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nekorb
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Default  Posted: 7:50 AM, June 4th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OMG Jennifer.

I don't know that I'll be any help taking care of a newborn until I get myself used to this schedule so you're on your own there.

Thanks for spelling that out, fuckwit, she hadn't figured that out on her own already.

Asshat.

Get something in writing for him to sign stating when he is and is not responsible for your son. So you can hold his balls to the fire if he doesn't do what he is supposed to do.


Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 aka CAT- colossal asshat; Married 22 years
D-day: July 17, 2013, with TT to follow
D filed July 16, 2014, 363 days later than I should have
Psalms 27:14
Wait for The Lord; be strong and take heart. Wait for the Lord.

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Jennifer99
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Default  Posted: 10:58 AM, June 4th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks all! I get to speak with L today. I think I'm just going to print and speak from what you all just posted LOL.

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nekorb
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Default  Posted: 2:40 PM, June 5th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How'd it go?


Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 aka CAT- colossal asshat; Married 22 years
D-day: July 17, 2013, with TT to follow
D filed July 16, 2014, 363 days later than I should have
Psalms 27:14
Wait for The Lord; be strong and take heart. Wait for the Lord.

Posts: 1813 | Registered: Aug 2013
Jennifer99
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Default  Posted: 3:55 PM, June 5th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Excuse my kindle typing.

Went well. Either stbx's antics I listed made L see how bad it was I needed more action or I was uber-bitchy about thinking he as L was being lazy.

There are steps he can take for temporary measures while waiting for the normal process. Hopefully I don't look vindictive just dealing with a rational need for Ds and I to gain some stability.

And the last affordable house on my list was a very smelly dud. Sad thinking I am going to have to up my buying range which will still put me beliw the ridiculous rents here. L said temp measures could be amended if I find a place.


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Jennifer99
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Default  Posted: 3:59 PM, June 5th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Can I also add - I think it is funny that regadrless of what the delusional whole CLAIMS this baby is assumed to be his until he proves otherwise which he has to pay for and I only have to reimburse in the case I am lying. Which I am not. L said it is stbxs problem to figure out paternity testing route and I only need to make baby available for swabwhenever that is.

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