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User Topic: some more progress
Alyssamd24
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Default  Posted: 5:28 PM, May 26th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Today BH, DD, and I went to a cookout at my in-laws. Since its Monday my BH could only stay til 12:30... I had assumed that when he left DD and I would also leave.

But surprisingly my MIL offered to give me and DD a ride home later in the afternoon when we were ready to leave...I was shocked that she offered cuz I didnt think she would want me to stay once my BH left.

I ended up leaving with my BH so I could pick up my car and then went back to my inlaws and DD and I spent two more hours there! !


"I need to be redeemed to the one I've sinned against because he's all I ever knew of love"

Posts: 880 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Massachusetts
badchoice
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Default  Posted: 5:30 PM, May 26th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Really happen for you and the family. Makes me happy to see progress!


Me: fWH/BH 46

Separated transitioning to D


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timidhope
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Default  Posted: 6:56 PM, May 26th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm happy to hear things are progressing with your bh's family as well! It's so much easier for him if his family is willing to support his decision to stay and r.


DDay: April 2014

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Mrs Panda
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Default  Posted: 6:59 PM, May 26th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That is a big step. I know how you felt that MIL has isolated you. Did you tell BH how happy that made you?


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M 13years. Reconciled.
DDay#1 Nov 2008 (OM2)
DDay#2 Aug 2009 (Confessed to OM 2001)
"Those who believe in telekinetics, raise my hand." -Kurt Vonnegut

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Alyssamd24
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Default  Posted: 7:51 PM, May 26th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes I did! I told him I was surprised but extremely happy about it and that this was a huge thing...he agreed and also seemed very happy about it!

And the best thing is it wasn't as awkward as I thought it would be...I spent most of the time sitting with my MIL and SIL and talking with them.


"I need to be redeemed to the one I've sinned against because he's all I ever knew of love"

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