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User Topic: Worst birthday ever
hurting mom
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Default  Posted: 9:14 PM, August 6th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Two days ago we told the kids about the divorce. My older son bawled and so did I. Because of that, I just told all my friends and family not to say anything about my birthday, because I don't want my birthday to be associated with negative memories in the future.

Today, I got home from work to find my STBXH has taken the kids to see his new house. It's gorgeous - 4 BR, 4 bath. So the kids are talking about how nice the new house is, about the furniture they're getting for their bedrooms. And he just got back from a trip to Florida with them.

I feel like his mistress is stealing my life, my kids, my financial security. Happy f------g birthday.


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caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 9:29 PM, August 6th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

that sucks.


Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

Posts: 5859 | Registered: May 2010 | From: a better place
mhca
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Default  Posted: 9:58 PM, August 6th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow, what a jackass. Sorry you're going through that. Ugh!

(((hurting mom)))


Me: BH 47 STBXWW 47 (Lklb5)
M 19 years, DS 15, DS 11
DD#1: 12/24/2013
TT/Broke NC/False R
DD#2: 4/15/2014
TT 4/23, 4/24, 5/31, 7/19
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Posts: 782 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: California
Futurefear
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Default  Posted: 10:13 PM, August 6th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What a total ass!
(((Hugs))) and Happy Birthday
🎂🎉🎁🎈


me- BW
him- WH
together 9 yrs, married 7
kids-8,5,17 mon
DD#1-Jan 2014, numerous others followed-filed for divorce April 2014, we are still living in the house together, he won't leave without his $$$

"The worst part about being lied t


Posts: 219 | Registered: Apr 2014 | From: Midwest
betrayedpregnant
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Default  Posted: 10:52 PM, August 6th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So sorry he chose to do it and rub it in on your special day. Very insensitive. I understand what you are saying on your last line. If it offers any consolation, happy birthday...

Posts: 283 | Registered: May 2014 | From: Hawaii
GreatRoleModel
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Default  Posted: 10:53 PM, August 6th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((hurting mom))))
There are no words for dickheads behavior.
Happy Birthday!


BS (me)
XWS (him) NPD
DIVORCED!!!
It takes a village to deal with the village idiot!

Posts: 360 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: NC
deena
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Default  Posted: 12:08 AM, August 7th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This is the one of only times I say let your lawyer try and get as much as he can for you in the divorce. Break him!!

So so very sorry hurting mom

((((((((Hurting mom))))))))))))


Relationships are like glass. Sometimes it's
better to leave them broken than to hurt
yourself putting it back together.


Posts: 3050 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Canada
Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 7:06 AM, August 7th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy birthday, hon. Do something very nice for yourself.


I solemnly swear that I am up to no good.

Posts: 20284 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
ChangeMaker
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Default  Posted: 7:14 AM, August 7th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Nobody can steal their mother. Nobody.

Hold your head up.

Happy Birthday. The next one will be much happier.


"Everything works if you let it." - Travis W. Redfish

DDay - June 7, 2014
Me - 43
WW - 41
DD - 6 and 3
Pulling the Plug


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