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User Topic: an idea anyone?
starmoonchild
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Default  Posted: 2:32 AM, August 23rd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My FWH has texted once and called once to a 13 digit number, not starting with a 1. What can this be? It is driving me crazy...I have a cell phone monitor on his phone and can see all of his calls...but one of them, the text, is from his old phone, which is not activated to show the actual text anymore. The call is from his new one. Both to the same strange number. What the? Hoping for info!

Posts: 77 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Canada
crazynot
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Default  Posted: 2:40 AM, August 23rd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Starmoonchild, I have no idea about the 13-digit number, but I just wanted you to know I understand totally the feeling of anxiety you have about this. I have just read through some of your other posts and wonder, is he giving you all of the transparency and reassurance you need to heal from all of this? If so, why not just ask him about the number - if it's innocent, he'll be able to prove it and won't mind being asked if it helps you feel better.


Me - 50
Him - 51
DDay 21 March 2009
Divorcing and delighted!

Do you want me to tell you something really subversive? Love is everything it's cracked up to be. That's why people are so cynical about it.


Posts: 873 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: UK
Not.the.Big.Easy
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Default  Posted: 8:39 AM, August 23rd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

One is the line code indicating a number in the United States. If you look up international area codes on google, you can find out which it is. I think Germany is one of the ones that you would need thirteen numbers for.

Oh, also, most cell phones don't require the one at the front, so it could have been a standard number (area code, prefix, line) with keypad commands, such as voicemail. If it was local that would even take off the area code.

Or, the case could be (area code, prefix, line, extension).

I hope that helps and I hope it is really not anything serious.


Me: BH (44)
Her: WW (37)(EAish)
Dday 7/23/14
Dday #2 9/9/14
TT #1 10/4/14
TT #2 10/14/14
Remorse? Safety?
D/R? who knows...

Posts: 140 | Registered: Oct 2003 | From: Vermont
SoulShine
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Default  Posted: 10:00 AM, August 23rd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

On our cell plan, when you download ringtones it shows as an odd number. But it's not 13 digits. Could that be the case?


BS (Me) 56
FWH (Him) 50
Married 16 years
Together 22 years
No children
3 month online/texting EA-1X PA
It all happened in late 2012
DDay - January 2013
In R

Yeah, it all started on Fakebook.


Posts: 20 | Registered: Aug 2014 | From: United States
SoulShine
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Default  Posted: 10:32 AM, August 23rd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sorry, double post.

[This message edited by SoulShine at 10:33 AM, August 23rd (Saturday)]


BS (Me) 56
FWH (Him) 50
Married 16 years
Together 22 years
No children
3 month online/texting EA-1X PA
It all happened in late 2012
DDay - January 2013
In R

Yeah, it all started on Fakebook.


Posts: 20 | Registered: Aug 2014 | From: United States
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