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User Topic: My truck was broken into....
She11ybeanz
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Angry  Posted: 12:09 PM, June 26th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So, this morning I rush outside to pack my SUV up with my workout bag, diaper bag, lunch bag, purse, and the rest of my daily entourage of crap that I have to take with me regularly. This is when I notice my glove box is wide open.... so I go over to that side of the car to investigate. Now, please understand....I'm a very methodical type of person and I put things in certain places. This is when I realized my GPS and my new purple phone car charger are missing.

Bastards.

My dad's truck was broken into a couple of weeks ago and we have both been trying to be very careful about locking up. I think last night I must have forgotten for the 1st time in forever. I think they have been checking regularly. They had to have been because I am very good at locking up and usually make a very concerted effort to do so.....

But, they still got me. I feel so dumb.

So, tonight after the gym, I will be filing a police report just like my dad did to have it on file. I know that my stuff is as good as POOFed gone but at least I can make a record of this and maybe get more surveillance for my neighborhood.....IDK.

Have any of you bought one of those dummy LED red light car alarms that just flash a red light to deter burglary? I can get something like that for like $6 on Ebay.

[This message edited by She11ybeanz at 12:11 PM, June 26th (Thursday)]


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Whalers11
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Default  Posted: 3:03 PM, June 26th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What a bummer. This was happening in my neighborhood a while ago. No forcible entry but some cars that had been left unlocked had been gone through.

I try to always remember to lock my car, even if it's in broad daylight and parked in the driveway while I'll run inside for a couple minutes.


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She11ybeanz
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Default  Posted: 3:43 PM, June 26th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I usually ALWAYS lock my vehicle up. This one night I had carried a bunch of bags in the house, I had my toddler to herd in, and I was starving and had to get some chicken thawed to throw on the grill. I needed a shower and it was late in the evening....like already close to 8. I just got distracted.

I think these people have been stalking our house because there is NO WAY it was a coincidence that the ONE night I forget to lock my car....it just happens to get broken into......I think they have been trying it regularly.....which REALLY creeps me out!!!

I think its the people across the street. I know I'm stereotyping...but there are some young white guys across the street who wear their pants halfway down their butts and scream at you if you walk past them. They are always hanging out on their porch people watching and make me very uncomfortable. They yelled something at me one day when I was on my bike and my daughter was in the trailer I was pulling. I didn't acknowledge them for her sake. Something about them and their company always makes me uneasy. But, its hard to say. I have no proof. It could have been anyone! But, I think its someone who lives nearby because my dad's truck was broken into just a few weeks ago......I guarantee by the same people!!!


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Gottagetthrough
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Default  Posted: 9:17 PM, June 26th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

that sucks. A few years ago my sister had her window broken and a briefcase and her Coach purse taken. =(

HUGS


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Jeaniegirl
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Default  Posted: 9:38 PM, June 26th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Watch for them to congregate on the porch, get a ladder and put up some 'cams' around the house, aimed to the street and driveway. If you can't afford real cams, put up fake cams. Anything with a battery that might have a blinking light. Even old movie cams would work. They would probably be afraid to come check out to see if they are real.

I really hate being violated like that! I live out in the country on a dead-end road and know all my neighbors and I still lock my car at night if I don't have it in the garage.


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Myname
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Default  Posted: 10:41 PM, June 26th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Reading this made me so mad for you.

I'm really sorry. Hopefully karma comes their way.


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She11ybeanz
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Default  Posted: 8:20 AM, June 27th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I made a police report this morning. I doubt anything will come of it, but I'm still going to get the "dummy" LED light alarm system to put in my cigarette lighter and maybe replace my car charger just because I really liked that new purple one.....dang it!

I'm frustrated....but it is what it is I guess.


"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

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HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
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Default  Posted: 8:23 AM, June 27th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Go to Best Buy or look on Amazon for a home security system. You don't need anything fancy...just a couple camera's to mount and the base station to record.

You can probably find one for under $200.00


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Myname
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Default  Posted: 8:26 AM, June 27th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I've heard that thieves look for the little mark on windshields from the gps suction cup. Then they know that a GPS is probably in the car. Also, hide your charger.

I need to start hiding the tools in my truck a little better.


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She11ybeanz
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Default  Posted: 8:59 AM, June 27th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks ya'll for the tips....I had actually gotten "lax" on the suction thingy for the GPS and had been just plugging it in my cigarette lighter (since I don't smoke I use it for GPS and charging my phone) when I needed it and stored it in my glove box. My purple charger was bright and probably stood out which may have enticed the thief.... I will make sure to secure all valuables better in a place that no one can see them OR just remove them from my vehicle going forward.....

I will definitely look into a security system for the future. I think these guys aren't done and will keep targeting our vehicles. I strongly believe its someone who lives nearby since we have been targeted twice in a few weeks now. We have already purchased a motion sensored light to come on when there is motion in the driveway going forward because the old light has stopped working, thus making it easier as well. I think if they are spot lighted, they might make a run for it....

I had also slyly considered chicken wire or fishing wire across the driveway entrance from fence to fence at night.... it would be slightly comical to hear a "trip SMACK" when one of those jerks trips over the wire and faceplants on the driveway.... on private property! Awwwww..... did you fall and break your nose!? How about a little PEPPERSPRAY to make you feel all better!!!!

But, that's the redhead in me coming out....

[This message edited by She11ybeanz at 9:02 AM, June 27th (Friday)]


"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

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HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12


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Jeaniegirl
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Default  Posted: 12:47 PM, June 27th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Another tip, get a guy friend to come over, do some work around the house like he's putting in a security system ... then plant the security system sign in the front.

Things like this happens to everyone, cams or not. Just saw a news story yesterday where a large parcel was taken (in broad daylight) from the front porch of a local judge. The dude is on camera taking the parcel. Pity the fool when he's identified as this judge is known as the 'hanging judge.'


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tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 2:39 PM, June 27th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Put up some motion detector lights. If your dad is older he should have them anyway, so he doesn't stumble or trip if he comes home after dark.

Look on CL for a used Go-Pro or Used Trail-Cam, and get some pics of these Aholes, then bait it up. Leave a box, of something they would think is valuable, Microwave, TV, blue-ray etc. Stop at best buy and get an empty box.
Get your proof, and call the cops.


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