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Topic: The similarities
Member # 40229
Posted: 5:27 PM, June 4th (Wednesday), 2014
I spoke with a friend who just recently D her H. She thinks he may have had an A, but the reason she D him is because he had a sex change operation.
It was crazy how similar his behavior is to a WS after she filed for D. He accused her of all kinds of crap, blameshifting, projecting, and having her walk on eggshells these days trying to keep the monster at bay until the sale of the home is finalized.
Personally, I think he did have a few As in the mix but her setting boundaries and refusing to stay M to a woman who started off as a man is what finally set him off.
Crazymaking how not just adultery, but any action that brings embarrassment or shame makes a person act like this. I've always wondered about his selfishness in their M and many times suspected he was a cheater by things she told me over the years.
I have no problem with folks changing their sex through surgeries, but to marry someone so much younger to fill his void instead of facing who he/she really was instead was the epitome of selfishness.
I don't need further confirmation of what a fuckwit he is. I already have plenty, thanks very much. -SBB
Posts: 2141 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: AZ
Member # 40115
Posted: 8:37 PM, June 4th (Wednesday), 2014
Yep. The selfishness that enables affairs spans all ages, genders, and preferences. Amazing how we can see it all now on the other side. As they say, hindsight is 20/20.
Edited to correct stupid typos.
Two steps forward and one step backwards, is still progress.
Posts: 1520 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Illinois, USA
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