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thebighurt
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Default  Posted: 5:09 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm very sorry for your loss.

This is one of the most beautiful, loving tributes I have ever read: (made me cry even before reading the poem.)

Dad always said that the best decision he ever made in his life to was ask Mom to marry him, the greatest fortune in his life was that she said yes, and his biggest joy was the family they built together - 9 children, 20 grandchildren, and 4 great grandchildren.

What a wonderful legacy they have left you. ((((NIK and family))))


Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

Posts: 2329 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: the Other Side
InnerLight
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Default  Posted: 5:27 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm sorry for your loss. Your. Dad sound like a great man with a big heart.

The poem is beautiful.


BS, age 53, d-day 6-2-08, divorced after 17 years and 20 together. dating again, living in the sticks with a cat. It's taking a long time to create new dreams and a new life but it is slowly coming together.

Posts: 5815 | Registered: Jun 2008 | From: Rural California
tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 5:37 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK))))
wishing you peace and warm happy memories to wrap you and your family.
Sending you strength during this time.

((((And strength))))


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 8489 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
Too_Trusting
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Default  Posted: 6:11 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh Nik,

I'm so incredibly sorry for your loss. I've also lost both of my parents, and it is truly heartbreaking. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.


"Anyone perfect must be lying; anything easy has its cost. Anyone plain can be lovely; anyone loved can be lost." Barenaked Ladies

Posts: 2466 | Registered: Jun 2002 | From: North Carolina
meaniemouse
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Default  Posted: 6:24 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so sorry for your loss. Healing thoughts to you and your family.


Act as if what you do matters. It does. William James

Posts: 2110 | Registered: May 2006 | From: Midwest
fraeuken
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Default  Posted: 6:26 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Dad always said that the best decision he ever made in his life to was ask Mom to marry him, the greatest fortune in his life was that she said yes, and his biggest joy was the family they built together - 9 children, 20 grandchildren, and 4 great grandchildren.

Condolences on the passing of your father. As sad as it is, you should be so tremendously proud of a man who accomplished all this. This is an accomplishment beyond words and not many today achieve it anymore.

Hugs and prayers to you and your family.


Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.

Posts: 1253 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: California
5454real
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Default  Posted: 6:40 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

my deepest condolences.


BH 51, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 20(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
“I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.”
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 2823 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
CheaterMagnet
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Default  Posted: 6:44 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry for your loss, but so glad for your good fortune in having such a wonderful man as your father.

Sending you peace and strength.

((((NIK))))


If Happy Ever After did exist, I would still be holding you like this.
All those fairly tales are full of shit.
One more fucking love song I'll be sick. ~ Maroon 5

Posts: 1030 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Kailua-Kona, HI
Lostly
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Default  Posted: 6:59 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so sorry. He sounds like an amazing man who lived a good life. My thought and prayers are with you.


BW 48 - Multiple d-days
Divorced 2012 after 19 yrs
6 smart, beautiful, amazing kids Dd 19; Ds 17; Dd 15; Ds 13; Ds 11; Dd 10

Sometimes I hear my voice, and it's been here, silent all these years. I've been here, silent all these years.


Posts: 93 | Registered: Jul 2014 | From: Australia
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 7:02 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

God bless, Honey. ((((HUGS)))


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9655 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
devasted30
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Default  Posted: 7:32 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((nik)))) so sorry for your loss. Hope you are doing okay.

Posts: 1162 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Ontario, Canada
fireproof
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Default  Posted: 7:32 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am sorry for your loss. Extremely beautiful words and a reminder of what is truly important.

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TrustedHer
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Default  Posted: 10:07 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

No matter how timely, or anticipated, it's still a great loss.

((nik))


Take care of yourself. There's a great future out there. It won't come to you; you have to go to it.

Posts: 5154 | Registered: Mar 2009 | From: DeepInTheHeartOf, TX
inconnu
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Default  Posted: 10:12 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((nik))) wish it could be some irl hugs, sweetie. so very sorry for your loss.


Say what you wanna say and let the words fall out...honestly
I wanna see you be brave

Pretty pretty please, don't you ever ever feel
Like you're less than, less than perfect


Posts: 12146 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: TX
caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 11:12 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((nik))))

My deepest condolences.

What a beautiful post. It is very clear that he was a special man and you have a special family.

Many many hugs and much cyber support.


Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

Posts: 5814 | Registered: May 2010 | From: a better place
Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 1:34 AM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You gave each other a great gift. Now you're both free to soar with the eagles. (((((NIK and family)))))


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karmahappens
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Default  Posted: 2:00 AM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The way you speak of both your parents makes it so easy to see why you are such a kind and loving person.

(((Hugs))) to you and your siblings , family and friends.

What a story your parents left. .. truly beautiful.

I am sorry for your loss NIK


“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd

Posts: 3800 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Massachusetts
Phoenix1
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Default  Posted: 2:08 AM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((NIK))

My most heartfelt condolences to you and your family.


BS - Me
XPOS - too many OW/OCs over 20+yrs
Kids - DDs 22,17 -DS20 Deceased
M Dissolved 2013

This above all: to thine own self be true, and it must follow, as the night the day, thou canst not then be false to any man ~ Shakespeare, Hamlet


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Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 7:39 AM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK)))


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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lynnm1947
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Default  Posted: 9:30 AM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My condolences and hugs for your bereavement, NIK.


Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!

"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks


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