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Tred
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Member # 34086
Default  Posted: 10:05 AM, August 21st (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I hope this business fails miserably:

http://www.news.com.au/lifestyle/relationships/mistresscardscom-sells-greeting-cards-for-extramarital-affairs/story-fnet09p2-1227032508970


Married: 17 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

Posts: 4003 | Registered: Dec 2011
Unagie
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Member # 37091
Default  Posted: 10:22 AM, August 21st (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That is disgusting!!


Heartbroken madhatter trying to rebuild

No longer together

"To be loyal to myself is to allow myself to grow and change, and challenge who I am and what I think."


Posts: 2760 | Registered: Oct 2012
krsplat
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Member # 43242
Default  Posted: 10:26 AM, August 21st (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Maybe we can start another line for BSs to send. Like...

Upon outing the OW to her own BH:

Roses are red.
Violets are blue.
You screwed my husband
Now I'm screwing you!


Or serving D paper to your WH:

I thought our marriage was doing OK.
But you were a liar, and now you will pay.

C'mon. You know you have others.


Me & WH: 48, married 22 years, 4 kids
DDay: 3/5/14, 7 yr LTA plus multiple ONS
Status: Back on the coaster. Who knows?

Posts: 373 | Registered: Apr 2014 | From: Virginia
krsplat
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Member # 43242
Default  Posted: 10:35 AM, August 21st (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Or this line of e-cards:

http://www.someecards.com/usercards/viewcard/MjAxMi1kM2NjNjYwNzlhNmYwYjA3


Me & WH: 48, married 22 years, 4 kids
DDay: 3/5/14, 7 yr LTA plus multiple ONS
Status: Back on the coaster. Who knows?

Posts: 373 | Registered: Apr 2014 | From: Virginia
blakesteele
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Member # 38044
Default  Posted: 10:48 AM, August 21st (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This sucks.

Peace.

[This message edited by blakesteele at 12:19 PM, August 21st (Thursday)]


ME: 42 BH, I don't PM female members
SHE: 38 EA
Married: 15 years
Together: 17 years
D/Day 9-10-12
NC: 10-25-12
NC: Broken early November 2012, OM not respond
2 girls; 7 and 10
Fear is payments on debts you have not

Posts: 3980 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Central Missouri
BtraydWife
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Member # 42581
Default  Posted: 12:40 PM, August 21st (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The someecards. The jack and jill one kills me.


Me-BW
Him-WH
DD-March 2010
TT for 6 months
Unremorseful for 3.5 years

Delay is the deadliest form of denial. - C. Northcote Parkinson

Your standards aren't up for negotiation just because he/she can't meet them.


Posts: 1892 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: United States
BtraydWife
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Member # 42581
Default  Posted: 12:42 PM, August 21st (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

For the affair cards place. Someone ought to hack that system and publish the data publicly.


Me-BW
Him-WH
DD-March 2010
TT for 6 months
Unremorseful for 3.5 years

Delay is the deadliest form of denial. - C. Northcote Parkinson

Your standards aren't up for negotiation just because he/she can't meet them.


Posts: 1892 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: United States
TheIrishGirl
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Default  Posted: 1:01 PM, August 21st (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I wonder if the affair cards place charges. And if so, I hope the charge shows up on the bill in all caps as 'Purchase for mistress' (because the cards seemed to be directed at OW rather than OM).


Me: 31, BW Him: 38, WH
2 children (ours) 7/11 & 3/14
D-day 4/18/14 I saw his 'other' email

Posts: 580 | Registered: May 2014
LumpyLola
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Default  Posted: 1:45 PM, August 21st (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Disgusting. Absolutely disgusting.

Posts: 89 | Registered: Aug 2014 | From: Chicago
Tickingtock
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Member # 41411
Default  Posted: 3:48 PM, August 21st (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Roses are red
Violets are blue
You're a whore


Me: 31, exBGF, now married

Posts: 186 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: West Coast, USA
somanyyears
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Member # 26970
Default  Posted: 4:56 PM, August 21st (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


..

@tickingtock..

..is that Haiku????

smy


trust no other human- love only your pets
She isn't and never was who I thought..I can't believe who I married and what she did to us.
Me 67
Her 63
Married 42 yrs (together 47)
18 yr LTA with bf


Posts: 4129 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: the sad state of affairs
OutoftheDeep
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Default  Posted: 5:12 PM, August 21st (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

BWAHAHAHA!!

OMG sure...alllll mistresses look like those pin ups!!!I'm literally crying right now...

