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Crescita
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Default  Posted: 9:51 AM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So sorry for your loss (((NIK)))

Posts: 3388 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: The Valley of the Sun
solus sto
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Default  Posted: 10:02 AM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK))) I'm sorry.


BS-me, 52
WH (Trac-fone), 52, PD
2 kids-DD25, DS18
multiple d-days
DIVORCING
Alone, most strangely, I live on~Rupert Brooke

Posts: 8685 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: midwest
itainteasy
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Default  Posted: 12:16 PM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so very sorry for your loss, NIK.

You and your family are in my prayers.


Posts: 3383 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: NWPA
scaredyKat
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Default  Posted: 12:20 PM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Will it is so hard to lose a loved one, I hope you find that the joyful memories quickly overake the sad ones.
Holding you in the *****LIGHT****


Me-BS-60
HIM-SAFWH-63
Damn autocorrect is responsible for the silly errors, sorry!

Posts: 3538 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: In my head
Aubrie
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Default  Posted: 12:25 PM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh NIK, I'm so sorry.

Sending you love and prayers.

((((NIK))))


Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne

"What if I fall?" Oh but my darling, what if you fly?


Posts: 6229 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: South, Y'all!
Faithful w/Love
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Default  Posted: 1:43 PM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry Nik. I pray for you and family.


BS(ME)40 WH(HIM)38
DD 19 and DS 15
Separated Aug 2012
Moved back home Oct 31 2013
False R. Still Lying.
Will be divorcing soon!
"You never know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have"!

Posts: 2661 | Registered: Aug 2011
wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 2:15 PM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((Empress and family)))))


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

Posts: 15393 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Now an AZ girl
Rebreather
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Default  Posted: 2:25 PM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm sorry, NIK. I wish this wasn't your reality, so close on the heels of your mom. I am sure you are hurting very much. Reach out to whomever, whenever, you need. Many blessings to you.


Me BS
Him WH
2 ddays in '07
Recovering.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi

Posts: 6442 | Registered: Jan 2011
LeftBehind08
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Default  Posted: 2:28 PM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

with huge hugs and my sympathy for your loss

Please take care of yourself and your family. I am very sorry...


Sometimes it's lonely, Sometimes it's only me & the shadows that fill this room...
But it's a great day to be alive & the sun still shines when I close my eyes ~Travis Tritt

Posts: 79 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: Washington
cmego
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Default  Posted: 4:37 PM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((NIK))))

I lost my father 7 years ago...it is a very painful thing. My thoughts are with you.


me...BS, 43 years old, 2 small kids
WS, 41, multiple gay affairs
M 15 years, together 17
Divorced

"For whatever we lose, like a you or a me, it's always ourselves we find in the sea" ee cummings


Posts: 4142 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: South
StillStanding1
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Default  Posted: 4:43 PM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My condolences to you and your family. What a beautiful legacy he left though. Your post brought tears to my eyes.

Wishing you comfort and strength.


Me: 40s BS, Him: 40s WH
M 21 yrs - 3 teens
LTA = 2+ yrs, Dday = 2/10/13, he moved out, he officially moved back in 1/25/14 and our work continues...

Posts: 678 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: MidWest
risingfromashes
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Default  Posted: 7:31 PM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so sorry NIK.


There is life on the other side of hell.

Posts: 1634 | Registered: Mar 2004
little turtle
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Default  Posted: 8:06 PM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

No words. ((((((NIK))))))


Failure is success if we learn from it.

Posts: 4166 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: michigan
h0peless
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Default  Posted: 9:08 PM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK)))

Posts: 1679 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Baja Arizona
SweetheartVixen
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Default  Posted: 9:17 PM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((NIK))))) Im so sorry for your loss.


BS/60s WS/60s Divorcing and not soon enough~!
Its nice to be important, but its more important to be nice...

DD 6-14


Posts: 3097 | Registered: Jul 2004 | From: somewhere over the rainbow
dameia
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Default  Posted: 9:22 PM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK)))

It sounds like he was a wonderful man. I'm sorry for you loss and I will keep your family in my prayers.


Me: BS
D-Day: 7/7/12

One should rather die than be betrayed. There is no deceit in death. It delivers precisely what it has promised. Betrayal, though ... betrayal is the willful slaughter of hope. ~Steven Deitz


Posts: 1138 | Registered: Jul 2012
Feelthrownaway
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Default  Posted: 9:43 PM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so sorry for your loss NIK. He sounds like he was a wonderful man and father. (hugs)


BW- 48
FWH-49
D-day- aug 16,2011
Married 22 years- together 25

What doesn't kill me, scars me.


Posts: 1021 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Down South
gonnabe2016
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Default  Posted: 9:49 PM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

{{{NIK}}}


"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.


Posts: 8005 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Midwest
knightsbff
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Default  Posted: 11:17 PM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((NIK))))) I'm sorry for your sadness and grief. So happy you were able to be there with him for his peaceful passing and for your memories of his love. I'm glad the staff supported and cared for him and you all so well.


FWW 40's
D-day August 27, 2012
3 kids and 2 dogs

Posts: 1428 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Deep South, USA
hexed
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Default  Posted: 7:24 AM, July 23rd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((NIK))

I'm so sorry for your loss. Hope you're doing OK today.


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


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