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User Topic: Religious & Political threads
KSA2
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Default  Posted: 10:37 AM, September 4th (Tuesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This is a privately owned support forum for infidelity. The rules regarding this subject are simple: No religious debate or political discussion/debate.

You can discuss how your religion has helped you through this mess, with like-minded individuals.

You *cannot* argue, debate, proselytize, and criticize any religion whatsoever - that is not the purpose of these forums.

We do not hunt down any member on the web and bind them to this forum, giving them no option of leaving or posting elsewhere. The members come to us and request to participate by registering.

When you applied for membership to these forums by registering, you voluntarily entered into an informal contract with the administration of this forum. You agreed to abide by the rules in return for the use of the forums. Should you, after the fact, decide to violate those rules, we will enforce our options under that contract and escort you off the site if we deem it necessary to the safety and peaceful running of these forums.

So, the question now is this: Do you want to utilize the site under the rules of the owners/administrators, or do you want to leave the site and post elsewhere or go start your own where you can make all the Hitler/Nazi references you want to your heart's content?

It really is fairly simple. And it's completely your choice.


No one asks for their life to change, not really. But it does. So, what are we, helpless? Puppets? Nah. The big moments are gonna come, you can't help that. It's what you do afterwards that counts. That's when you find out who you are.

Posts: 29360 | Registered: Jan 2006 | From: Mod Dungeon
Mr. Right
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Angry  Posted: 5:02 PM, September 4th (Tuesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

KSA2:

It's obvious to me that you have some serious issues and if the great minds behind this website cannot allow some spiritual discussion or even a little spirited debate, then you have put together something that will never be effective in the long run. I've noticed that some of your constituents have thousands of posts, which leads me to believe they are unable to emotionally move upward or onward. The moderator before you explained things to me in a very respectful manner and even sent me a personal message with hopes of clarifying things, but you came on here sounding like a real big-shot and Class A a$$hole.

In any event, political correctness is for cowards, mental midgets and spiritual dwarfs. If I want something that is watered down and lacks substance, I'll stop by in the future, or write you a private message. But, until then...you have a clean-up on aisle 3.

[This message edited by Mr. Right at 5:04 PM, September 4th (Tuesday)]


Since everything around us is going to melt away, what Holy and Godly lives you should be living. - St. Peter

Posts: 5 | Registered: Sep 2007 | From: On the road least traveled by.
KSA2
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Default  Posted: 5:08 PM, September 4th (Tuesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'll stop by in the future, or write you a private message.

No.....you won't.


No one asks for their life to change, not really. But it does. So, what are we, helpless? Puppets? Nah. The big moments are gonna come, you can't help that. It's what you do afterwards that counts. That's when you find out who you are.

Posts: 29360 | Registered: Jan 2006 | From: Mod Dungeon
kdny
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Default  Posted: 5:10 PM, September 4th (Tuesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Buh bye........

[This message edited by kdny at 5:13 PM, September 4th (Tuesday)]


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Posts: 81335 | Registered: Dec 2002 | From: Slightly left of center, standing on my head
HippyGirl
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Default  Posted: 5:11 PM, September 4th (Tuesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awwwwwwww, I just popped some popcorn and pulled up a comfy chair...ready to watch the fireworks.


"My religion is simple. My religion is kindness." Dalai Lama

Posts: 2614 | Registered: Jun 2006 | From: Colorado
drowninginsorrow
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Default  Posted: 5:11 PM, September 4th (Tuesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

i was the nice mod earlier...

that was the last straw in a short history of disrespectful inflammatory posts...


FLAMING & ATTACKING: Please refrain from attacking another member, publicly or by using the SI.com Private Message feature


GENERAL STATEMENTS: Please refrain from making statements that generalize gender, WS/OP/BS, race, religion or political alignment

and of course there is the issue of religion we addressed earlier...

4 out of five of your posts are against rather simple and specific guidelines

buh bye


Love is a snowmobile racing across the tundra and then suddenly it flips over, pinning you underneath. At night, the ice weasels come.- Matt Groening
"I've found the secret to life. I'm ok when everything is not ok"- Tori Amos lyrics

Posts: 56712 | Registered: Jun 2004 | From: canuckistan
tputer
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Default  Posted: 5:13 PM, September 4th (Tuesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow! No way that guy was for real. Mods, you allude to the fact that we regular posters' don't see a fraction of the crap you have to deal with.

I'm a believer.

(((Hugs))) to our wonderful mods, so sorry you guys have to be subjected to such absolute and utter garbage. indeed.

[This message edited by tputer at 5:14 PM, September 4th (Tuesday)]


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Hers: 4/5/10

Posts: 20518 | Registered: Jul 2006 | From: San Diego Area
KSA2
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Default  Posted: 5:22 PM, September 4th (Tuesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh, he was actually a calm one, tputer.

Honestly, I wish people would understand that this guideline has fuck-all to do with being politically correct, and everything to do with the fact that there are very few moderators here and these subjects have nothing to do with this board and would in the long run take over the board and take up every last second of our time.

There is no such thing as a civil extended political or religious debate. The subjects do not lend themselves to civility, but to high tempers and emotions.

There are boards out there just for that activity. This isn't one of them. It's really that simple.


No one asks for their life to change, not really. But it does. So, what are we, helpless? Puppets? Nah. The big moments are gonna come, you can't help that. It's what you do afterwards that counts. That's when you find out who you are.

