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User Topic: Letting Go
HurtingandLost
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Member # 29322
Default  Posted: 10:52 AM, August 22nd (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

After weeks of struggling with the idea of letting go, with starts and stops along the way, I know I'm finally getting there.

I know that I've been lied to, cheated on, and played a fool. I know when she says "there's nothing going on, you're hallucinating" doesnt line up with the two day disappearing act and three weeks of lying about her whereabouts coupled with hundreds of ongoing text messages on the cell bill. She's cheated before. I may have been born at night, but there was a fucking night light.

The shitty attitude, with the back and forth "she loves me, she loves me not" correlate *coincidentally* with days that have texting or no texting. I'm not one for coincidences, either.

I'm not perfect. But I'm not the asshole she makes me out to be, either. I'm me. A little bumped and bruised, with some high mileage. But like anything built right, I've got another 100,000+ good miles ahead with five great kids and quality time to spend with them. At the end of the day, I'll be just fine.

Her? Unless she can address her broken ass issues, not so much. And I don't have to hold the bag on that shit anymore. Life's good.


36 BH
Sons 16 and 8 Daughters 11, 7, 5.
Ex and STBX both cheated, thinking of getting a dog as a companion after D. At least they're loyal.

Posts: 997 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: MidWest
deena04
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Member # 41741
Default  Posted: 11:05 AM, August 22nd (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((hurtingandlost)))

I am sorry. This crap really sucks and we don't deserve it!


Me BS mid-late 30s
Him WS knocking on 40 (lovemywife4ever)
blended family with lots of kiddos
together 5 years, married 8/13
D day 12/1/13
WH ONS had been 4/12
Getting ME back and moving to HAPPY - whatever that means
I want out!

Posts: 979 | Registered: Dec 2013
nowiknow23
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Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 1:08 PM, August 22nd (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

There's so much light ahead once you truly let go. I think you are starting to see and feel it. ((((H&L))))


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


Posts: 25386 | Registered: Aug 2011
10yearsafter
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Member # 43139
Default  Posted: 1:23 PM, August 22nd (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm sorry man. You deserve way better. And so do your kids.

Peace on your journey Brother.


Posts: 190 | Registered: Apr 2014 | From: Texas
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