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Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 9:24 AM, August 6th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Friday night, I was going to my parent's house for a family get-together.

I have to go past wxh's house in order to get to mom's. As I drove by, I saw him sitting in front of his garage door on a plastic lawn chair - he was smoking a cigarette with a beer in his hand.

His current soulmate was sitting beside him cross-legged on the blacktop - also with a cigarette and a beer.

My first thought: how lazy are you when you can't get your soulmate a plastic lawn chair to sit on? How lazy is the soulmate that she can't get her own?

It just shows how different our lives are, were, and will be. I was headed for a night of food and laughter with my family. He was sitting on the blacktop watching the traffic go by.

A very pathetic jagoff he is.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

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Pentup
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Default  Posted: 10:49 AM, August 6th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

WXH house? Or broken down trailer?


Me- BS
Him- FWS (I hope- F)

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Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 11:03 AM, August 6th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's a broken down house that we formerly rented. When we divorce, I moved all of his crap to that place while he was on a weekend of lurve with his other soulmate.

It's an awful house. There was a time when we had snakes in.the.house. that had to be removed.

Yeah, it's bad.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

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Pentup
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Default  Posted: 11:07 AM, August 6th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh I can visualize that. Charming. I think this more of a bus stop. A karma bus stop.


Me- BS
Him- FWS (I hope- F)

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HurtingandLost
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Default  Posted: 1:59 PM, August 6th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It always warms the heart to see a match made in heaven.


36 BH
Sons 16 and 8 Daughters 11, 7, 5.
Ex and STBX both cheated, thinking of getting a dog as a companion after D. At least they're loyal.

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norabird
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Default  Posted: 2:03 PM, August 6th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

his other soulmate.

It always warms the heart to see a match made in heaven.

I bet it wasn't very good beer either.


Sit. Feast on your life.

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Holly-Isis
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Default  Posted: 5:14 PM, August 6th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's an awful house. There was a time when we had snakes in.the.house. that had to be removed.

Since your X and his holemate still live there I take it you never got around to removing the snakes?


"Being in love" first moved them to promise fidelity: this quieter love enables them to keep the promise. *CS Lewis*

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Random thoughts
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Default  Posted: 7:44 PM, August 6th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Should have toot tooted your horn and waved as you drove pass..


Those three words are said too much and not enough.
Chasing Cars-Snow Patrol.
FWW

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FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 7:52 PM, August 6th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Losers.


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

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persevere
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Default  Posted: 8:01 PM, August 6th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow - they sound made for each other.


Me: BW-44
Him: XWH-44
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


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Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 8:19 PM, August 6th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well, we removed the big snakes, but the little ones went into the crack in the chimney. I'm assuming that they stayed in there and reproduced.


Yeah, they're quite a pair.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

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betrayedpregnant
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Default  Posted: 8:32 PM, August 6th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"CURRENT SOULMATE" i like that

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Futurefear
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Default  Posted: 10:33 PM, August 6th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Holemate. Love it!


me- BW
him- WH
together 9 yrs, married 7
kids-8,5,17 mon
DD#1-Jan 2014, numerous others followed-filed for divorce April 2014, we are still living in the house together, he won't leave without his $$$

"The worst part about being lied t


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SBB
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Default  Posted: 10:00 AM, August 7th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It is sometimes nice to hear the whizzes of those bullets we dodged, isn't it?

Livin' the life, dude. Livin' the life.

Jagoff.


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

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