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User Topic: Beep Beep Here Comes the Karma Bus
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Default  Posted: 10:17 AM, May 23rd (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I will be divorced from WXH for a year this summer and already Karma has come to settle up her debt with him.

I found out yesterday he lost his job. The job he had for twenty years. The only real job he ever had.

When I heard he got laid off, I couldn't resist. I texted his work cell phone. The message bounced, twice. So I called his work cell. Weird busy signal. So I called his desk phone. His voice greeting gone and replaced with the standard "this voicemail box is no longer...". I was surprised. He's gone.

The funny thing about it is I warned him. Two years ago I told him to give me his resume so I could update it because his company was giving all the signs to him that if a layoff came he would be next. He poo pooed me and never gave me his resume. And now look.

I wonder if any of OW's will pay his bills and keep him warm now.

Me - BW
Him - WH
Divorced - 7/2013

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Default  Posted: 10:19 AM, May 23rd (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

High five.

Me: BH
Her: WW
Together since 2001, married since 2007.
D-day: Feb. 20, 2013.
Broke NC: 2 phone calls since
Today: In MC and IC, attempting R.
It got easier: They no longer work together.

Posts: 507 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: Canada
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Default  Posted: 1:04 PM, May 23rd (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

fist bump!

Me (BS): 42 Children: DD 18, DS 15
Settled at mediation
Officially divorced ... SOON!

Posts: 2124 | Registered: Oct 2012
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Default  Posted: 4:17 PM, May 23rd (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Edited to correct stupid typos.

Two steps forward and one step backwards, is still progress.

Posts: 1547 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Illinois, USA
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Default  Posted: 9:52 PM, May 23rd (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well, you know, PhillyGirl, since you warned him 2 yrs ago about this possibility, somehow it's going to be your fault he was canned…. You predicted it and now it has happened…. you must have special powers.

Actions ALWAYS have consequences. Too bad cheaters don't consider the consequences BEFORE they create so much damage.

Posts: 435 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Massachusetts
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Default  Posted: 10:00 PM, May 23rd (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Go Karma Bus!! Karma snowplow got my STBXWH car over Christmas. It was joyous, and I celebrated.

Posts: 162 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: Upstate New York
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Default  Posted: 11:22 PM, May 23rd (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Classically your Xh just wouldn't listen.

Justice served.

BS: Me (63yo)
FWH: HIM (65yo) serial infidelities over past 35 years
OW: Many, most recent 1/2 his age
DD: Multiple unconfirmed until 2012 when I presented evidence, plus LTA with his friends wife lasting 10 years. TT over past year
So done,

Posts: 600 | Registered: Jul 2012
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Default  Posted: 12:09 AM, May 24th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Big LIKE to Gemini's post!
My XWH was let go the year of Dday from a company he had been with for several years. It was a small family based company and I tend to think his showing up at the company picnic with OW a few months after Dday influenced the decision. Lol. ;-)

Me: BW-43
Him: XWH-43
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling

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