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User Topic: discovery deadlines? court?
ChoosingHope
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Default  Posted: 10:37 PM, May 23rd (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think that STBX is going to release a bunch of discovery the night before our trial begins. Does anyone know if he is allowed to do this? I don't know how we're going to prepare for it.

Thank you.


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dmari
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Default  Posted: 10:51 PM, May 23rd (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

In my state, we were given four weeks to produce "discovery" stuff. I don't think turning it in the night before trial is going to fly.


Me (BS): 42 Children: DD 18, DS 15
Settled at mediation
Officially divorced ... SOON!

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Default  Posted: 10:59 PM, May 23rd (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Discovery deadline should be earlier than that. His doing this won't look good to the judge, since we already know he doesn't care about rules or deadlines.

If he does, your lawyer might consider asking for a continuance.


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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ChoosingHope
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Default  Posted: 12:01 AM, May 24th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you, both.

I have been supplementing my discovery all along, for the past two years and nine months. But I just supplemented a few things again yesterday, and I know the judge thinks that's okay, or my attorneys wouldn't have done it.

He's got three more days: Sat, Sun, Mon (the holiday). I'm guessing he chooses Sunday or Monday. It's going to be a real circus because he hasn't supplemented anything for at least nine months, PLUS we don't have some of the most basic stuff from him in the first place.

I'm guessing he tries for Monday. Let's see what the judge says. The most important thing in my LIFE is not to delay anymore. I simply can't afford to continue.

I'm guessing he's going to release some real email doozies that I sent to him right after D-day in 2011. Everyone thinks I'm crazy for worrying about this, given what he's done. But of course I'm worried. I can't remember exactly what I wrote, but I'm sure I sounded unhinged.

Then again, I WAS a bit unhinged to find out that he was leading a double life.


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dmari
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Default  Posted: 1:13 AM, May 24th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

When is your court date? My stbx supplied his recent tax return and an ATM receipt that showed his balance. I'm not sure if it matters in the end or what but I wish/hope the judge would chew his ass off over his antics and lies. I'll find out on Thursday and let you know unless your court date is sooner.


Me (BS): 42 Children: DD 18, DS 15
Settled at mediation
Officially divorced ... SOON!

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ChoosingHope
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Default  Posted: 7:41 AM, May 24th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Tuesday - I'll let you know what happens

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