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veelop5
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Default  Posted: 2:53 PM, June 13th (Thursday)

I am on two OLD sites...OKC & POF....NOTHING...I believe because they are free you get all kinds of weirdos on there....I work two jobs practically everyday so meeting new people is almost impossible...but I have been single almost a year and feel like I want to dip my toes in the dating scene...This is so aggitating...


ME-38
XH-40
3 beautiful boys (20,19 & 15)
Update: Moved in to my own apartment 8/7/2012
Divorce final 3/27/2013

Posts: 1096 | Registered: Jun 2006 | From: Pennsylvania
better4me
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Default  Posted: 3:00 PM, June 13th (Thursday)

I agree that it can be frustrating with some of the OLD sites. You do get what you pay for on the free sites. It may make sense to invest on one of the paid ones...In my area the majority of users are on Match...


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Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 3:05 PM, June 13th (Thursday)

You do get what you pay for

Not necessarily; I met a fair number of nuts on eHarmony.


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notmeanymore
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Default  Posted: 3:09 PM, June 13th (Thursday)

I was on Match. I didn't think it was any different than the free sites in fact a lot of the same people were on both.


"Put the cuckoo back in the clock baby" - Four Brothers

Posts: 872 | Registered: Feb 2006
caregiver9000
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Member # 28622
Default  Posted: 3:16 PM, June 13th (Thursday)

update your profile. On OKC if you answer a question and add an explanation, you get highlighted on the updates page. This can increase traffic on your profile.

Also, don't be hesitant to contact first.

I don't know where you are but I think the websites vary on content and value depending on your location.

I also have to say that the paid site I am on is a huge disappointment to me. Not a "get what you pay for" proponent in this from me.

how about some good ole SI mojo? I will send positive dating vibes your way!!

Good luck!


Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
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DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

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CluelessGuy
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Default  Posted: 1:10 AM, June 14th (Friday)

The free sites seem to attract their fair share of dilettantes. Never had much luck on POF, which seems to be more a hook-up place. OKC has an artistic bent, and I've met some very cool people though the site. The paid sites are a real step up in terms of people who are serious about meeting and possibly dating.


BH - early 40s
XWW - early 40s
Two kids

D-Day - Easter 2010
D-Day 2 - July 18, 2010

Divorced - Nov. 26, 2012


Posts: 427 | Registered: May 2010
veelop5
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Member # 11089
Default  Posted: 12:43 PM, June 14th (Friday)

My matches don't fit me and I have Ben tweaking it as I go....I usually say yuck every time I get a hit....really its usually and older bald heavy set man (no offense)...or sexual messages and I clearly state I'm serious and not looking for hook ups! So disappointing!


ME-38
XH-40
3 beautiful boys (20,19 & 15)
Update: Moved in to my own apartment 8/7/2012
Divorce final 3/27/2013

Posts: 1096 | Registered: Jun 2006 | From: Pennsylvania
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