Cheating Hurt by Infidelity
Betrayal Wayward Donations lying
Welcome

Forums

Guidelines

Find a Local Counselor

The Healing Library

Media

Contact Us
lies
cover
In Association with Amazon.com
Support
Infidelity -
-
like us on facebook
You are not logged in. Login here or register.
[Register]
Newest Member: sandihaze (45362)

Wayward Side     Print Topic    
User Topic: Withholding
heyjules2012
♀ New Member
Member # 38349
Stop  Posted: 11:05 AM, July 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Haven't been here in a while but have something new going on. Let me explain:
Our d-day was 1-1/2 years ago. One of our issues was (he felt) intimacy. I never withheld sex from him but wasn't into it as much as I could've. We did expirience hysterical bonding which really awakened me! OK I get it now and now he seems to be withholding from me! We are less active than even during his affair. When I mention this he thinks that I'm using sex to make sure we are OK and that's not it at all!! It's starting to really hurt because I think wow he hasn't even touched me besides good bye pecks in 3 days!! What do you guys think?

-------------------------------------------------


BS(me)38 WH(him)38
D-Day 12/1/12
Together 15, married 11
Trying to R

Posts: 28 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: WI
DrJekyll
♂ Member
Member # 43618
Default  Posted: 11:17 AM, July 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

heyjules

Your post is going to get pulled, BS can't start a thread in wayward. I think that you will get a lot of comments on this, I might recommend reposting this in general. And encourage WS answers.

on to advice. have you approached as to why he has less MOJO? without being accusatory or defensive?


I am no longer Dr. Jekyll or Mr. Hyde. I am me, and they are both part of me.

"If you don't eat the elephant in one bite, it might trample you while chewing"

ME: WH HER: BS (holesinmybucket)

no stop sign = BS always welcome
I d


Posts: 712 | Registered: Jun 2014 | From: United States
Aubrie
♀ Member
Member # 33886
Default  Posted: 11:20 AM, July 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Are you sure he's not back in the A?

Is he on ADs?


Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne


Posts: 6309 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: South, Y'all!
DrJekyll
♂ Member
Member # 43618
Default  Posted: 12:41 PM, July 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

reposted in Reconciliation

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=535156


I am no longer Dr. Jekyll or Mr. Hyde. I am me, and they are both part of me.

"If you don't eat the elephant in one bite, it might trample you while chewing"

ME: WH HER: BS (holesinmybucket)

no stop sign = BS always welcome
I d


Posts: 712 | Registered: Jun 2014 | From: United States
SI Staff
Moderator
Member # 10
Red  Posted: 1:45 PM, July 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

BSs are not to start threads in the Wayward Forum. Please review the forum descriptions.

Thank you.


Posts: 10000 | Registered: May 2002
Topic Posts: 5

Return to Forum: Wayward Side Lock This Topic is Locked
adultry
Go to :
madness  
© 2002 - 2014 SurvivingInfidelity.com. All Rights Reserved.