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Red  Posted: 4:00 PM, August 6th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Please refrain from making general statements about specific groups. It is against site guidelines.

GENERAL STATEMENTS: Please refrain from making statements that generalize gender, WS/OP/BS, race, religion or political alignment. Also do not presume to speak on behalf of other people.

General reminder to all:
Generalizing is against site guidelines. Many of your posts are teetering on the line. Please speak of your own situations and do not make blanket statements about all LEOs. Thank you.

[This message edited by SI Staff at 4:00 PM, August 6th (Wednesday)]

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Default  Posted: 4:28 PM, August 6th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Apologies to all. My intention was not to classify all LEO in one manner or another.

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Default  Posted: 3:27 PM, August 7th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I would report that in a second; particularly if he's doing it on duty. I've seen guys get demoted and/or fired for that. F'em. I don't want to work with people that brazen about it. If I need help, you better not take a second longer because you're pulling your pants up.

In my work I work closely for a long period of time with a lot of different professionals in every field.

I haven't found one that is more or less prone to cheating these days.

What I have found is that cheating is rising at an alarming rate over the past 14 years. Everywhere.

Some psychologists and sociologists have speculated that the rise in cheating correlates directly with the rise in tech toys because cell phones, computers, etc, make it much easier to cheat, for a longer while, at least until the person is caught.

IMO, a cell phone is a huge culprit because you can buy burner phones, and even a person's regular cell can be a password protected hotline.

Also, the people having affairs can text and email, even as they lay snuggled in bed with their spouse watching TV, as mine did.

ďIf two people truly have feelings for one another then they donít have an affair. They get a divorce and they sort out their feelings. You are accountable for the people you hold hostage in a marriage when your mind and heart refuse to fully commit

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Default  Posted: 11:28 PM, August 22nd (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


What a horrible situation you WW threw you into. You stated that you'd spoken to an attorney. You should consider your personal safety in the event this super mega clusterfrock gets exposed in a public manner. It's like an unexploded bomb waiting to detonate.

As widespread as you stated this pattern and practice is amongst your WW's colleagues and co-workers, somewhere the truth will find bubble up into the sunlight. If not your, some other BS will get divorced and name APs or call them as witnesses. Another very possible scenario could be someone filing a wrongful termination or sexual harassment lawsuit.

Protect your evidence too, in multiple safe places online and IRL and make sure you give copies to your attorney. Think about getting a bank safe deposit box for evidence. Maybe you should make arrangements with a law firm outside your jurisdiction with instructions to make it all public if anything happens to you. Sort of an insurance policy.

Does your WW show any remorse for how she betrayed you and hurt you? Does she have a clue?

[This message edited by Want2babettrme at 11:30 PM, August 22nd (Friday)]

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