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User Topic: little hearts and posting habits
Neznayou
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Question  Posted: 12:56 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mods, let me know if I need to move this.

On the main page of a forum, what do those hearts in the margin mean?

Also, what are your SI habits? Some people have posted hundreds, if not thousands, of messages. That is a lot of time here


Me: WW
Caught at AP's house: 10 Aug 2012
Admitted PA: 12 Aug 2012
TT ended: Jan 2014

"Power, Lincoln, real power comes not from hate, but from truth."


Posts: 294 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: America to Europe
GabyBaby
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Default  Posted: 1:05 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The hearts mean new posts since you last logged in.

As far as posting habits, that varies from person to person. Some folks have been here for years and only have a couple hundred posts, but they read daily.
Others post a lot, read a lot, etc.

Hope that helps!


Me - 40s
SorryInSac - WH#2 - 40s. DDay 7/12/14
Married 4, together 7yrs total
Status - ??

DD(21), DS(18, PDD-NOS)
6 Furkids - 4 dogs, 2 cats

WXH (serial cheater, 12+ OW)
Legally married 18yrs, together 16.5yrs

I edit often for clarity.


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betrayedfriend
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Default  Posted: 3:41 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I don't have many posts, but I spend probably a few hours a day reading. I don't post or respond unless I really feel like I can contribute.


I originally joined SI as a way to help my best friends find ways of coping with infidelity, but now infidelity has touched my family much closer to home.

Posts: 867 | Registered: Jun 2008 | From: Midwest USA
TrustedHer
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Default  Posted: 3:52 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I don't post or respond unless I really feel like I can contribute.

That's a good thing, but remember that sometimes a hug or a "I hear what you're saying" is a valuable thing. A real contribution.


Take care of yourself. There's a great future out there. It won't come to you; you have to go to it.

Posts: 5165 | Registered: Mar 2009 | From: DeepInTheHeartOf, TX
travels
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Default  Posted: 3:53 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I read here many times a day, but I don't post much.


When one door closes, another door opens. It's the journey through the hallway that sucks.

Posts: 3776 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: PA
TrustedHer
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Default  Posted: 3:53 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh, and a new post about your life or feelings may help you. It may also help someone who is in the same place to realize they're not alone.


Take care of yourself. There's a great future out there. It won't come to you; you have to go to it.

Posts: 5165 | Registered: Mar 2009 | From: DeepInTheHeartOf, TX
solus sto
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Default  Posted: 7:13 PM, August 6th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have lots of posts. I've been here forever--far longer than reflected below. I don't really spend a ton of time here--I just participate a lot when I am here. Most of the time, these days, I respond to others' posts, rather than start my own topics.

It's important to me. Kind people here helped keep me afloat when I was sinking, and it's important to me to pay it back.

Hard won experience, and all...


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WH (Trac-fone), 53, PD
2 kids-DD25, DS18
multiple d-days
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Alone, most strangely, I live on~Rupert Brooke

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