OMG, please somebody, force them make one with pics of the real OW I've known:

HOworker: potato shaped, no butt, no lips, no boobs but enough chest fat to push together some "cleavage". Shoulders like a man. Feet like a duck. Beady eyes. Put her in that blue sunhat laying on the beach.

exWH OW: ok body but slouch it like Igor, snaggle teeth, blank eyes, a nose like looks like a knife. Put her in the one in pigtails with the ball of yarn on the chair.



Me - maybe BW 40s
He - maybe WH 40s
My mother was always the OW
ExWH in first M had lta.
Current marriage:
2/'13 out all night with an ow
2/'13 busted at strip club
4/'14-? bad boundaries w/howorker

Posts: 377 | Registered: Feb 2014
Chicky
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Default  Posted: 5:24 PM, August 21st (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Uh, yeah. My fWH's skanky OW (I call her Shrek) used to have scantily clad selfie's all over FB. In all honesty, even when she has decked herself out in her finest garb, she still looks like a busted can of Pilsbury biscuits.


There's a difference between giving up and knowing when you've had enough.

Posts: 557 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: Somewhere Over The Rainbow
Holly-Isis
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Default  Posted: 5:36 PM, August 21st (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Here's my take:

Tacky, pathetic. Geared at people who are already in the mindset of a cheater...

It's almost good news for a BS because it gives tangible evidence that can't easily be gaslit away. Though I'm sure some WSs will attempt the "It was a gag from a friend" line.

One more way to slip up.

It does enforce how pathtic people who are cheating are. Sorry for the generalization, but I stand by it in the case of active cheaters.


"Being in love" first moved them to promise fidelity: this quieter love enables them to keep the promise. *CS Lewis*

Posts: 11225 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: Just a fool in limbo
Ostrich80
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Default  Posted: 2:08 AM, August 22nd (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I love how people like to prosper from the pain of others. Assholes!!


BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????

Posts: 5133 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: midwest
Keepcalm
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Member # 36234
Default  Posted: 10:05 AM, August 22nd (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The OW would hate being called a mistress. Any of those cards would of pissed her off. There love was "different".


BS Me 57
WS Him 55
Married 30 yrs
DDay 1/28/2012
I have no idea what is going on

Posts: 175 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Virginia
misskirby
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Default  Posted: 10:28 AM, August 22nd (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Honestly, these are laughable. I can't even imagine being with a married person and receiving one of these and being happy about it. If I were so in luuuurrrvvee with someone and he kept giving me cards that reference his wife, I think I'd be more upset than anything. Then again, I guess these are about as good as they could get, given the subject matter.


Me-BS, Late 20's
Him-WH, Late 20's
M 9 years, together 14
DS and DD
D-Day 1/16/12

"Long is the way And hard, that out of Hell leads up to Light" -John Milton, Paradise Lost


Posts: 213 | Registered: Jan 2012
tushnurse
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Member # 21101
Default  Posted: 10:32 AM, August 22nd (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Roses are Red,
Your a whore.
Fuck off.

Unicorns and Rainbows fill our days,
but STD itchies fill our nights.

Roses are Red
Crabs are white, you know the kind you gave your affair partner.
Rid and Nix are sold at walmart.

Yah they aren't real poetic......


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 8709 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
StillGoing
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Member # 28571
Default  Posted: 12:17 PM, August 22nd (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My marriage lacks warmth,
closeness and spice,
we've agreed I'm a whore
so now we're just talking price.

______________

Roses are red, violets are blue
Forget that I'm married
so I can pass my STD on to you.

______________

Come cheat with me!

[inside message]

Next week we can defraud the government together too! Whee!

______________

Fact # 243:
Not all married people are dead from the waist down

[inside message]

But I'm dead from the neck up.

______________

My husband is lazy,
his hair is gray
we haven't had sex in so long
That I just gave up even trying to bother with any kind of meter because I'm a lazy twat who wants to dump all her shit onto someone else.

[inside message]

Be my emotional toilet.


"You have insulted my footwear."

Posts: 7482 | Registered: May 2010 | From: USA
OutoftheDeep
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Member # 42601
Default  Posted: 12:30 PM, August 22nd (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Be my emotional toilet.

OMG, I'm dying...


Me - maybe BW 40s
He - maybe WH 40s
My mother was always the OW
ExWH in first M had lta.
Current marriage:
2/'13 out all night with an ow
2/'13 busted at strip club
4/'14-? bad boundaries w/howorker

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