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User Topic: Kids fighting in the car - Solution!
Lucky2HaveMe
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Wink  Posted: 10:03 AM, July 31st (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just heard this great suggestion for anyone still going on vacation with Tweens or teenagers in the backseat. When they start to haggle, fuse, and fight, calmly pull the car to the side of the road. Then mom and dad vigorously begin to make out.
I hear it will stop even the worst of back seat fighting.

Wish I had thought of this back in the day!


Indian wisdom says our lives are rivers. We are born somewhere small and quiet and we move toward a place we cannot see, but only imagine. From Tending Roses

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IrishGirlVA
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Default  Posted: 10:13 AM, July 31st (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

If my parents did this, they would have a new problem on their hands as my sister and I would immediately bolt out of the car, running and screaming down the highway!

But interesting solution. LOL


Me: 40 yrs old BGF
Him: 37 yrs old WBF
Us: Together for 4 years and living together for 1
DDay: June 2013
PA with the mother of his child. Both of whom live in another country.
Status Jan 2014: Done. She's preggo again.

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aLadypilot
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Funny  Posted: 11:02 AM, July 31st (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Divorced 9/2010
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MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 11:05 AM, July 31st (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Dang as a single dad this will not work.


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Harriet
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Default  Posted: 11:18 AM, July 31st (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Moo, you and I will have to do that fake make out session where you wrap your hands all the way around yourself and make smoochie noises.

I find that if I just start talking about sex, it does the job. Gives them an education, too. Start telling them the definitions of body parts and sex acts, talk about all the STDs and how not to get them...I never get very far. They're learning in bits and pieces.


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RyeBread
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Default  Posted: 11:26 AM, July 31st (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

If my parents did this, they would have a new problem on their hands as my sister and I would immediately bolt out of the car, running and screaming down the highway!

I have to politely disagree... Now mom and dad can have a nice quiet vacation alone while the kids find their own way home


Let him that would move the world first move himself. - Socrates

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IrishGirlVA
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Default  Posted: 12:55 PM, July 31st (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have to politely disagree... Now mom and dad can have a nice quiet vacation alone while the kids find their own way home

Touché, RyeBread. Touché.


Me: 40 yrs old BGF
Him: 37 yrs old WBF
Us: Together for 4 years and living together for 1
DDay: June 2013
PA with the mother of his child. Both of whom live in another country.
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TrulyReconciled
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Default  Posted: 1:43 PM, July 31st (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

[This message edited by TrulyReconciled at 1:46 PM, July 31st (Thursday)]


"In a time of deceit, telling the Truth is a revolutionary act."

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simplydevastated
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Default  Posted: 2:06 PM, July 31st (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ok. This thread is all sorts of awesome!

I like TR's suggestion. Duct tape fixes everything.


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TrustedHer
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Default  Posted: 4:05 PM, July 31st (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

As the old saying goes: "Silence is golden. Duct tape is silver."


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MissesJai
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Default  Posted: 4:16 PM, July 31st (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

duct tape


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wifehad5
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Default  Posted: 5:43 PM, July 31st (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Might I submit to you my solution


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jo2love
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Jeaniegirl
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Default  Posted: 1:28 AM, August 1st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

*dup post* sorry

[This message edited by Jeaniegirl at 3:23 AM, August 1st (Friday)]


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Jeaniegirl
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Default  Posted: 1:28 AM, August 1st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My sister and I are 21 months apart. As kids we used to fight like crazy until our mom came up with the ultimate solution. First she would talk about how we'd feel if something happened to the other one, trying to guilt us and make us sad. IF that didn't work she'd make us KISS! UGH! And she'd say ... "no, really kiss like you love each other." ONE time was ALL it took and we never let her catch us fighting again. We still fought, just not in front of her!

[This message edited by Jeaniegirl at 1:31 AM, August 1st (Friday)]


"Because I deserve better"

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lynnm1947
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Default  Posted: 10:52 AM, August 1st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

When my kids (16 months apart) would fight on long trips, I would institute The Quiet Game--whoever speaks soonest loses. My kids were so good at it, I would forget we were playing and start to speak. Then it was immediate fighting again!


Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!

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TrulyReconciled
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Default  Posted: 11:12 AM, August 1st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Might I submit to you my solution?


Fixed it for you:


"In a time of deceit, telling the Truth is a revolutionary act."

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BrokenRoad
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Default  Posted: 6:44 AM, August 13th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm up for solution #1, just sayin.


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Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 5:07 PM, August 14th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have been known to pull over, stop the car, and get out. Kids are inside wondering WTF is going on, I'm outside enjoying a few moments of fresh air & peace.


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Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
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Together 20 years
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2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
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metamorphisis
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Default  Posted: 6:02 PM, August 14th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OMG.

I am so doing this. If only to see the horror on their faces. They make gagging noises if we even give each other a peck on the cheek.



“We don't see things as they are; we see them as we are.”... Anais Nin

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