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User Topic: Tough week
inmisery1
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Default  Posted: 9:18 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We went to his nieces wedding this weekend, it was hard to sit through the ceremony. I don't feel too loved, honored or cherished, the forsaking all others and being faithful part brought me to tears. Seeing his family, my inlaws, it made me sad because I may soon no longer be a member. We've been together for 29 years, married for 26. They have no idea the shit he's put me through.
My birthday is this week, the 1 year anniversary of dday2. This shit sucks.

Posts: 220 | Registered: Jan 2011
Keepcalm
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Member # 36234
Default  Posted: 9:32 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So sorry you are going through this. I am sure your wh's family will not cut you off after so many years. Make yourself a great bday. Do something for you. I try to find comfort in knowing that when the time is right, I will know which option to choose.


BS Me 57
WS Him 55
Married 30 yrs
DDay 1/28/2012
I have no idea what is going on

Posts: 168 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Virginia
LiedtoLucy
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Member # 39246
Default  Posted: 11:10 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so sorry, Stay strong and take care of yourself...They say you feel it when it is time to let go of the M and file for D. Are you there yet? D-Day antiversary sucks and I can imagine being at a wedding one week prior.

Hugs to you..You will make it through this.


LTL

Me: BS
Him: WH
OW=UW or Ugly Whore- cow of WH
UW claims to be pregnant w/ WH baby and I HATE her for it.
DDay: 4/23/13
Together: 14 years
Married: 10 years
Kids: 3 beautiful boys. Ages: 8, 4, & 19 months
Trying to R-Some days are


Posts: 176 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Southeastern U.S.
5454real
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Member # 37455
Default  Posted: 11:42 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

They have no idea the shit he's put me through.

Why not? It's not your burden to bear.

I'm sorry, it's your call. The one year anti is tough.

Sending strength


BH 51, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 20(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 2794 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
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