look around here at SI.


“You have a choice. Live or die.Every breath is a choice. Every minute is a choice. Every time you don't throw yourself down the stairs, that's a choice. Every time you don't crash your car, you re-enlist.”
― Chuck Palahniuk, Survivor

Posts: 1942 | Registered: Oct 2010
Jrazz
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Member # 31349
Default  Posted: 5:40 PM, June 15th (Saturday)

A VERY happy Father's Day to all the great dads here. I'm honored to know you and very proud of how much love and stability you show your kids.


Cherish those who seek the truth but beware of those who find it. - François-Marie Arouet

Posts: 17755 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
metamorphisis
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Member # 12041
Default  Posted: 5:44 PM, June 15th (Saturday)

Happy Fathers Day!!!!!!!!

From the fathers here, to my own dad and FIL, to my amazing husband.. well.. I am lucky to know some wonderful fathers.



“We don't see things as they are; we see them as we are.”... Anais Nin

Posts: 44928 | Registered: Sep 2006
stilllovingher
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Member # 29959
Default  Posted: 5:54 PM, June 15th (Saturday)


The only difference between a butt kisser and a brown noser is depth perception.
I'm sure WAL would agree.

Posts: 2407 | Registered: Oct 2010 | From: still BFE, but now BFE, CA
AFrayedKnot
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Member # 36622
Default  Posted: 5:56 PM, June 15th (Saturday)

Happy Fathers Day


BS 40
fWS 36 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

Posts: 2628 | Registered: Aug 2012
Dark Inertia
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Member # 30727
Default  Posted: 6:23 PM, June 15th (Saturday)

Happy dad's day, you guys are unsung heroes. :)


"If I listened earlier, I wouldn't be here. But that's just the trouble with me. I give myself very good advice, but I very seldom follow it."

Posts: 1278 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: The Ohio
HardenMyHeart
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Member # 15902
Default  Posted: 6:26 PM, June 15th (Saturday)


Me: BH, Her: FWW - Long Term EA/PA
d-day: June 25, 2007
Married 30 years, Reconciled

Inner peace begins the moment you choose not to allow another person or event to control your emotions.


Posts: 5695 | Registered: Aug 2007
Kajem
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Member # 36134
Default  Posted: 12:49 AM, June 16th (Sunday)

Happy Father's Day to all the dads who do their best to keep it about the kids. You guys are the best daddies.

Hugs,

K


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5249 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
Dare2Trust
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Member # 21183
Default  Posted: 1:33 AM, June 16th (Sunday)

Happy Father's Day to all our SI Dads!!!


Me BS 59
WH 58
Married 19 years
D-Day Nov 3, 2005
Child: Adopted Daughter 21 College Student now

I can understand being alone; but I hate being with someone and feeling lonely.


Posts: 6133 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: Texas
ChesterChump
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Member # 38094
Default  Posted: 2:41 AM, June 16th (Sunday)

It's somewhat depressing that this and the kind followups mean more to me than whatever my WW will do or say tomorrow but thank you.

Posts: 26 | Registered: Jan 2013
dmari
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Member # 37215
Default  Posted: 3:11 AM, June 16th (Sunday)

Happy Father's Day to all the connected and involved dads on SI!

And Happy Father's Day to all the mom's who are moms and dads to their children!


Me (BS): 43 Children: DD 19, DS 15
Divorced September 30, 2014
"It's always darkest before the dawn ..."

Posts: 2264 | Registered: Oct 2012
MovingUpward
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Member # 14866
Default  Posted: 12:14 PM, June 16th (Sunday)


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


Posts: 52534 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
karmahappens
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Member # 35846
Default  Posted: 12:18 PM, June 16th (Sunday)

Happy Father's Day!!


“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd

Posts: 3844 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Massachusetts
Williesmom
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Member # 22870
Default  Posted: 7:17 PM, June 16th (Sunday)

Happy day to all of you guys on SI. You give me faith that I will find a good man.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7761 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
Sal1995
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Member # 39099
Default  Posted: 7:26 PM, June 16th (Sunday)

Thanks!


Me (BS)-45, WW-43
DDay 2/17/13, 9-10 month PA/EA
M - 18 years, 4 children
Reconciling

Posts: 1450 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Texas
simplydevastated
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Member # 25001
Default  Posted: 7:44 PM, June 16th (Sunday)

Happy Father's Day to all the fabulous dads here on SI. I how today brings you much love and happiness

(((Hugs)))


Me - BS, 39 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
Married, for now... (4+ D-Day - listed in profile.)

Posts: 5854 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell!
HeavyE
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Member # 19333
Default  Posted: 7:49 PM, June 16th (Sunday)


You can't change the wind, but you can adjust your sails.

Me Tarzan
Her Jane

Reconciled
D-Day 4/14/08


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