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Imissmyhusb (original poster member #42734) posted at 3:12 PM on Friday, October 24th, 2014
Is there a way to search for whether a person has a profile on sites like AM? Ive seen posts abt this but how do u find out?
Multiple d-days and TT
3 kids
me - Gettg my life back, him - idk him any more
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I dont know why I stay. Need to figure it out
Tina73 ( member #44910) posted at 7:08 PM on Friday, October 24th, 2014
Don't know. I believe AM is suppose to be discreet!? I hope someone can help you
Me BW- 27
WH-35
DS-7 DD under 1. I love my baby's!
DD#1- Aug 1st 2014- EA
DD#2- Sep 15 2014 - PAs confessed
3 OW in total. Has been unfaithful from day 1
Learning to give up control, and to focus on me!
Notthevictem ( member #44389) posted at 7:35 PM on Friday, October 24th, 2014
Get access to his e-mail, and do the forgot password thing
BH
DDAY Mar 2014
Widowed 2022 - breast cancer
sad81712 ( member #37418) posted at 11:42 PM on Friday, October 24th, 2014
I made a fake AM account to see who was on it....But I have to warn you it made me sick to my stomach to see all those cheaters 
"Pain is mandatory for all of us. It's what teaches us. Suffering is what's optional. That's what happens when we try to skip over the pain."-Glennon Doyle Melton
BW(me)-52 WH-51
Married 25yrs
DD & DS
D-day 8-2012
Imissmyhusb (original poster member #42734) posted at 3:03 AM on Saturday, October 25th, 2014
Good idea @notthevictem
I made a fake acct too but its hard to find his profile without the username. I only hav the emaill addr
Multiple d-days and TT
3 kids
me - Gettg my life back, him - idk him any more
~~~~~~~~~
I dont know why I stay. Need to figure it out
BlueinStLou ( member #44416) posted at 4:32 AM on Saturday, October 25th, 2014
I did both:
I used access to his email and did forgot password. I also set up a dummy account for me and used it to look in my area. You can search within a certain distance, age, etc, so if he was honest with that, you can find him.
Ditto on the prepare to be sick. There are many sickos on AM and all others. I got penis photos on my dummy AM account within minutes of it being set up, even with no photos or info.
DDay1 3/26/2014
DDay2 4/15/2014
DDay 3 7/15/2014
DDay 4 8/15/2014
DDay 5-7 December 2014
DDay 8 - 9/10/15
DDay 9 - 10/15/16
Me BS 42
WH 41
1DD, 2 DS
thebighurt ( member #34722) posted at 5:14 AM on Saturday, October 25th, 2014
Xpos had/has(?) a profile on AM and met women from there, but he also had one on another site that would make AM seem 'like a Cabbage Patch picnic', as he loved to say. It would make you throw up to see what was on the pages anyone could get to, but you need a membership to message anyone, and he got/gets(?) messages on that site too.
The 'Home page' leaves nothing to the imagination. Tells exactly what they want from you/can do for you, and pictures that show everything. I know his member name on that site.
I made a fake email account and signed up with little or no info and no pic. Like the others said, be prepared for disgusting messages and photos that will turn your stomach. I never went back on there and never read the messages, but just the subject lines of the emails that started appearing in my inbox were disgusting. Mind you, I did not give that for that purpose. It was just that there had to be one attached to the account. Somehow a bunch of perverts now have that email addy.
Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?
Feeldisposable ( member #42174) posted at 2:59 PM on Saturday, October 25th, 2014
I did the fake profile thing on AM. I searched my area looking for WS. I didn't find him but did find one of the fathers from my son's Scout group. Now I have to see this cheating POS every week. I so wanted to confront him but didn't want to cause ds any embarrassment. Be prepared that you might recognise some of the pigs on there.
Me BW-43
Him WH-42 (suspected SA)
DD#1-Sept 1,2013 teen hooker
DD#2 Feb 2014 TT admitted EA
Found out from calling OW LTPA
He moved out Dec 2014 and took the cats.
NewGirl ( new member #45273) posted at 2:04 AM on Sunday, October 26th, 2014
Imissmyhusb (original poster member #42734) posted at 2:23 AM on Sunday, October 26th, 2014
Multiple d-days and TT
3 kids
me - Gettg my life back, him - idk him any more
~~~~~~~~~
I dont know why I stay. Need to figure it out
Chicky ( member #18622) posted at 2:44 AM on Sunday, October 26th, 2014
One of the lines on their homepage says "Married Dating has never been easier"
Givers need to set limits because takers never do. THIS GIVER DID and because I stood my ground, we are happily RECONCILED!
Imissmyhusb (original poster member #42734) posted at 3:09 AM on Sunday, October 26th, 2014
Ok so the email says some woman chose his profile and wants to connect but i cant tell what site its from. It just says from 'hottest online dates' news@wikpoint.com. Wth?
Multiple d-days and TT
3 kids
me - Gettg my life back, him - idk him any more
~~~~~~~~~
I dont know why I stay. Need to figure it out
NewGirl ( new member #45273) posted at 6:01 AM on Sunday, October 26th, 2014
omg... it's specifically for married people to cheat?@?@ wtf?@??!?!
Rubix ( member #44099) posted at 12:41 PM on Sunday, October 26th, 2014
My SH gets similar emails. Some of them are scams. Have you typed it in google to see what comes up?
newgirl - yes. I found it digusting to, it's also advertised on TV and radio in certain places.
BS:(28)WS:(32-RemorsefulHubby)
kids:mine:DD 8 ours:DS 2
Married: 24/04/2014. Seperated.
Dday: 13/6/14 CL ads, ONS,
10/2014 CL ads and possible EA
Imissmyhusb (original poster member #42734) posted at 5:37 PM on Sunday, October 26th, 2014
My SH gets similar emails. Some of them are scams. Have you typed it in google to see what comes up?
I did. Nothg fruitful
Multiple d-days and TT
3 kids
me - Gettg my life back, him - idk him any more
~~~~~~~~~
I dont know why I stay. Need to figure it out
ButterflyGirl ( member #38377) posted at 7:55 PM on Sunday, October 26th, 2014
The Craigslist in my area is just as bad..
It is *so* fucking disgusting and sick. Like, SPECIFICALLY for people who want to LIE and MANIPULATE their spouse? Does NO ONE hold these assholes accountable?
A couple other people have mentioned being "affair fairies," where we go on dates with these whores/douchebags, just to save the betrayed spouses.. I could do that for a job..
But for your question, I think the source of someone's computer/phone/tablet/etc would be the best bet for finding out what sites they are on. If I were playing detective, I would try to figure out all the email addresses said target has.. Which I'm betting is more than a couple..
ETA: Figure out what apps have been downloaded and check all the histories.. All the dating sites I use when I'm single have an app.. And those messages don't show up on a phone bill. (Neither does the chat feature in games like WordFeud, the app my ex-douche used to take his Affair underground 
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[This message edited by ButterflyGirl at 1:58 PM, October 26th (Sunday)]
Ashland13 ( member #38378) posted at 8:16 PM on Sunday, October 26th, 2014
Dont forget to chech out of town...x here didnt only stay local.
Ashland 13
A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess
Perserverance and spirit have done wonders in all ages.
-George Washington
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