[This message edited by Riskybusiness at 10:29 AM, August 7th (Thursday)]
Rejoice in hope, persevere in tribulation, be devoted to prayer. Romans 12:12
My XWW did this same mindfucking shit for months after she ran. In fact, she still tries it now and again to this day. They just can't understand why we can't be all amicable and friendly.
They don't want to be the bad guy. That is all it is, more self centered crap from a broken soul.
Ignore it or better yet, shut it down by telling them that you can see that they are trying to manipulate you emotionally and that you need them to stop the play nice crap. This whit is poison to you and you need to minimize it as much as possible.
I let this crap go on for far too long and I suffered greatly for it.
Peace to you. NC is the only way to get past this crap.
There is hope. Once you truly commit to focusing on yourself and letting go, it comes back, and you will appreciate it like never before.
This was before he knew his "rights", when he realized lawyers were looking in on us and he actually had guilt that he showed.
Also, he wanted to show good behavior so that he has something to present in court.
ETA, he could also nose around the place he left if he appeared helpful.
"Look what I did!" type thing, almost like a little kid.
[This message edited by Ashland13 at 7:00 PM, August 7th (Thursday)]
A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess
Perserverance and spirit have done wonders in all ages.