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User Topic: Blood on my hands?
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 1:49 PM, August 22nd (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You need to find away to stop your wife from dragging you thru the mud.

She already thinks so little of herself that she outed herself to embarrass you. She also thinks so very little of you that she embarrassed you. Please don't give her any more responsibility for you or your marriage. I have a feeling it will come back to bite you in the arse.

Hugs,
K

[This message edited by Kajem at 1:56 PM, August 22nd (Friday)]


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5262 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
utterly broken
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Default  Posted: 2:50 AM, August 25th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I moved into the basement on Saturday. It was a lot of work because it was full of crap. It's mostly cleaned out and cozy now. The boys have taken notice but we haven't talked to them yet. We need to do that ASAP and I'm dreading that conversation. I don't even know what to say to them.

It's been a struggle to keep it together and function, but I think I'm doing an ok job of faking it so far. Focusing at work has been difficult for a couple weeks and I doubt that will improve after this weekend.

You know how sometimes a song almost perfectly sums up your life at that moment? I am having trouble sleeping tonight so I was listening to music while reading lyrics. This song is really close to me right now, down to the primal screams at the end which sound like me alone in my car.

"Closure"
By Chevelle

Breathe, trust, bless me and release,
Climb, hard or never be seen.
Closed off, rescue to breathe.
Just bless me.

Two sided time,
Your rebirth can't hurt,
Branch out behind, the pain.

Closure has come to me myself,
You will never belong to me.
Closure has come to me myself,
You will never belong to me.

Had to to turn, lay down,
Your sting of disease.
Phase you out, should've seen this coming.
Go on confusing the soul,
Hold my breath 'til you rupture.

Three days aside,
Your rebirth can't hurt,
Branch out behind, pride.

Closure has come to me myself,
You will never belong to me.
Closure has come to me myself,
You will never belong to me.

Like a leach,
I hold on as if we belonged,
To some precious pure dream.
Cast off, you've seen what's beneath,
Now fail me.

Faulty closure
Faulty closure
Faulty closure
Faulty closure

Closure has come to me myself,
You will never belong to me.
Closure has come to me myself,
You will never belong to me.


It hit me really hard. This whole mess is just so sad.


BH (me) 44 yrs
WW (elgatoblanco) 42 yrs
Together over 23 yrs
Married Aug 1994
Two boys 18 and 12 yrs
D-Day 1 June 11, 2009
D-Day 2 Aug 6, 2009
TT Summer 2010?
D-Day 3 April 19, 2011
Separated (in-house) Aug 23, 2014
R???

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