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User Topic: Divorce support group
StillLivin
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Default  Posted: 3:09 PM, June 6th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I went to my first session in a divorce support last night.
There were about 10 of us. Only 2 didn't mention an affair. Of the 2, his wife gave every sign of being a WS. He just didn't suspect or didn't have proof.
That is the sad news. However, it was good to see how far I've come in my healing. I hope through all of the knowledge I've gained through SI that I can be a support to others in my new group as others here on SI have been a support to me.
My heart broke for some of the pain I witnessed in this session. That was me in June just a year ago. It was amazing to see that we really can recover from such a painful betrayal. Not just the A, but the further betrayals of the WS as they kept twisting the knife in with their emotional abuse after discovery of the A.
Are there any others that went to support groups? How did it help you? Were you able to be a help to others following in the same path you traveled previously?


I don't need further confirmation of what a fuckwit he is. I already have plenty, thanks very much. -SBB
D: 7/2/2014

Posts: 2263 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: AZ
justinpaintoday
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Default  Posted: 3:19 PM, June 6th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am going to a local one in a couple weeks. Excited for the learning and fellowship with others walking in my steps through D. It is Christian based which fits well for me.


I never realized you could be in this much pain and not be dying.

Posts: 700 | Registered: Mar 2014
hurtyetstrong
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Default  Posted: 3:20 PM, June 6th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I've been looking into joining a divorce support group as I'm sick of discussing things with my friends/family and also at the end of the day, WH is the father of my children so I do want to protect some details from getting to my kids down the line. I feel like a support group would be a safe place to share freely.

Glad it worked well for you.


Me: BW (30)
Him: WH (31)
2 DDs - 4yrs & 18mo (as of May 2014)

multiple PAs

Filed for divorce May 16, 2014


Posts: 156 | Registered: Feb 2013
StillLivin
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Default  Posted: 3:26 PM, June 6th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I can't say enjoy, but I was really glad that I went. I almost didn't because of homework. Glad I decided to go after all.
Just...mine is a Christian-based support group too.
I signed a confidentiality type of clause, so I can't give details. But one young, gorgeous lady, got to see true karma with her WS. She was able to give a snicker to the group with her story. She was still devastated, but she is going to be ok down the road!!!


I don't need further confirmation of what a fuckwit he is. I already have plenty, thanks very much. -SBB
D: 7/2/2014

Posts: 2263 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: AZ
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