Posts: 29360 | Registered: Jan 2006 | From: Mod Dungeon
porcupine
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Default  Posted: 5:24 PM, September 4th (Tuesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow. Some people are so full of themselves the shit is just pouring out at the seams.

Mods, you are amazing for putting up with such ludicrous and ignorant crap on a daily basis.

I just wish I had a mod button to shut those people up in real life too


The truth does not change according to our ability to stomach it.

Posts: 4271 | Registered: Jul 2005 | From: Belgium
Defiance
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Default  Posted: 5:52 PM, September 4th (Tuesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Do you think that perhaps his username indicates how he feels about himself?

That was a mercifully short membership here.

Thank you, mods. We owe you.

-Defiance


Success is not measured by what you accomplish but by the opposition you have encountered, and the courage with which you have maintained the struggle against overwhelming odds.

Posts: 25371 | Registered: Sep 2005 | From: The Great State of New Jersey, USA
unabletocope
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Default  Posted: 6:22 PM, September 4th (Tuesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you, mods! You are all the best!


me-LTA BW


Posts: 2598 | Registered: Aug 2006
cantlivewithouth
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Default  Posted: 6:34 PM, September 4th (Tuesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What I want to know is was that the record for the shortest membership?????

Mods you guys rock!!!!! If I had to put up with a fraction of what you do everyday and still work and have a life I'd go insane! I think I better write my second donation check tonight!


Married a truly wonderful and loving man Sept. 19, 2010. Not only survived, but thrived.

My new mantra: Argue Your Limitations.‎


Posts: 40985 | Registered: Sep 2006 | From: Canada by way of Virginia
runoverbytruck
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Default  Posted: 6:36 PM, September 4th (Tuesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

No.....you won't.


LTA BS

If you think the grass is greener on the other side, it's because it's fertilized with bullshit.

The best protection a woman can have is courage.~Elizabeth Cady Stanton


Posts: 6814 | Registered: Aug 2006
usedup
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Default  Posted: 6:40 PM, September 4th (Tuesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

ok I found it
you rock
and I have to echo puter
ya all know my beliefs and I don't see much on here,but whatever ya'all take to keep this going,I applaude you for it,I'd have told him to my irish hillbilly unpolitically correct arse
but you did a much better job with just a couple words
applause-whistle-woohooo

Posts: 15831 | Registered: Aug 2006 | From: found
not_a_martyr
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Default  Posted: 8:12 PM, September 4th (Tuesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'd never go so far as to generalize, but there's a reason I have *issues* with religious folks like Mr. Right. He's a shining example, isn't he?

[This message edited by not_a_martyr at 8:19 PM, September 4th (Tuesday)]


me: 40
him: 38
us: in R


Posts: 5856 | Registered: Jan 2006 | From: Texas
still confounded
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Default  Posted: 9:36 PM, September 4th (Tuesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh, man. You guys are so patient.
You make me feel so grateful for your long-suffering wisdom.
I'm sending you another check.
It is the LEAST I can do to thank you for clearing the deck of that upchuck that dude kept heaving all over the place.
Peeeeyew!


"Sometimes, the rest of your life starts with goodbye."
D-day April 2005
(Married 33 years, together 35)
Divorced Dec. '05
Life is good, but it took a long time to heal.

Posts: 1291 | Registered: Aug 2005 | From: up the river, NY
LetDownMan
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Default  Posted: 2:44 AM, December 21st (Friday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Interesting that such a thread has encouraged so many posts.

I am a non believer, but still have the motto "LIVE AND LET LIVE". This of course only applies to BSs.

I wish you all as happy a christmas as is possible. (obviously only those who believe in it!!!!!)


Divorced finalised on 4th September 2009, which was interestingly enough our 11th wedding anniversary.

Posts: 5594 | Registered: Nov 2007 | From: Germany, Europe..lol
snowflake
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Default  Posted: 8:44 PM, January 1st (Tuesday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow I just read that whole thing. What an education.

We all know that it is possible to speak of religious ideas w/o offending. It is a matter of perspective. I have strong beliefs, but don't ever think I have an excuse to call names.

Anyway, what I see is that sometimes people of like faith want to see how those who believe the same as they believe dealt with certain situations. The advice is then given in the framework of like morals and standards.

Anyway, had a great time reading all this.


Me 51
Spouse 49
M 24 years
Road to R is bumpy and outcome is uncertain
Kids 20 and 17

Posts: 130 | Registered: Dec 2007
Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 3:10 PM, February 25th (Monday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Posting this in here...this was originally announced on February 22nd, 2008.

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We are implementing a Zero Tolerance policy regarding *any* political mention.

This means:

No Names
No Jokes
No Polls
No Debate Questions (whether infidelity related or not)

Zero. Nada. Zilch. No mention of politics or of political candidates at all.

We do not have time to Moderate politics on an Infidelity site. There are thousands of political message boards, we encourage you all to go there if the spirit moves you to want to discuss politics.

Breaking the Zero Tolerance rule = losing your Profile.


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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hatinlyfe
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Default  Posted: 3:35 PM, March 8th (Saturday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I really like this feature here, it's nice that we can remain focused on the issues that are bad enough which we can relate to rather then having to deal with issues that separate us. I'm glad to see this as a new memer

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