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User Topic: Victory Lap for the Karma Bus
Catwoman
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Default  Posted: 7:40 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Normally the Ex's antics merely elicit a yawn and an intense desire to do something productive, like watch paint dry or give the cat a pedicure.

But this is good.

Yes, this is the same ex that Karma bitch-slapped good: Twat Waffle (OW) left him (and really--closing on a new place Christmas Eve--can you say "Getting the Hell out of Dodge?"). Then somehow her felon brother who had quite the impressive rap sheet steals the Ex's identity and has a high old time on the Ex's hotel rewards points and frequent flyer miles (I remain convinced that Twat Waffle was somehow involved).

Then the fun started. He was canned from his long-term job (the longest he had ever stayed anywhere) in early 2011 (right after the identity theft issue broke). He managed to get another job late spring 2011, but was let go January 2013. Got another job in February 2013, but left and started his most recent job in January 2014. Now he has been let go AGAIN.

The Karma Bus is making me dizzy. Fortunately, both the children are emancipated, so no child support to worry about. But he still owes me a crapload of alimony, some back child support and reimbursement for expenses. I was getting ready to file a complaint for contempt (this is #5 for all of you playing at home), but I will wait until he finds gainful employment.

The best part? He just got back from an expensive vacation with his new girlfriend. Seriously--not back a day before the shit hit the fan.

He deserves it. One has to wonder if he was sleeping with the help again.

Cat

[This message edited by Catwoman at 7:40 PM, August 5th (Tuesday)]


FBS: Married 20 years, 2 daughters 25 and 22. Divorced by the grace of GOD.
D-Days: 2/23/93; 10/11/97; 3/5/03
Ex & OW Broke up 12-10
"An erection does not count as personal growth."

Posts: 29657 | Registered: Apr 2003 | From: Massachusetts
Pentup
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Default  Posted: 7:56 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Are you allowed to put a lien on his property for what he owes you?


Me- BS
Him- FWS (I hope- F)

Posts: 6604 | Registered: Aug 2008 | From: Not Oz
ChangeMaker
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Default  Posted: 8:11 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm hoping the bus stops near me some day soon.


"Everything works if you let it." - Travis W. Redfish

DDay - June 7, 2014
Me - 43
WW - 41
DD - 6 and 3
Pulling the Plug


Posts: 351 | Registered: Jun 2014 | From: Ontario
tryingagain74
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Default  Posted: 9:28 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ah yes... I love it when they cry poor and can't possibly pay you what they owe or carp and whine about child-related expenses, but they always manage to find a little something from a magical money account for a fun vacation! It's amazing... I need one of those magical accounts; my ex also has one.


BS (Me) 39
Happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

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Futurefear
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Wink  Posted: 10:14 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Can you send the Karma Bus my way? Seriously need it to hit WS and OW hard!


me-40 BS
him-38 WH
together 9 yrs, married 7
kids-8,5,17 mon
DD#1-Jan 2014, numerous others followed-filed for divorce April 2014, we are still in the house together.

"The worst part about being lied too is that knowing you weren't wor


Posts: 217 | Registered: Apr 2014 | From: Midwest
Futurefear
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Wink  Posted: 10:16 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Can you send the Karma Bus my way? Seriously need it to hit WS and OW hard!


me-40 BS
him-38 WH
together 9 yrs, married 7
kids-8,5,17 mon
DD#1-Jan 2014, numerous others followed-filed for divorce April 2014, we are still in the house together.

"The worst part about being lied too is that knowing you weren't wor


Posts: 217 | Registered: Apr 2014 | From: Midwest
peridot
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Default  Posted: 10:43 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hopefully it doesn't take him too long to find a job.

Is he getting unemployment? Maybe you could go after that.


I think...therefore, I'm single.

It is what it is.


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Catwoman
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Default  Posted: 4:22 AM, August 6th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Right now, I know he won't pay until forced to by a judge, so since I don't need the money (yes, it would be nice, but I have discovered this miraculous concept called "living within one's means," so I am okay), I think I'm best to ride it out and then use my "flexibility" as leverage (in court or not) to get him to pay things he's been balking at. If we go to court, he will be compelled to pay those things, so I may be able to make a deal.

If I can't and we go to court, I can show I have been accommodating above and beyond what can reasonably be expected and that he's an ass.

I have his balls in a vise, and he's clueless about it right now. I think I'll bide my time and see if circumstances can't dictate an agreement. If not, court remains an option.

If he wasn't so focused on being in an "edgy" and "hip" business (mobile applications development sales), this wouldn't be a problem. But it's all about how one appears. As usual, NPD is at the root of all of his problems.

Cat


FBS: Married 20 years, 2 daughters 25 and 22. Divorced by the grace of GOD.
D-Days: 2/23/93; 10/11/97; 3/5/03
Ex & OW Broke up 12-10
"An erection does not count as personal growth."

Posts: 29657 | Registered: Apr 2003 | From: Massachusetts
WarehouseGuy
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Default  Posted: 6:41 AM, August 6th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I LOVE a good Karma story

Keep his balls in that vise Catwoman. I can hear him screaming from here


whg


If you see your ex with someone else--don't be jealous. Our parents taught us to give our old,used toys to the less fortunate.

Posts: 5363 | Registered: Dec 2004 | From: Michigan
wonderingbull
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Default  Posted: 2:35 PM, August 6th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Cat...
You've always been an inspiration when it comes to strategy...

He'll play right into your hands... He's an idiot...

Well played...

WB

[This message edited by wonderingbull at 2:35 PM, August 6th (Wednesday)]


The secret of life is enjoying the passage of time...

James Taylor


Posts: 5982 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: A better place
nekorb
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Default  Posted: 8:37 PM, August 6th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I love a good round of Karma Bus.

Keep that vise in the locked position, Catwoman.


Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 aka CAT- colossal asshat; Married 22 years
D-day: July 17, 2013, with TT to follow
D filed July 16, 2014, 363 days later than I should have
Psalms 27:14
Wait for The Lord; be strong and take heart. Wait for the Lord.

Posts: 1838 | Registered: Aug 2013
dreamlife
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Default  Posted: 10:35 PM, August 6th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


~XWH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~

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betrayedpregnant
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Default  Posted: 10:48 PM, August 6th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy for you to get to watch him get run over

Posts: 278 | Registered: May 2014 | From: Hawaii
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 10:51 PM, August 6th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good lord, you'd think he'd have learned by now not to mess with Cat.

Let the ass-kicking commence.


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

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