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User Topic: BS questions for WS' thread
BrokenButTrying
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Default  Posted: 7:18 AM, July 1st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I know most of us are really busy, there's been loads of great threads here recently with lots of amazing progress updates and useful insights, everyone is doing great!

There's a new thread for the BS' to ask us questions down in ICR, it's not had much wayward traffic recently. If you get a minute could you pop over there and share some of your wisdom? I know that every answer is appreciated.


Me - 27
Him - 27
Madhatters

My Ddays - 01/10 & 12/04/14
His Dday - 23/12/13

Chin up. Unwavering. Fight. I can do this.


Posts: 1235 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: UK
20WrongsVs1
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Default  Posted: 8:33 AM, July 1st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Months ago it seems like there was one question a week, but lately it's practically quotidian.

Good job holding down the fort, BBT.

Sometimes there are no answers because, well, some questions have no answers.


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BH: 52
DDay: April 21, 2013
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"Between stimulus and response there’s a space, in that space lies our power to choose our response, in our response lies our growth and our freedom." V. Frankl

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BrokenButTrying
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Default  Posted: 9:30 AM, July 1st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I know, 20wrongs. Sometimes I really don't know how to answer but I think as a collective, WS can help. Even if it's to say there is no logical explanation!


Me - 27
Him - 27
Madhatters

My Ddays - 01/10 & 12/04/14
His Dday - 23/12/13

Chin up. Unwavering. Fight. I can do this.


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DrJekyll
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Default  Posted: 9:39 AM, July 1st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Isn't it most of the time no logical explanation or at minimum irrational


Moving from Jekyll the destroyer to Jekyll the rebuilder.

"If you don't eat the elephant in one bite, it might trample you while chewing"

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no stop sign = BS always welcome
I do not PM with women


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BrokenButTrying
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Default  Posted: 9:49 AM, July 1st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sometimes, DJ. If the nature of the questions is 'why' or 'how'.

But sometimes it's a practical question or to ask our own experience of an A, our healing etc.

I don't have all the answers but if I can help at all, I'll try my best.


Me - 27
Him - 27
Madhatters

My Ddays - 01/10 & 12/04/14
His Dday - 23/12/13

Chin up. Unwavering. Fight. I can do this.


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DrJekyll
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Default  Posted: 9:56 AM, July 1st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

BBT I get that. Just an observation on my own experience. Fyi I did go over there and respond


Moving from Jekyll the destroyer to Jekyll the rebuilder.

"If you don't eat the elephant in one bite, it might trample you while chewing"

ME: WH HER: BS (holesinmybucket)

no stop sign = BS always welcome
I do not PM with women


Posts: 699 | Registered: Jun 2014 | From: United States
BrokenButTrying
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Default  Posted: 10:07 AM, July 1st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me - 27
Him - 27
Madhatters

My Ddays - 01/10 & 12/04/14
His Dday - 23/12/13

Chin up. Unwavering. Fight. I can do this.


Posts: 1235 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: UK
authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 6:14 AM, July 2nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

BBT, I always see you on there and I am so happy that you take the time.

It's funny, I get on there and I get overwhelmed. Sometimes I can relate and try to answer but other times I just do my mod catching-up and leave. Sometimes the answer is too painful for me to type out. That forum is quite the mirror for the WS, isn't it?

I'll try to get in there more and respond.

Thanks for the reminder.


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


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BrokenButTrying
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Default  Posted: 6:32 AM, July 2nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's why I like answering. If a question is uncomfortable for me then I try to answer as best I can. It helps me as well as the person asking the question!

You mods and guides must be so busy it must be hard to answer everything but you do a fantastic job.


Me - 27
Him - 27
Madhatters

My Ddays - 01/10 & 12/04/14
His Dday - 23/12/13

Chin up. Unwavering. Fight. I can do this.


Posts: 1235 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: UK
authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 6:45 AM, July 2nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

If a question is uncomfortable for me then I try to answer as best I can. It helps me as well as the person asking the question!
Good point! It's the stuff that's tough that we need to keep looking at!

You mods and guides must be so busy it must be hard to answer everything but you do a fantastic job.

Thank you. WH5 brought that up on the ask the staff thread...one thing about being a mod is that you do get away from directly posting as a member sometimes. I do miss that, but try to continue to do it as much as I can. I guess it mostly depends on what's going on in my real life and how busy I am, how much the kids are around, etc.


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


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