Topic: Dad has passed
Member # 32616
| Posted: 9:51 AM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2014|
So sorry for your loss (((NIK)))
“Happiness cannot be pursued; it must ensue.” ― Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning
Posts: 3470 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: The Valley of the Sun
Member # 30989
| Posted: 10:02 AM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2014|
(((NIK))) I'm sorry.
WH (Trac-fone), 53, PD
2 kids-DD25, DS18
Alone, most strangely, I live on~Rupert Brooke
Posts: 8887 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: midwest
Member # 31094
| Posted: 12:16 PM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2014|
I'm so very sorry for your loss, NIK.
You and your family are in my prayers.
Posts: 3423 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: NWPA
Member # 25560
| Posted: 12:20 PM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2014|
Will it is so hard to lose a loved one, I hope you find that the joyful memories quickly overake the sad ones.
Holding you in the *****LIGHT****
Damn autocorrect is responsible for the silly errors, sorry!
Posts: 3692 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: In my head
Member # 33886
| Posted: 12:25 PM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2014|
Oh NIK, I'm so sorry.
Sending you love and prayers.
Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand
"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne
Posts: 6322 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: South, Y'all!
Member # 33128
| Posted: 1:43 PM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2014|
I'm so sorry Nik. I pray for you and family.
DD 20 and DS 15
Separated Aug 2012
Moved back home Oct 31 2013
Separated again June 2014. Heading toward divorce.
False R. Still Lying.
"You never know how strong you are until being strong is all you have left"
Posts: 2804 | Registered: Aug 2011
Member # 10552
| Posted: 2:15 PM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2014|
(((((Empress and family)))))
Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan
Posts: 15417 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Now an AZ girl
Member # 30817
| Posted: 2:25 PM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2014|
I'm sorry, NIK. I wish this wasn't your reality, so close on the heels of your mom. I am sure you are hurting very much. Reach out to whomever, whenever, you need. Many blessings to you.
2 ddays in '07
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi
Posts: 6569 | Registered: Jan 2011
Member # 38705
| Posted: 2:28 PM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2014|
with huge hugs and my sympathy for your loss
Please take care of yourself and your family. I am very sorry...
Sometimes it's lonely, Sometimes it's only me & the shadows that fill this room...
But it's a great day to be alive & the sun still shines when I close my eyes ~Travis Tritt
Posts: 84 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: Washington
Member # 30346
| Posted: 4:37 PM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2014|
I lost my father 7 years ago...it is a very painful thing. My thoughts are with you.
me...BS, 43 years old, 2 small kids
WS, 41, multiple gay affairs
M 15 years, together 17
"For whatever we lose, like a you or a me, it's always ourselves we find in the sea" ee cummings
Posts: 4187 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: South
Member # 40144
| Posted: 4:43 PM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2014|
My condolences to you and your family. What a beautiful legacy he left though. Your post brought tears to my eyes.
Wishing you comfort and strength.
Me: 40s BS, Him: 40s WH
M 21 yrs - 3 teens
LTA = 2+ yrs, Dday = 2/10/13, he moved out, he officially moved back in 1/25/14 and our work continues...
Posts: 721 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: MidWest
Member # 3903
| Posted: 7:31 PM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2014|
I am so sorry NIK.
There is a wonderful life on the other side of hell.
Posts: 1680 | Registered: Mar 2004
Member # 15584
| Posted: 8:06 PM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2014|
No words. ((((((NIK))))))
Failure is success if we learn from it.
Posts: 4212 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: michigan
Member # 36697
| Posted: 9:08 PM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2014|
Posts: 1755 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Baja Arizona
Member # 4956
| Posted: 9:17 PM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2014|
(((((NIK))))) Im so sorry for your loss.
BS/60s WS/60s Divorcing and not soon enough~!
Its nice to be important, but its more important to be nice...
Posts: 3104 | Registered: Jul 2004 | From: somewhere over the rainbow
Member # 36072
| Posted: 9:22 PM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2014|
It sounds like he was a wonderful man. I'm sorry for you loss and I will keep your family in my prayers.
Trust is like paper. Once it's crumpled it can never be perfect again.
Posts: 1179 | Registered: Jul 2012
Member # 33772
| Posted: 9:43 PM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2014|
I am so sorry for your loss NIK. He sounds like he was a wonderful man and father. (hugs)
D-day- aug 16,2011
Married 23 years- together 25
What doesn't kill me, scars me.
Posts: 1096 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Down South
Member # 34823
| Posted: 9:49 PM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2014|
"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott
In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.
Posts: 8112 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Midwest
Member # 36853
| Posted: 11:17 PM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2014|
((((NIK))))) I'm sorry for your sadness and grief. So happy you were able to be there with him for his peaceful passing and for your memories of his love. I'm glad the staff supported and cared for him and you all so well.
D-day August 27, 2012
3 kids and 2 dogs
I edit often because I make a lot of typos. ☺️
Posts: 1503 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Deep South, USA
Member # 19258
| Posted: 7:24 AM, July 23rd (Wednesday), 2014|
I'm so sorry for your loss. Hope you're doing OK today.
But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned
“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler
Posts: 8462 | Registered: Apr 2008
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