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User Topic: First Post: Hello Fellow Thrivers
Riskybusiness
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Member # 43475
Default  Posted: 3:41 PM, June 5th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am not just surviving, I am thriving!
Darling hubby and I, married 21+ years, four amazing kids. First discovered his infidelity 9 years ago. Separated one year and after much work (on both sides!?) reunited. Followed by His many relapses over the last 8 years and new emotional affair discovered 9 months ago, have been separated since and pursuing divorce.
Ugh, this divorce rigmarole is crap! Have had a mediocre mediator and should be FINALLY receiving our mediation report next week! (Been three months meeting with this guy). Hoping to be finally nearing the end!
Marriage is "risky business"!


Me-39
STBX-41
Married 21 years
DD-19, DD-17, DS-15, DD-11

Rejoice in hope, persevere in tribulation, be devoted to prayer. Romans 12:12


Posts: 35 | Registered: May 2014 | From: United States
devistatedmom
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Default  Posted: 7:39 PM, June 5th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Welcome RB. I'm sorry you have to go through this, but it sounds like you have a good attitude about it!


BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.

WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.


Posts: 5405 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Canada
Tripletrouble
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Default  Posted: 7:45 PM, June 5th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Welcome RB! This is an awesome group and we are sorry you're here but glad to have you!


40 somethings - me BW after 20 years
D Day April 2013
Divorced November 2013

Be happy with what you have while you work for what you want - Hellen Keller


Posts: 621 | Registered: May 2013
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 8:15 PM, June 5th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Welcome, RB! Nine years is a long time to be dealing with this crap. Glad you're nearing the end.


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


Posts: 24744 | Registered: Aug 2011
justinpaintoday
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Default  Posted: 8:19 PM, June 5th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

RB: At first i read your post and was "wow" how can you seem d chipper. But realizing you have been battling for 9 tears at least, you are finally getting free from the prison of an unfaithful marriage.

I hope you will truly find peace and comfort in your new adventure. Welcome to SI


I never realized you could be in this much pain and not be dying.

Posts: 700 | Registered: Mar 2014
PurpleRose
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Default  Posted: 6:19 AM, June 6th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Welcome Risky! I am glad you found us. I cannot imagine 9 years of that. Hope you get the report soon and finish with that part... It really drains you when it drags on and on!


divorced the Dooosh
*****************************
even if you find your voice,
sometimes it does not matter anymore,
when you speak to a man who is deaf by choice.
~dodinsky

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